You know, it is better to raise the poor and the rich than to raise the rich. For example, China's parents should learn from the "Nine Family Rules" set by US President Barack Obama for their daughters.
Speaking of former US President Barack Obama, we all know that he has two outstanding daughters, who were admitted to Harvard University and the University of Michigan respectively. Their education on the road to success is indispensable. Obama's education for his daughter is summed up as "Nine Laws", which can be said to be the highlight of many families' children's learning.
These nine family rules are a condensed version of correct family education and have become the slogan of every parent's education. Every family rule reveals the upbringing, and only the small details in life are well done, and these small details often reveal the upbringing of children.
1. Don't complain and quarrel at will, cultivate children's life attitude of getting along with others, and make children become more active under complaints.
2. Keeping the toy room clean and tidy, playing the finishing touch every time, keeping the toy room clean and tidy can cultivate children to finish what they started and improve their self-discipline ability.
3. Do your own thing independently, cultivate children's independence, let children be independent and actively meet difficulties and challenges.
4. Children must develop the habit of making beds, develop children's neat living habits, and make their lives orderly.
Help parents share housework, let children learn to share responsibilities, exercise their ability to do housework, and experience the hardships and skills of doing housework.
6. Without luxurious big parties, big parties in family life are easy to cultivate children's vanity and are also very wasteful. It's not worth it just for your own happiness.
7. Turn off the lights at 8: 30 every night on time, which is conducive to cultivating children's normal work and rest habits. The growth of sleeping children is very important and will affect their physical and mental health.
8. Arrange your spare time and train your children to manage their time. Children know how to use time and cherish it.
9. Learn to manage your emotions, manage your facial emotions, be the master of emotions, protect children from emotional manipulation, and improve their emotional intelligence.
1. Parents should set an example and make their children obey themselves.
Parents should set an example in front of their children. If parents don't give their children a good start, how can children convince themselves and listen to themselves? Children will only be angry with you. Therefore, parents should lead by example, set an example for their children, make them obedient, and slowly correct their behavior under the educational atmosphere of parents.
Parents should not force their children to make family rules, but should guide them slowly.
In the face of children's unreasonable troubles and incomprehension of parents' practices, if parents don't let go of their temper at this time, they will only leave a shadow on their children. Some children even rebel against their parents and their relationship with them becomes stiff, which is not the original intention of their parents. Therefore, parents should guide their children slowly, let go of their temper, guide them patiently, reason with their children, and believe that children will understand their parents' practices.
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In educating children, every parent should not only find the right educational methods, but also have a set of correct educational methods to let children absorb the essence of your education. This requires parents to set an example and patiently guide their children to become more educated.
I am the mother of Xiao C and a 5-year-old baby. In the process of raising and educating children, you can ask me any questions. I hope my advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your baby and let our children grow up better!