Opponents are friends, not enemies.
"wow! It takes only 7 seconds and 6 seconds to run 50 meters! " The whole class exclaimed and everyone looked at him with admiration. As for him, he held his head high, clearly saying, "of course I am the first!" " "He is my opponent-Zhu Zhenyu. As for me, I'm always 50 meters behind him, ranking second, and I got the nickname "the second child of the Millennium".
Zhu Zhenyu was born to run fast. He joined the school track team in the first grade, but in the fourth grade, he stopped training because of his poor academic performance. At this time, I was recruited into the football team and was always liked by the football coach. During the training, I have been trying to run, kick and jump, hoping to surpass Zhu Zhenyu one day, but until the fifth grade, I still lagged behind him. However, I didn't give up because I was born with an indomitable spirit. I continued my unremitting training, and my face turned white. Suntanned. In a year's time, I don't know how many miles I ran or how much I sweated.
Finally, the sacred moment came, which was the 50-meter standard test in grade six. Zhu Zhenyu, who has always been regarded as the first in his class by his teachers and classmates, started running! Like a galloping horse on the grassland, he ran for 7.4 seconds, 0 faster than in the fifth grade. Two seconds is really stressful for me. It's my turn! I held my breath and could hear my heartbeat. "Get ready to run!" I shot out like an arrow leaving the string and flew forward with all my strength! Closer! Closer! Let's go Let's go I thumped my chest and pressed myself.
The teacher stared at the stopwatch, and everyone gathered around and held their breath, as if waiting for a "miracle" and a new record. "7 seconds!" The teacher was very excited to report the unexpected result! Everyone suddenly boiled, and I was very happy. I finally took off the hat of "Millennium second child"!
In fact, this is due to my opponent, Zhu Zhenyu, who gave me pressure and motivation, thus generating combat effectiveness and finally winning.
Zhu Zhenyu and I are rivals in track and field competitions, but we are good friends at ordinary times. At a sports meeting, I was the "running guard" of Zhu Zhenyu. When he finished the 100 meter, I immediately gave him the water bottle to replenish his strength and took out my chocolate to replenish his strength. He gasped and repeatedly said, "Thank you, thank you."
An "opponent" is someone who inspires you to surpass. He is not an enemy, but a friend. A classmate once asked me, "Who is your strongest opponent?" I said, "Zhu Zhenyu." "Then who is your best friend?" I said without hesitation, "Zhu Zhenyu!"
The real opponent is not others, but yourself.
Our real opponent is often not others, but ourselves. As long as we overcome ourselves and our weaknesses, we will win in the competition.
The fox cheated the crow of his flesh by flattering means, which made the crow very angry. The story is not over yet. After being cheated, the crow hated the fox for defrauding him of Chinese food by improper means. It vowed to learn a lesson and never be cheated by the fox again.
On this day, the crow stood on the tree with a piece of meat in its mouth and prepared a delicious meal. At this moment, the fox appeared quietly under the tree. The crow thought: don't try to play my bad idea, you annoying fox. After the last lesson, I will never listen to your flattery again. It's no use praising me as a fairy.
Just as the crow was thinking about how to guard against the fox's flattery, he suddenly heard the fox speak. The fox said, "crow, you big fool, big fool, big fool, do you remember the last time you were cheated by me and gave me delicious food for nothing?" It can be seen from this incident that you crows are the most useless animals in the world. If you have no face to live in this world, you might as well die. In case people say your jokes. "
The crow trembled with anger at the fox's words. It said angrily, "You foxes have done all the bad things, and you are not qualified to accuse us crows." You bad-hearted guys will get what you deserve sooner or later. "The crow wanted to continue talking, but suddenly he found that the meat in his mouth fell into the fox's mouth again. The fox gave a smug smile.
Fooled again, the crow said to himself. Very upset, but there is no way. It tells itself not only to have the ability to resist flattery, but also to resist abuse. Therefore, crows often practice their skills to deal with flattery and abuse. After repeated practice, crows can be calm and calm in the face of any flattery and abuse, and will never be moved by it.
The days passed day by day. On this day, the crow in the tree got another piece of meat. It decided to have it as lunch and enjoy it beautifully. Suddenly, the crow found the fox staying under the tree. The crow immediately raised his vigilance. He warned himself that no matter what the fox said, he would not open his mouth to see what he could do. So, it quietly waited for the fox to move with meat in its mouth. The crow thought, this time, he must retaliate against the fox and let the fox taste the taste of being cheated.
