1, we can make progress together.

We all want to get better and better. The reason why we choose a new life is to have a better expectation and longing for the future.

In the relationship between two people, we must ensure that both sides are making progress.

Only in this way can we witness each other's growth and maintain a healthy relationship.

Step 2 be considerate of each other

When two people take care of each other, they can neither interfere with each other, nor delay their normal work, nor can they maintain the sweetness of love.

When the other party is busy, he knows how to understand and be considerate; When she works late, she can take her favorite food home.

3. Be yourself.

Only in front of outsiders can you get used to camouflage, and in front of the most beloved person, you must be the truest yourself.

Or you'll pretend for life. How tired you are.

But being the truest self doesn't mean letting you indulge your bad habits at will. For example, it is fun not to wash your hair for a few days occasionally, but it will inevitably make people feel uncomfortable.

4. There is enough space

No matter how good the relationship is, it is impossible to stick together all the time.

It is best to have your own hobbies and work circles. When he is fighting for his career, you also have your own things to work hard. When he plays ball with friends, you can also go shopping and have afternoon tea with colleagues and girlfriends.

Don't put all your energy on each other, and don't let yourself have nothing but each other.

5. Don't be stingy with praise

Couples who have been together for too long always automatically ignore each other's advantages, but often look at each other's shortcomings with a magnifying glass.

In fact, each of us wants to be noticed, praised and valued, and sincerely express our appreciation, which will really make each other feel good all day.

When she changes her hair style and tries on new clothes, remember to tell her that "she has a good figure and really suits you";

When he comes home from work and brings back your favorite dessert, be sure to tell him "thank you, dear, I am very happy with you".

6. Have the same topic.

Not only a life partner, but also a spiritual partner.

We can discuss "what to eat at night" and "where to put the newly bought chest of drawers" together, and we can also exchange some hot topics in society; I can express my opinion in order to choose what car to buy, or I can express my opinion on the way back from the movie.

Can understand each other's hearts, can reach their respective points, no matter how long apart, have the same topic, can chat together.

7, can keep fresh

Long-term dull life, there will always be some heartfelt boredom. After all, people are essentially fond of the new and tired of the old.

But if we can give each other some small surprises, even the dull days will ripple, life will be more ceremonial and the feelings between two people will be sweeter.

For example: get up early to make a loving breakfast for each other, buy a small gift for each other, and write down what you want to say to each other with a card.

8. Don't always want to control each other.

Whether you are husband and wife, father, daughter or mother, everyone is an independent and free individual.

Being too controlling, in addition to making people feel suffocated, will not help any relationship substantially, but will make the other person want to leave you.

A healthy and high-quality relationship must rely on strong attraction between each other.