Analysis:
* * * is an act of venting oneself during sexual impulse.
* * * is a common phenomenon, which exists in men, women and children of different ages. But it is the most common among teenagers.
* * * is a kind of behavior that exists since childhood, but in childhood, it is often caused by unconsciously occasionally playing with the friction of genitals, wearing tight pants, climbing poles and other activities that make genitals suffer from * * * *. Both men and women, after puberty, due to physical changes in the body, will naturally have sexual impulses and demands. During this period, they are in a state of sexual tension, full of desire, curiosity and fantasy about sexual issues. As an instinct, they will begin to be consciously driven by sexual physiology and psychology.
Because sexual impulse is not dominated by the brain but determined by the level of sexual excitement in the blood, it is a natural phenomenon that is not transferred by human will. From sexual maturity to legally satisfying sexual requirements-marriage, people usually have to wait for 7-8 years or even longer, and during this period, their sexual energy is the highest, so they always look for opportunities to relieve sexual tension. In this case, * * * may be the most convenient and safest way. It doesn't involve the opposite sex or get involved in emotional entanglements, and it won't lead to sexual assault or even sexual crimes, so it is a reasonable way to relieve sexual tension and solve some social problems caused by sexual problems.
There is a set of data in China suggesting that 86% have a history of * * *, and the age of * * mostly starts from 12 to 16, with an average age of 14, which is consistent with the age of spermatorrhea.
* * * is a kind of privacy in our country, and most people will not openly admit and talk about this kind of sexual behavior.
How to evaluate * * *?
For many years, whether * * * is harmful, harmless or beneficial has been debated endlessly.
Especially in recent 10 years, * * * has always been a common concern of men, and different authors have different views on * * * in publications. For example, "* * * is harmless, it is a normal phenomenon in the process of sexual maturity, and it is a normal and universal * * * sexual behavior", but some people think that "* * * can be used as a treatment for impotence, chronic prostatitis and other diseases, which is equivalent to strengthening genital exercise".
The evaluation of the problem of * * * cannot be generalized.
Gopula believes that moderate * * * is not a bad phenomenon. For a person who is physically and mentally healthy and knows the right thing, there is no harm in moderate * * *, especially when the husband and wife are separated for a long time, the woman is sick and pregnancy is abstinence. After marriage, due to the different needs of husband and wife, it is impossible to be completely consistent, and one party sometimes makes up for its own shortcomings in this way. Therefore, it is more realistic to use * * * at this time.
Unmarried men and women, regularly * * * 1 ~ 5 times a month, to relieve psychological or physical satisfaction, without affecting health.
* * * under the guidance of a doctor is one of the methods to treat some sexual dysfunction, and * * * is commonly used in clinic to collect * * * samples for clinical examination.
Excessive * * *
* * * itself will not bring any damage and adverse consequences.
However, excessive * * * is a kind of psychological disorder, which will seriously affect health and produce some diseases of urogenital system and sexual neurasthenia.
Mainly as follows:
(1) Central nervous system and systemic symptoms such as depression, hypomnesis, inattention, decreased understanding, insomnia, dreaminess, dizziness, palpitation, etc.
(2) Chronic prostatitis, diseases of genitourinary system, causing frequent urination, white urine, abdominal discomfort, waist weakness, * * *, impotence, premature ejaculation, loss of appetite, etc.
* * * Excessive is divided into three aspects: ① Too frequent * * *; (2) too strong * * *; ③ Improper use of sexual tools. Excessive * * * is also reflected in the fact that * * * is beyond a person's spiritual cognition.
For the average youth, it is frequent to have sex more than once a week. Too frequent * * * on the one hand makes people's spirit and energy decline, on the other hand, too frequent * * * sex organs may lead to impotence, premature ejaculation or female frigidity. If frequent * * * becomes a habit, or even thinks that * * * can replace sexual life, it will become a hotbed of pathological personality such as homosexuality and narcissism.
Too strong * * * * means that the * * * applied to the genitals is too strong, such as excessive force. This is more serious damage to the reproductive organs, and it is often easy to cause organic damage, while raising the threshold of sexual excitement, leading to sexual apathy or normal sexual satisfaction.
Improper use of sex tools refers to the bad influence of some bad books, movies and TV, or the illegal propaganda in sex shops, and the unauthorized or collective use of sex tools without the guidance of doctors, resulting in reproductive organ damage and sexual arousal. For girls, the use of sex tools generally leads to the rupture of hymen.
