/kloc-Beronie, a famous French painter in the 20th century, once went to Switzerland for a holiday. During the holiday, he still sketched with an easel on his back every day.
One day, he was painting by the lake in Geneva when three British female tourists passed by. After seeing his paintings, they criticized him. One said it was not good here, and the other said it was wrong there. Beronie listened to their opinions and revised the paintings one by one. Finally, he said "thank you" to them.
The next day, Beronie had something to go to another place. At the station yesterday, he saw the three women, who were whispering to each other. After a while, three women saw him and came forward to ask him, "Sir, we heard that the great painter Beronie was on vacation here, so we came to visit him specially. Do you know where he is now? "
Belloni bent down slightly to them and replied, "No, I'm Belloni."
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The more knowledgeable and knowledgeable people are, the more modest they tend to be. They want to improve themselves by going up a storey still higher. Because of this, they often have a tolerant attitude and generosity to accept criticism.
2. Humility wins respect (humble Einstein)
When Einstein was alive, he was already a famous physicist and was deeply admired by people. Among the statues of the world's greatest scholars set up by the new york Riverside Church, Einstein is the only one alive. But he was not carried away by honor, and always maintained the quality of humility. He feels that he can't understand that others regard him as an idol. He is tired of the publicity and praise in newspapers and periodicals, especially those journalists, painters and sculptors who come to take pictures, portraits and statues, which makes him unbearable. He said he just became a model of these industries.
Einstein never considered himself a superman. He realized that the road he took was an extension of the road taken by his predecessors, and the new era of science was opened on the basis of his predecessors, so he always appreciated the contributions of his predecessors with admiration and gratitude. He knows that many people are struggling with each other on the road of science, each with his own work and contribution, so he has great respect for the work of his peers. Even to his subordinates and students, Einstein didn't show any arrogance. Anyone who came into contact with him was moved by his affability and peace. He also summed up such a success formula: a=x+y+z, where a stands for success, x stands for hard work, y stands for correct method, and z stands for less empty talk. He thinks he is not a genius, but a loyal and diligent truth seeker.
3. Lv Dai cries Hou Xu.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Dai Lu had a high status and a prominent reputation, but he could listen to criticism with an open mind. His friend Hou Xu, a loyal, honest and frank person, often criticized Lv Dai's shortcomings mercilessly. Lv Dai's subordinates were dissatisfied with Hou Xu, thinking that Hou Xu was too arrogant and told Lv Dai about it. But Lv Dai respects and approaches Hou Xu more. After Hou Xu's death, Lv Dai burst into tears, crying and complaining: "Hou Xu! Where will I hear my mistakes in the future? "
4. Write down my life's mistakes
Zhou Enlai, who was respected by the world, was modest, prudent and approachable all his life. Although he is busy with his work, he still has to go deep into the masses and understand the situation in various places. In the 1960s, he visited Shanghai and met with film actors. In a cordial conversation, a comrade enthusiastically suggested to him: "Premier, please write a book for us!" " But he signed back and said, "If I write a book, I will write out the mistakes in my life so that the living can learn from the mistakes of the past."
Mei Lanfang is an apprentice.
Mei Lanfang, a master of Peking Opera, not only has profound attainments in Peking Opera art, but also is a master of Danqing. He worships the famous painter Qi Baishi and asks for advice modestly. He always holds a disciple ceremony and often grinds ink and rice paper for the old man Baishi. He is not proud of being a famous actor.
On one occasion, Qi Baishi and Mei Lanfang went to visit a family together, and the old man Baishi arrived first. He wears clothes and shoes, and all other guests and friends are celebrities or suits or dresses and jackets. Qi Baishi looks a little shabby and humble. In a short time, Mei Lanfang arrived, and the host greeted him happily, and other guests flocked to shake hands with him. But Mei Lanfang knew that Qi Baishi was coming to the party, so she looked around for a teacher. Suddenly, he saw the old man Baishi who was left out in the cold, so he let go of the outstretched hand of others and squeezed out the crowd, respectfully calling the painter "teacher" and greeting him. Everyone present was surprised, and Qi Baishi was deeply moved. A few days later, I gave Mei Lanfang a picture of a timely rescue and wrote a poem:
Remember that the former dynasty enjoyed peace, noble clothes and moved to the public.
