The scholarly family has its own style.
Shui Junyi, the name should be familiar to everyone, and he can be seen almost every day in the news broadcast. The surname of water is rare, and it is easy to be associated with the foggy and rainy south of the Yangtze River, where the water plants are rich and the water is flowing. In the soil irrigated by culture, drunken begonia grows and tenacious Artemisia is bred. Just like the Shuijia clan, the culture is deeply rooted, with both literati and elegance, without losing the character of great men.
Shui Junyi's life is destined to be a vigorous picture of a water family. He came from a scholarly family and inherited the ink fragrance of this room. His grandfather Shuizi is the director of the provincial education department, his father Shuitianming is a Russian professor at Lanzhou University, and his mother works in the post office. My uncle and two uncles are also senior intellectuals, and they all enjoy a world in their respective fields. Shui Junyi was born and raised here. He has become a celebrity of CCTV since he was a child, and his contribution to news hosting is obvious to all.
Undeniably, Shui Junyi's achievement is inseparable from the influence of his family, and his life is doomed to be smooth sailing and carefree. He comes from a long river with profound cultural background and grew up in a leisurely family with Mo Xiang. But he didn't get lost in this Wang Yang, but raised stronger sails, braved the wind and waves, and became a figure of his own.
The son in the family is much loved.
Children are so charming that parents love them. In the past, people always raised many children, and their parents could never take care of them, so the youngest child always got more attention than the older one. We may all have had such concerns, fearing that our younger brothers and sisters would split their parents' love and be ignored, so we tried our best? Competing for favor? .
Shuijia also has many children. Shui Junyi has two brothers and one sister, and her parents especially love the youngest. According to the truth, other children will feel wronged more or less, but they are different. In Shuijia, my brothers and sisters took good care of ShuiJunyi and devoted all their love to him without any bad feelings.
These over-saturated loves did not make Shui Junyi a spoiled dude. On the contrary, Shui Junyi lived up to expectations and passed on the responsibility of the children of Shui family. Because the unique cultural background of Shuijia is the foundation of educating people, let the children at home learn nutrients and grow into useful pillars.
I once said frankly in "Peace of Mind":? Innocent jade can be a national instrument; The son of filial piety can be Guoxin. ? Mother-in-law's tattooing made Yue Fei loyal to the country, and Meng Mu's three moves made Mencius a master of Confucianism, which shows how important the environment is to the growth of people and the shaping of values. In this way, Shui Junyi assumed the heavy responsibility of the family, and decades of persistence could not be separated from the care and care given by his family when he was a child.
Things change.
Life is sometimes smooth, but it is often arbitrary. Zhong Ding's house can be overturned at one time, and embarrassed people can get rich overnight. Think of Cao Xueqin's life, the first half is well-fed and the second half is miserable, as he said? Glory is easy to run out, so take a step back and come out. ? Isn't this the life of Shui Junyi? The first half of life is smooth and smooth, and the second half is poor and difficult. The only way is that things have changed. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory, even a family like Shui Junyi is inevitable.
There has never been more icing on the cake in this world, and less in the snow. Although the former Shuijia was not full of guests, it was still crowded. But since the accident, it can be said that the door is empty, and how many have come in? Sparrows? Unexpected trouble, too. Because of the work of the elders, the Shuijia of that era really realized that human feelings were warm and cold, and the family was no longer peaceful and peaceful. People who come to make trouble often make trouble.
My father was abused and even beaten, and my eldest brother, who should be the eldest son of a family, suffered the biggest change in his life. His spirit was strongly stimulated. When the last straw fell, the eldest brother could no longer bear it, so that he gradually lost his thinking ability, language ability and even self-care ability, that is, he became disabled at that time.
A family is like an ant on hot bricks and a fish on a knife board. When parents found out that their eldest son was abnormal, they were very painful, but they never gave up on him. On the contrary, they gave him more patience, love and education. For Shui Junyi, the carefree childhood is over, and he should learn to grow up quickly. At that time, Shui Junyi was only a nine-year-old child, but he had to learn the bitterness and helplessness of this world in advance.
As outsiders, we can't really feel what happened to the Shui Junyi family. As the saying goes:? If a person drinks water, he knows a lot about water. ? You never know how painful the wound is until the needle sticks to yourself, so the growth cost behind Shui Junyi's tough quality is immeasurable, which shows that he never leaves the person he loves.
Filial piety is like a bright moon, shouldering heavy burdens.
The famous director Jia Ceng once said: Not everything will be destroyed by time, but caring is the most painful part of love. Born as a family, born with blood that can't be given up. Even if we are used to each other's existence, if one of us leaves one day, it will be a cramp and bone-peeling pain. People always have to move forward, but don't forget to look at the road occasionally, so that you won't lose yourself and always remember the goodness of the person who brought you into this world.
Big brother Shui Hengjin can't communicate with normal people, but fate makes man, so he has to go to the countryside to jump the queue with others. However, Shui Hengjin's intelligence level is not comparable to that of normal people of the same age, and he can't communicate with others, so that his condition deteriorates and he becomes more and more withdrawn.
This makes parents' pity for their eldest son stronger and stronger. Instead of putting pressure on their eldest son, they put down their expectations and let their son grow freely. But parents can't take care of their children all their lives, and they will always get old. Time flies, the years brushed my parents' hair and dyed my sideburns white. Three children got married one after another, and the eldest son was unmarried, but he didn't get married because of his mental problems.
The weather was unpredictable, and the sick father finally gave up. Finally, he was worried about his eldest son. As the youngest child, Shui Junyi can hand over the responsibility to his younger brother and sister, but he suggested that he take over the burden of taking care of his mother and brother, because he has the highest income in the family. And the truth is the same, and there is nothing others can do. This shows that Shui Junyi is under great pressure to make such a choice and is also very filial.
Never give up and never give up.
The world knows to take it, but it doesn't know to take it with it. Shui Junyi's care for his brother, although he never thought of anything in return, was rewarded by the company of his family and the reputation of the world.
In people's general cognition, it should be no problem to feed a family with water income. But Shui Junyi also bears the support of his mother and the life of his eldest brother. In addition, the growth of his children also needs expenses, so life is often stretched. Today's eldest brother is 72 years old, but he is not married yet. Shui Junyi never thought of abandoning his brother, but gave him consistent love.
Life is like a boat in a sea of misery. Some people lost their way and were swallowed up by the waves, while others were willing to quench their thirst and cultivate their sentiments. Shui Junyi was born in glory but never lost, but he was in trouble without a trace of filth. He will always be the loyal and filial child, raising his brother all his life and never giving up.