* * *, then caused a mental burden, difficult to extricate themselves. In particular, some people who have * * * will feel guilty and blame themselves, and often want to correct them, but it is difficult to control them under the spontaneous impulse of physiology, and their desire for goodness is frustrated, causing mental damage.
What kind of influence will * * * have on fertility?
* * * behavior refers to the behavior of self-venting by hand during sexual impulse. If * * * happens by accident, it will not have much impact on physical and mental health. If you often * * *, it will have adverse effects on physical and psychological aspects. In fact, the harm of * * * to the body does not lie in the loss of * * *, but in the abnormal psychological state caused by frequent * * * and the influence of repeated sex * * * on sexual function.
Teenagers often have complex psychological states such as regret, shame and anxiety after * * *, and are prone to fatigue, backache and leg weakness, listlessness, * * decline, premature ejaculation, nocturnal emission, and repeated organ congestion can lead to neurasthenia and chronic prostatitis.
Long-term frequent * * * will often cause serious mental burden. Because of frequent * * *, the quality of * * * can be reduced, and the threshold of * * * * can be raised, so that it can not * * * in normal sexual life and affect fertility.
As for whether * * * will lead to impotence, the current data can not explain the relationship between the two. Therefore, those patients who think that impotence in their youth is caused by * * * should eliminate their psychological guilt and anxiety, and look for reasons and appropriate treatment methods from other aspects.
* * * mostly occurs in teenagers and is quite common. Someone has done a survey in this field and found that 90% of men over the age of 20 have had * * *. During the period of 1986, a survey was conducted among male students in several universities in Shanghai. Among the 353 students surveyed, 3 10 has * * phenomenon, accounting for 85.3%. Others conducted a survey on 2,200 female students in an American university, and found that more than 50% of them were * * *. The * * * of adolescent boys and girls is accompanied by normal sexual development. During this period, as long as it is moderate and temperate, * * * can be considered as a reasonable way to relieve sexual tension. Sexologists have conducted a large number of comparative studies on people who have * * * behavior and those who have not * * * * behavior, and confirmed whether * * * has nothing to do with mental diseases such as neurasthenia, manic depression, schizophrenia, personality disorder and mental retardation, as well as psychosomatic diseases such as gastroduodenal ulcer, bronchial asthma, essential hypertension and coronary heart disease. The research also shows that whether there is * * * phenomenon has nothing to do with intelligence, achievement, social adaptability and sexual function in the future. This shows that * * * is not as terrible as people think.
In fact, moderate * * * is not only harmless, but also beneficial, which helps to relieve sexual tension and psychological stress.
How to prevent * * *?
* * * Need to prevent excesses. If you indulge in pornography, you will inevitably neglect your studies and damage your health, especially the teenagers who are in the mature stage of sexual development, and their psychological state is unstable. It is very necessary to improve their self-control and self-restraint ability. The key to controlling * * * lies in the following points:
We should treat * * * correctly, give priority to prevention, apply the methods of psychotherapy and psychological consultation, strengthen the construction of spiritual civilization and sex education, make attention develop in an all-round way in moral, intellectual and physical aspects, and overcome excessive concentration. Pay attention to the rules of life and life adjustment, avoid wearing too tight clothes, go to bed on time, don't eat too much at dinner, don't sleep too warm and heavy, don't sleep on your back and lie prone, and don't eat spicy food such as tobacco, alcohol and coffee at dinner. Develop good hygiene habits, pay attention to keep vulva clean, wash frequently and remove bad dirt. Encourage men and women to participate in social activities, reduce sensitivity to the opposite sex and avoid puppy love. Teenagers who have the habit of * * * should not be severely criticized, but should be helped to establish confidence and determination to quit * * *, and must not use exaggeration or intimidation, otherwise it will increase their ideological burden. If there is inflammation of reproductive system, take anti-inflammatory drugs and other symptomatic treatment to eliminate the discomfort of patients.
It is necessary to carry out correct sexual psychological and physical health education for teenagers, so that they can master the basic knowledge about sex and correctly handle rational tension and sexual impulse. Teenagers should overcome the following points: (1) Set up lofty ideals and ambitions, and concentrate on their studies and work. (2) Cultivate good hobbies and dissolve excessive sexual energy through colorful spare time. (3) Reduce unhealthy life and don't watch pornographic books and movies. (4) We should correctly understand the harm of excessive * * * *, establish the determination to overcome the habitual * * *, and liberate ourselves from the mental pressure of * * * *.