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Why do I still have no friends after four years in college?
Why can college roommates only be roommates?

If you feel lonely,

That feeling is probably: I want to talk to someone, look at the dormitory, and even dare not disturb me by calling my name.

I still remember when I first entered the university, my fighting spirit was high.

Study hard and make friends with roommates. But later, in this strange city and school, I still have no friends.

There should be no good friends.

Maybe everyone is about to enter the society and has grown up. There is no such thing as getting into a bed, sleeping together, going out to eat, drink and hang out together in junior high school.

Everyone is mature.

It seems that I haven't met the feeling of "meeting each other for a long time" or "feeling like brothers".

It seems that as I grow up, I don't want to know anyone again.

In middle school, I seemed interested in meeting new friends. I spend most of my time with my classmates and have already made an appointment to go out for a holiday. But in college, it's different. The way to get along with college friends: it's normal at ordinary times, and you will lose contact after the holiday.

And if you don't take the initiative to approach others and don't let others take the initiative to approach your personal charm, it will be difficult to make friends.

Then the only possibility of occasional contact is that the team work assigned by the teacher needs you to complete together. With this connection and a short communication period, it is difficult to become best friends.

I remember in college, there was a girl in the dormitory next door. When other roommates were playing games and gossiping, she didn't participate at first, and because she loves headphones when she usually goes out or in the dormitory, her roommates didn't take the initiative to call her. Over time, she was isolated by her roommate.

I find it incredible, but it's true.

In the university dormitory, it is really a very happy thing if you can meet very good friends and have your own "short meeting".

Well, if not, don't worry.

No matter at which stage of life, life is not satisfactory. Get used to this life, love it and enrich it.

Sometimes you don't have to spend your time with people you don't like. Wouldn't it be better to keep it for yourself?

This is another novelty,

After all, it is not easy to have many friends, be financially independent, have a harmonious family, and be excellent in school.

I have heard a saying: everything in the present is the foundation of the future.

So don't worry about having intimate friends, but grasp what you can get now. When God closes a door, he opens a window. What we lack in this place will always be obtained in another place.

Then, I hope you can calm down before falling in love.