First, I am afraid of being asked where to go in the graduation season.
As the graduation season approaches, many college students are about to leave school. However, there are also some college students who are worried about being asked by their parents and relatives when they go home because they have not settled down for postgraduate entrance examination, going abroad and employment. Even if some students have landed, they are worried that their relatives and friends will inquire about their whereabouts and make some unrealistic evaluations compared with "other people's children." Therefore, in order to avoid increasing pressure, many fresh graduates are reluctant to go home.
Second, I am afraid of being asked about the school.
Going home to see relatives and friends every year, there is always no evaluation of children's learning at the dinner table. Many ordinary students at school are very disgusted with their parents and relatives' inquiries about their college life. In fact, this phenomenon is essentially a comparison between parents. Universities have their own advantages, and many scholarships with good grades are not necessarily perfect universities. Everyone has their own wonderful things.
Third, fear of being forced to get married.
Although men get married when they are old, women get married when they are old. However, late marriage is not uncommon in society at present. Many young people who work hard in first-tier cities value their careers far more than marriage, and their busy lives also reduce the chances of falling in love. But every year when friends and relatives get together at home, there is always a kind of "concern" for themselves, so that they don't have a relaxed mood for the New Year.
Fourth, I didn't make any money.
"Go home for the New Year if you have money". However, there are also many young people working hard outside. Throughout the year, they found that they didn't make any money. Compared with classmates, brothers and sisters who are worse than themselves, they feel that they are not doing well, so they bite their teeth and don't go home, so as not to be looked down upon by others.
Fifth, the gift-giving cost is too high.
The huge cost of going home during the Spring Festival has become an important reason why many people are unwilling to go home. In addition to the round-trip travel expenses, you also need to pay for honoring your parents, relatives and elders, as well as lucky money, money for eating, gifts for visiting relatives and friends, and so on. There is not much money left in the last year.
Six, go out to travel for the New Year
In addition to the National Day, there is only the Spring Festival left in the Spring Festival holiday, so many people who want to go out to play seize the Spring Festival holiday and plan a trip. So they don't go home during the Spring Festival not only because of economic pressure, but also because they are tourists.
Seven, the distance between husband and wife's hometown is too far.
The high-speed population movement has created many inter-provincial marriages, and many couples have to face the inconvenience caused by the separation of their parents. So sometimes couples can only choose to spend the New Year in one's hometown.