Now I am reduced to Chang 'an, thanks to the name Mei Lang.
Mei Lanfang not only worships painters as teachers, but also ordinary people as teachers. He once performed the Peking Opera "Killing Life", and among the cheers, he heard an elderly audience say "bad". Mei Lanfang took the old man home by car before she could unload the goods and change clothes. He respectfully said to the old man, "The person who says I'm not good is my teacher. If the teacher says I'm not good, I must have a good opinion. Please give me advice. Students are determined to make up for it. " The old man pointed out: "Yan Xijiao's catwalk upstairs and downstairs, according to the regulations of the pear garden, should be seven ups and eight downs. Why do doctors go up and down? " Mei Lanfang suddenly realized and praised again and again. In the future, Mei Lanfang often asked the old gentleman to watch him act, asked him to correct me and called him "teacher".
6. philosopher Socrates
Socrates, a famous philosopher in ancient Greece, is not only brilliant, but also attracts students to lag behind, enlightening the wisdom of young people with his famous enlightenment talk. Whenever people admire his profound knowledge and extraordinary wisdom, he always modestly says, "The only thing I know is my own ignorance."
7. Tolerance and generosity can accomplish great things.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Yuan Shao crusaded against Cao Cao and Chen Lin wrote three essays. Chen Lin is witty and clever. In the election campaign, he not only scolded Cao Cao himself, but also scolded Cao Cao's father and grandfather. Cao Cao was very angry at that time, and he was so angry that he was all angry. Soon, Yuan Shao failed, and Chen Lin also fell into the hands of Cao Cao. Most people would think that if Cao Cao didn't kill Chen Lin, it would be difficult to solve the hatred, but Cao Cao didn't. He admires Chen Lin's talent. He didn't kill him, but put aside the past and entrusted him with a heavy responsibility, which made Chen Lin very moved. Later, he gave Cao Cao many good ideas.
People who do great things must be tolerant, so that someone can share with you and serve you, and your career can continue to grow and develop.
In the history of China, Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong, had the honor of "the rule of Zhenguan", which was directly related to his tolerance and good listening to different opinions. The famous minister was originally a vassal of his younger brother, Prince Jian. In the struggle for imperial power, he encouraged the prince to build and kill. After Li Shimin launched the Xuanwumen coup to seize power, he didn't care about the past and the future, but only paid attention to the reuse of quantity, which made Wei Zhi feel that he was "happy when he met his bosom friend and did his best" and faithfully assisted Li Shimin, making great contributions to the creation of the prosperous times in the Tang Dynasty.
A philosopher put it well: the sky contains every cloud, whether it is beautiful or ugly, so the sky is vast; The mountain contains every large and small rock, so it is magnificent; The sea contains every spray, whether clear or turbid, so the sea is vast. Because the sky contains thunder and lightning, the sun is shining, the forest endures the cruelty of the jungle and is lush, and the sea contains thousands of trickles, so it is endless. This is the most vivid and intuitive interpretation of tolerance.
Tolerance is a prerequisite for success. If a person wants to achieve something, he must have great tolerance, which has always been the case.
On the eve of running for president, Lincoln was humiliated by a senator when he spoke in the Senate: "Mr. Lincoln, before you start your speech, I want you to remember that you are the son of a shoemaker." "Thank you very much for reminding me of my father, who has passed away. I know I can't be president like a shoemaker's father. " Lincoln then said to the arrogant congressman, "As far as I know, my father used to make shoes for your family. If your shoes don't fit, I can repair them for you. Although I am not a great shoemaker, I have learned shoemaking skills from my father since I was a child. " Then he said to all senators, "It's the same for anyone in the Senate. If the shoes you are wearing are made by my father and need to be repaired or improved, I will try my best to help. " But one thing is certain, his craftsmanship is unparalleled. "At this point, all the ridicule turned into sincere applause.