However, the crow waited for a long time and didn't hear the fox. The crow thought, didn't the fox find himself? The fox must know that I have a piece of meat in my mouth. Let it perform a trick and make a fool of itself. So it said to the fox, "What's your trick? Come out quickly. " Before it finished, I suddenly found that the meat in my mouth fell again.
Oh, my God, it's another trap. The crow beat his chest, but it didn't help.
Crows are disappointed in themselves.
So it went to the elephant for advice. It asks itself why it always beats its old rival, the fox. The elephant said, "You have been cheated many times because you have your own weaknesses. The fox has firmly grasped your weakness, so he can cheat the meat in your mouth at will. " . No matter what the fox does, it will beat you. In fact, your real opponent is yourself, not the fox. As long as he overcomes himself and his weaknesses, the fox will be at his wit's end. "
The real opponent is only himself.
You can have nine classes a day and study by yourself for two nights. You can finish two refills and make at least three sets of papers a day. You can get up early for ten minutes, sleep for ten minutes, and remember a few words and idioms. You can use the time of reading magazines to understand a math problem and finish an English reading. You can spend all your time studying karaoke, watching movies, partying and playing games. There is always someone who works harder than you. The terrible thing is that people who are better than you work harder than you.
The number of applicants for the college entrance examination is 910.5 million, including 907. 70,000 people are not in the same province as you. In the same province, 1 1,000 people were walked, 2,000 people were not confident about their employment after college, 8,000 people took naked exams, 9,000 people failed to perform normally, 1 1,000 people were late, 42,000 people failed to get into the same school with you, and the remaining 1 1,000 people were mentally ill. Your opponent is only yourself!
No matter how many hobbies you have.
No matter how many social connections you have, no matter how much you hate studying hard, at some point in your adolescence, you will understand that learning is more important than anything else. If you want nothing, you want learn to be lonely, and you must push yourself to the maximum potential.
No one will pay for your future. You either try to climb up or rot in the mud at the bottom of society. This is life.
It is difficult to get up at six o'clock, recite words and calm down, but there are always some people who can get up at five o'clock, recite six lessons a day and patiently finish reading a book. No one has super powers, but they can decide what to do in a day. You think there is no road, but the fact is that the road may be just a little ahead. People who are better than themselves are working hard. What reason do we have to stop?
If you want to get a new mobile phone after the college entrance examination. Buy a computer. Go to a concert. Enjoy a solo trip. You can sleep until you wake up naturally every morning. Don't worry about endless homework. Stop listening to your parents' nagging. Say confidently that I went out to play. Crazy in the street holding hands with lovers. When I met the head teacher, I pulled harder. So, go. At least 18 years old needs you in the summer vacation.
Which university do you want to go to?
Don't say it's just a dream. Last year's college entrance examination. There are countless exams. How do you know what the future will be like unless you try?
What kind of person do you want to be in ten years?
Even after a long time, I met someone I once had a crush on in the street or anywhere, laughed at the classmate you looked down upon, told you that you would never succeed, and was severely rejected by the teacher because you were not beautiful enough or excellent enough.
Those so-called high flyers, who didn't even look at you, can proudly raise their heads and say with a smile, you see, Lao Tzu is living better than you now, and you are still running around worrying about life, but I have lived the life I want.
If you want that moment, pick up your book one day. No great dream can be born of fantasy.
And any brilliant moment must come from every minute of hard work.
The human brain has unlimited potential. If a person's brain is fully developed, it is said that he can remember all the contents of more than 4,000 books in 26 languages.
Einstein, the smartest man in the world, only developed 12%. Don't use your stupidity as an excuse. If you really make a determined effort, who knows if you are the next Einstein?
Believe a word
No one will let you lose unless you don't want to win. Tell me I hate studying. Seriously, I don't understand the use of learning quadratic trigonometry. I agree with Ke Jingteng that after ten years, my life will have no mathematical signs, but I can still live a good life.
But that's not the reason why you don't study. To put it bluntly, you were born in China. In China's exam-oriented education, achievement is king. Without grades, you will have no self-confidence if you hold your head high. Are you stupid? No, then why not study hard?
Imagine that when you get good grades and all those teachers come to please you, you can proudly despise them, and even secretly tell you that you despise Laozi more than the middle finger. This is a cool thing.
If I meet you again in a few decades, I hope I can recognize you. No matter how much your face has changed, I hope you can keep a kind heart.
Don't be assimilated into the world in an instant.
