Nowadays, the problem of generation gap is becoming more and more serious. It is common for parents and children to have a bad relationship. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do strict family rules affect the relationship between parents and children? First of all, in most families in China, both parents have to go out to work in order to earn more money and provide a better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this leads to little communication between them and the stolen children, because these parents always rest in their spare time. These parents and children can't get to know each other well, and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who require their children to be absolutely obedient are also one of the important reasons for the generation gap between them. They didn't try to communicate with their children as equals. Therefore, it is easy to misunderstand them. In order to solve these problems, busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate actively and friendly with their children to improve their relationship. At the same time, they can also observe their children's behavior at the same time, so as to understand their children's personality, because this can reduce their quarrels. Besides, parents should try to give up their absolute power in the family so that their children can feel free to chat with them.