Tolerance and generosity won Lincoln the trust and admiration of everyone, and also opened the door to success for him to become president in the future. On the other hand, none of the people who work hard for small things and worry about a few words have achieved great things, and none of them are promising people.
Cao Cao and Zhou Yu were outstanding figures in the Three Kingdoms period, but their measurements were quite different. Although Cao Cao is treacherous and fierce, he has the mind of a politician and accepts wise men under his door. But Zhou Yu was so jealous that no one could hold her, and she finally got angry.
Zhou Yu is a general, but he doesn't have the measure that a general should have. Zhou Yu is brilliant and clever, but he is jealous and can't tolerate anyone better than himself. He has always held a grudge against Zhuge Liang, and several attempts to harm him have failed. Battle of Red Cliffs and Zhou Yu wasted money and food, but Zhuge Liang made a ready-made plan. Zhou Yu was so angry that he "let out a cry and the golden sore burst." Later, Zhou Yu tricked Liu Bei into getting married in Wu Dong with a honey trap, and Zhuge Liang followed. Finally, he lost his wife and soldiers. He was so angry that Zhou Yu "let out a cry and the golden sore burst." Finally, Zhou Yu tried to get Jingzhou by means of "fake killing", but Zhuge Liang saw through it. The four armies besieged Zhou Yu and wrote to surrender. Zhou Yu sighed: "If you are born with Yu, why are you born with Liang!" He died after several calls, which shows that Zhou Yu's measurement is small.
If a person wants to achieve something in his career, he must first have an open-minded, open and inclusive mind in order to achieve something in his career. All rivers run into the sea, relying on a tolerant heart. Don't be too narrow-minded when you do things. Short and long; Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. Common sense of others' advantages and tolerance of others' shortcomings depend on loving heart and tolerance. Angry for the enemy can only set himself on fire. If you swallow your voice, you will call each other names; I can't stand the spring breeze of others, so I am jealous and framed. This life can only be bleak, and the road will get narrower and narrower.
Facts have proved that the more successful people are, the more tolerant they are. Tolerance is like spring, which can make everything grow and make it spring. The prime minister can punt in his stomach, regardless of mistakes and past grievances, and the gains and losses will soon be in his heart. This is also tolerance. Tolerance can help you win the loyalty of your subordinates and keep their enterprising heart; Can let you not be affected by temporary gains and losses, and keep the correct judgment of things. Therefore, if you want to make a difference and succeed, you must learn to be tolerant and develop a tolerant heart that understands other people's different opinions and mistakes.
As the ancients said, a general can race horses on his forehead and a prime minister can punt on his stomach. How magnanimous a person is, how big his career can be. In other words, a person can get as much wealth as he can hold in his heart.
8. Who can bear humiliation? Can achieve great things.
Patience needs to be cultivated, humiliation needs to be measured, and humiliation is a realm. Endurance is a sharp knife in my heart. To cultivate the tolerance of stabbing your heart with a knife, you have to endure the revenge of killing your father, the hatred of taking your wife, the humiliation of your legs, the bullying of your attack, and the injury of fighting for the front ... If Sima Qian can't stand the humiliation of castration, how can he complete the masterpiece Historical Records?
Patience is the cornerstone of career success. Can bear hardships and stand hard work, can starve, can survive in a harsh environment, in order to defeat the enemy and strengthen themselves. Some people think that kindness, tolerance, forbearance and never being harsh are sheer cowardice, but they don't know that such people are really people with great wisdom, benevolence and courage. In fact, to measure your own conditions, you must temporarily bear the burden of humiliation. And never admit your mistakes, often afraid of taking responsibility, is the real coward.