Honey, isn't the score enough to hurt you? Are you comfortable in the final exam? Aren't you tired of making up your homework? Are you determined to work hard for three minutes at a time? Is the heat real? Are you used to scolding the top five brain-dead students? Do you keep your cell phone?
Everyone in WeChat Weibo updates you to become beautiful and handsome. Are you full? Waiting for the person you love, you are not in the mood to learn mobile phone chat. Will you get married? Wake up, dear, and don't forget to make your dream. Don't be silly. That's not the way you want to go.
As long as your grades are good and your parents like you, you support everything; Once your grades are ignored, your parents are dissatisfied with what you have done, make things difficult for you everywhere, and then pull out a lot of irrelevant past events. So it's great that you can avoid many family conflicts with your grades!
Learning is actually not that annoying. When you recite a whole page of politics, history and Chinese, people ask you if you can recite it confidently and get the admiration of others. When you struggled for a long time for a math and physics topic, you finally took it out and was praised by your classmates and teachers. When you finish the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, you don't have to worry about being encouraged by your parents and relatives like others. When you can spend your time freely, you are not afraid of being scolded by your parents, so you can safely throw away your grades. That sense of accomplishment is unparalleled. Everyone wants to be an excellent person. What can they do?
Since you can't learn to die, you must learn to die. If you spend an hour learning a lesson, do you think you will die? If you spend two hours doing only one math problem, do you think you will die? Do you think that classical Chinese, which made you a sucker, will kill you? You think you can't recite the outline of modern history in three hours? Do you think these will kill you? Since learning won't kill you, what are you afraid of? At the age of 65,438+05, you found it difficult to swim, so you gave up swimming. When you meet someone you like, you have to say. 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome you are at the beginning of your life, the lazier you are at studying. The later you go, the more likely you are to miss the people and things you are interested in. If you feel bored and crazy, just throw away the book, calm down for a second or two, then pick it up and continue reading. This is a simple and boring study, in order to shut up those gossips, not to regret after ten years, and to make my mother's temples have white hair.
For the sake of my father's drunken belly when socializing, and for the sake of the future, I can say without scruple: my high school is a history of blood and tears! But not a second was wasted.
I know, I know I study very well, maybe I really won't be very rich and powerful, but don't think I know a lot of words.
English can only speak Hi. Is it really good to live a decent life on the surface but have nothing?
no kidding
Being uneducated is terrible, and I know it's really hard to persist.
give it a try
Remember the child with 2 1 trisomy syndrome in the high school biology book? His name is Chen Feng. Twenty years later, he is a second-year graduate student at civil aviation university of china Airport College. Nothing can stop his success, so there is nothing to argue about having one more chromosome, young man.
Tetris tells us: the mistakes made will accumulate and the successes won will disappear; Plants vs. Zombies tells us that we should constantly adjust our state to meet different challenges; Angry birds tell us that sometimes in order to fly higher, we sink our bodies and minds; Go-karting tells us: never think that there is more time to waste; Fruit ninja tells us: fruits and bombs coexist, and opportunities and challenges coexist.
There must be opponents in life.
Reflections on Reading Invincible Youth
In the article, Wu and Zheng are equal opponents. Zheng always "provokes" Wu Shuo: "Do you think being handsome is great? ! "。 With the help of netizen "Zhang Wuji", Wu can always find the most useful teaching materials to practice. By chance, Zheng He and Wu teamed up to beat three students from Chengdong Middle School on the basketball court. When Wu was ready to make friends with Zheng, Zheng said, "At least now is not the time to shake hands. We must know that only two strong teams can compete to quickly improve their strength. "
I guess the netizen "Zhang Wuji" who refused to meet Wu in the article, but often helped him point out the learning direction, was his opponent Zheng. Therefore, Zheng is both Wu's opponent and friend, so they can tie for the first place in grade every time.
In our study and life, we should also have someone who is both a friend and an opponent, so as to improve rapidly in the competition. Even if someone disdains you, raises his chin and eyebrows, and challenges you with a slightly contemptuous tone, you should never be sad or angry. You should regard his provocation as a declaration of war, and you should show your strength to compete with him. When you gallop on the battlefield, you have gradually improved invisibly.
For another example, why should we go to school? First, of course, the school has professional teachers, systematic management and education. However, there is another potential advantage: there are many students of the same age in the school. Everyone can exchange different views on the same thing in communication, and also show their personal advantages, so that students can like their hobbies. There is also the ranking of grades, so you can know your level and make progress.
