First, we should deeply understand happiness. Understanding happiness is the basis and premise of having happiness. Happiness has been an important topic in philosophical ethics for thousands of years, but there is still no exact definition of what happiness is. People should realize that happiness is rich in knowledge, taste and elegance. Spiritual wealth is the most lasting happiness. Reading is the most effective way to acquire spiritual wealth. Happiness is an indifferent state of mind that is contented and grateful. Contentment is an open-minded and optimistic attitude towards life, and it is a kind of values that can rationally look at one's own gains and losses. Look at bloom's flowers before the court with a normal heart, pursue the improvement of knowledge and ability with a searching heart, treat the organization, work and life with a grateful heart, and experience ordinary happiness with a peaceful heart.
Second, we should feel happiness rationally. To feel happiness rationally, we must be brave in learning, making efforts, expanding the molecules of happiness, controlling our own desires and narrowing the denominator, so as to truly enjoy happiness. The first is materialism, content with living conditions. We don't deny legitimate material interests, but the key is to grasp the degree. You can't blindly compare with others in life, and you can't be greedy. Secondly, the realm is boundless and the spiritual pursuit is high. Happiness is a state of mind to some extent. Elegant taste and profound cultivation can resist the temptation of material desires. Third, work hard and experience happiness in achievements. The original intention of happiness reflects the physical and mental pleasure after people's ideals are realized, and a sense of accomplishment is the constant element of happiness. If you can get a sense of accomplishment through hard work, you can also get happiness at the same time.
The third is to pursue happiness reasonably. The pursuit of happiness is the pursuit of hope and the future. We should establish scientific life goals, life goals and work goals. On the basis of wholeheartedly seeking benefits for the people, on the basis of selfless work, and on the basis of honesty and self-control, establish a correct view of happiness.
The fourth is to enjoy happiness rationally. Happiness is not so much a reward for your efforts as a kind of wisdom and a feeling of the soul. We should have a normal heart and look at the world with a happy eye, then he will be happy. Always be a humble person with awe. Fear makes people open their hearts to God, make people kind and sincere, and make people solemn and humble. Always abandon your wild desires and be a self-disciplined person. The so-called wild thoughts are those ideas and requirements that are beyond the scope of duties. Faced with all kinds of temptations, many corrupt elements don't care about being small, don't guard against being small, and finally swallow the "bait" because they can't stand it, delaying the country and the people and hurting themselves. Always cultivate the virtue of politics and be a noble person. "If you are wrong, how can you be right?" Always think about the harm and be a healthy person. Taking and sharing are just two basic human instincts, but we are often full of the former and forget the latter. Talking about sharing is to let yourself "introspect", see your own shortcomings and find the direction of your own efforts. More importantly, sharing itself is a kind of happiness and a healthy state of mind. If you find the beauty and goodness around you and experience a warm life all the time, you will give up, dilute greed and cherish the happiness of the moment.
The fifth is to correctly locate happiness. Building a harmonious society requires people's view of happiness to reflect the characteristics of a harmonious society, and its basic orientation is reflected in the following four aspects: First, adhere to the harmonious unity of material happiness and spiritual happiness. There is not only a rich material life, but also a full and pleasant spiritual happiness. Rich material life lays the foundation for people to pursue noble spiritual life, which provides intellectual and spiritual support for further creating material wealth. The second is to adhere to the harmony and unity of personal happiness, family happiness and overall social happiness. The happiness pursued and obtained by individuals and families should be beneficial to the happiness of the whole society. Third, we must adhere to the harmony and unity of immediate happiness and long-term happiness. The society is developing and people are developing, which inevitably requires people not only to focus on the immediate happiness, but also to consider the future happiness, so that the immediate happiness can be extended to the future. Fourth, we should adhere to the harmony between the goal of happiness and the means to achieve happiness. In this regard, we should regard labor and creation as the main means and source of happiness, take labor as the premise of enjoying happiness and take happiness as the result of creation.