Opponents are not only for people, but also for the country. At present, although China is a big economic country, it is far from reaching the middle level in science and technology. Therefore, science and technology powers and powerful countries do not want the rise of China's science and technology, so they comment on many military equipment developed by China. Of course, there are also good guesses. For example, in a Canadian military magazine, foreign military inventors speculated on the future improvement trend of J-20 invented by China and how to improve it. Although it is not completely in line with China's plan, it can also provide some room for improvement after China. In short, competition and contest between countries can promote the development of world military and science and technology; Enhance the independent invention ability of countries.
People need opponents, enterprises also need opponents, and countries also need opponents, so they need opponents no matter what they do. With your opponent, you can get the pleasure of development and have an unprecedented sense of accomplishment.
We're not just rivals.
In the journey of life, it is often not parents who accompany us and spend our youth with us. More often, it is friends who accompany us. If a person is not accompanied by friends on the road of life, then he loses a person who cares about him, an unforgettable and eternal feeling and a joy from friendship. People who lack friendship are incomplete, because they have never felt the value of friendship, and they will never know that such feelings can transcend love or even family ties.
Friend, a warm word; On the field, we are not only rivals, but also friends. Because we are friends, no matter who wins or loses, everyone will not take it to heart, and we can still get along well, for nothing else, just because we are friends. Friends can sometimes not only resolve the contradiction between two people, but even make people pay everything for it. Friendship stresses honesty, loyalty, tolerance and respect. If you are dishonest with your friends, no one will want to make friends with you, because everyone is eager to be honest with your friends and doesn't want to be cheated or used. However, you must be firm in the face of principles, and you can't maintain the so-called "friendship" at the expense of principles. In today's society, loyalty is a very important quality of friendship. Friends should not only share happiness, but also share difficulties. If they can't tide over the difficulties with you just for "happiness", then such people can't make friends with him. Only those who are willing to face with you no matter what happens are good friends worthy of deep friendship. No one is perfect, and friends inevitably have shortcomings. Everyone is different, and there will be differences between friends. In life, we will have quarrels and contradictions with our friends. At this time, we should not blame each other too much, but should face up to our mistakes more, reflect and correct our mistakes while forgiving our friends, and appreciate, tolerate and communicate more, so that our friendship with friends will last longer.
When we are in a bad mood, friends will bring us happiness; When we are not confident enough, friends will bring us support; When we face failure, friends will bring us confidence and strength; It is also because having friends makes our life more colorful. Many times, we and our friends will be involved in interests, and friends are not tools that can be used. However, at this time, the contribution and sharing between us and our friends must be two-way. Only in this way can we achieve win-win or even win-win with our friends.
Getting along with friends is also a process of learning from each other When you see each other's mistakes, you must be honest with each other and persuade them to correct these shortcomings. While seeing each other's advantages, we should also make up for our shortcomings and improve ourselves better when we get along with friends. However, "those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to ink are black", so be willing to make friends if you don't make friends.
Friendship is hard-won, so we should cherish the friendship with the people around us. However, with friends, we will add another beautiful scenery to our life!
Please cherish your opponent.
When you get that bright red score, do you think of teachers, parents, classmates who helped you, or opponents you finally surpassed?
Liu Sijie, my "number one enemy", my nightmare started when she transferred to our class in the third grade.
At first, I didn't think she was so annoying. Later, yes, when she was transferred to my side and became my deskmate, three days ago, I treated her with a host's enthusiasm for receiving guests. After all, we are deskmates, so it is very important to sit together every day in the future, and it is said that we have achieved good results and may be able to help ourselves in the future. But this guy doesn't appreciate it at all, and basically ignores my existence! If you dare to run wild on my site, you must give her a run. Finally, the opportunity came, and the first math exam began this semester. When handing out the papers, I whispered to her in a wise voice, "No, you can ask me." I thought she would be grateful to me with tears in her eyes, but she coldly said two words to me: "nerve". Yo, you underestimated me. Math is my strong point. When the score comes out, you will be scared to death. Indeed, someone was shocked later. When I handed out the paper, I held it in front of her and it said "94". I proudly said, "Look, genius." Before I finished my speech, I heard the teacher announce on the podium: "This is the first place in this exam, and Liu Sijie has a hundred points!" My head is blind: impossible, absolutely impossible! She took the paper off smartly and said to me, "Genius, is that all you have?" I hardly vomited blood! I said savagely, "You wait". As a result, the second time, I successfully won one hundred.
In the fourth grade, English became the main subject. My English was less than 80 at that time. I didn't think so at first, but later I found that my vocabulary was similar to hers, but my English was ten points worse, even twenty points! Every time I see her arrogance, I want to waste her with my talons, but unfortunately I won't. I have no choice but to learn English. After that, I began to record every sentence, every key point and every English word I learned. Finally, in the second stage of four years, I got a hundred points for the first time!
Of course, I didn't realize at that time that I owed her everything now.
Everyone wants to stay away from their opponents forever, but they can't live without them. There is an example in nature: people in a place regard sheep as mascots and like them very much. But wolves always came to eat sheep, so the villagers began to strangle them. Within a month, there will be no wolves in this area, and there will be no natural enemies for sheep. There is no need to be afraid and exercise your good skills to resist the attacks of wolves. Eat and sleep every day. After sleeping and eating, plants were destroyed and diseases began to spread. Within a few days, sheep starved to death everywhere, and the number of sheep suddenly dropped to only a few dozen. People ask the elders in the village for advice, and the elders say, "The existence of natural enemies and opponents gives people pressure, and this pressure is life." The villagers suddenly realized. Immediately attracted wolves from other places. After three months, the sheep returned to normal.
It can be seen that opponents are indispensable to everyone, and people will only sublimate themselves in adversity, strive hard in struggle, and constantly innovate and improve themselves. So, please cherish your opponent!
Cherish God-like opponents.
Not afraid of opponents like gods, but afraid of teammates like pigs. This sentence is very popular on the internet. In the past, I would scoff at this. God-like opponent? Who wants such an opponent? To put it bluntly, isn't it just pushing yourself against the wall? Now, I can only sigh, is it a god-like opponent? On that day, the elongated figure of Yu Hui stood on the grass and gradually moved away from my sight. The heart that should be relaxed is suddenly filled with lead and no longer relaxed.
It is no exaggeration to say that he is a god-like opponent. I am very annoyed that I didn't cherish him at the beginning, but the experience accumulated in the struggle with him was not in vain. I guess this is also my harvest.
He is a transfer student. He came to our class a year ago. At that time, my grades were average in my class. Seeing those good students running in front, I have no feeling at all. It happened that he came and happened to be my deskmate. I thought it must be high flyers, and I didn't want to pay attention to it, but the other party just didn't like me. Every time we take an exam, the difference between our scores will definitely be ten digits, and he always does.
After all, after the other party came, he was the first in the class, and the teacher always praised him for his talent. He sat next to me, as if I just used it to set off his night and make him shine, but I didn't cherish that emotion.
I don't allow myself to fail, even if the other person is a god, I secretly shout, one day, I will admire you!
I worked hard, and my grades did go up a lot, but I still have a long way to go. It is obvious that I am running hard behind, while the other party is just walking leisurely in front, occasionally looking back at me, but I can't surpass it. That feeling is very shameful!
"ha! Get this score again! Do you want the principal to accompany you to five positions? " His casual appearance made me tremble with anger again.
"You are all bored!" The feeling of slamming the notebook hard will make a dash for the door. He left, and I never saw it again. The inexhaustible source of strength and the feeling of vowing to work hard. After he left, he was like a deflated balloon, deflated. If I had cherished him, I wouldn't have done this.
Those days were really hard. Every day is "burning the midnight oil", and I think it's going to snow. In fact, I don't really cherish him, just pity that loneliness.
However, this relationship is very short-lived. Why didn't you realize that you should cherish it?
"Well, I'm leaving next week." That day, he sat in his seat unusually calmly and looked at me.
"Oh, you're leaving." I nodded and looked at the textbook. He's finally leaving, and no one will make fun of me anymore. Why am I unhappy? Why do I want him to leave so badly?
"Oh, I hope the next deskmate won't be as boring as you!" He looked at me with a smile.
This time, I didn't get angry or refute anything. My thoughts flew back to when he first came. He was angry with me. When he left, so did my god-like opponent, but I was not happy. Instead, I realized that he actually brought me a lot of things I didn't realize I had, but when he left, he would take them away.
For me, the gears of life have returned to the right track. I touched the photo gently, and my thoughts stopped at that moment. The leaves fell all over the floor. He smiled and said goodbye to me. I'm speechless. If there is another chance, I will cherish my opponent like God.
So, don't complain about how powerful your opponents are, please cherish them. Perhaps, they bring you more than just setbacks. At least, I will cherish my god-like opponent.