"Only by taking responsibility can we be brave; Once quiet, you can change. " A person's mind is open and aboveboard, and he can be inclusive, omnipotent and omnipotent. In ancient times, the so-called heroes had more achievements than ordinary people, and they also had efforts that ordinary people could not bear. They can endure everything, then they can accept everything, endure everything, and then they will change everything and overcome everything. The so-called big-bellied tolerance, resignation, is not a born loser. On the contrary, he is a strong man with great achievements and achievements.
For those who do great things, bearing the burden of humiliation is the basic quality that must be possessed to achieve great things. Mencius said: "If you want to be a great man, you must first suffer from his mind, strain his bones and muscles, starve his body and tire it." It is an ability to bear the burden of humiliation in various difficulties, and it is a skill to bear the burden of humiliation. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. All people who achieve great things are like this.
9. Only those who can bear the burden of humiliation can achieve great things.
"Caigen Tan" said: "Those who stay for a long time fly high, and those who open first thank you for your early independence. Knowing this, you can avoid embarrassing worries and eliminate anxiety. " It means that a bird that has been hidden for a long time can fly very high once it flies, and a flower that blooms early will wither quickly when it fades. As long as people can understand this truth, they can not only avoid the worry that their talents are not satisfied, but also eliminate the idea of being eager to seek fame and gain.
Chu Zhuangwang acceded to the throne for three years, hunting or drinking all day long, ignoring political affairs, hanging a big sign at the gate of the palace, saying, "Anyone who conspires will be killed without forgiveness."
One day, when the doctor came to see him, Chu Zhuangwang was chewing venison with a glass in his hand and watching singing and dancing drunkenly. He squinted and asked, "Did the doctor come here to drink or watch songs and dances?" Wu Ju has something to say: "Someone asked me to guess a riddle, and I couldn't figure it out. I came to ask you for advice. " Chu Zhuangwang asked, "What riddle is so difficult to guess? Tell me. " Wu Ju said: "The mystery is that there is a big bird in Chu State that has lived in the imperial court for three years without singing or flying. It's hard to understand. What is this for? Please guess what kind of bird it is. It doesn't sing or fly? " Hearing this, Chu Zhuangwang understood Wu Ju's meaning and said with a smile, "I think so. It's no ordinary bird. This bird did not fly for three years, but soared into the sky; Three years without singing is a blockbuster. You wait and see. " Wuju understood the meaning of Chu Zhuangwang, so he withdrew happily.
Chu Zhuangwang from now on cheer up, rectify internal affairs, and use talents to eliminate dissidents.
In the ninth year of King Ding Zhou (598 BC), the Chu army defeated the 8 Jin Army with 600 chariots in the Qiucheng War. Although the 8 Jin Army was almost completely annihilated in World War I, Chu Zhuangwang, who had not sung for three years, finally made a blockbuster. Since then, countries such as Lu, Song, Zheng and Chen have been forced to submit. After Qi Huangong, Jin Wengong and Qin Mugong, he also became the overlord. He reigned for 23 years, which made Chu strong for some time.
In fact, Chu Zhuangwang is by no means an addict. I'm just saving my strength and waiting for the right time. It took Chu Zhuangwang three years to recover his national strength, and to some extent, he got to know the ministers of Chu. At the same time, it also made other vassal States relax their vigilance against Chu.
Keeping a low profile is a great wisdom.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei also took growing vegetables as a cover under Cao Cao's account, and kept a low profile and staged a classic drama about cooking wine as a hero in his childhood. Zeng Guofan in the Qing dynasty, with both fame and fortune, kept a low profile and kept a low profile, which is also worth learning from later generations.
The way to success lies in virtue rather than skill, Tao rather than seeking, courtesy rather than power. Being a man and doing things is not sharp-edged, arrogant and impetuous, keeping a low profile. Only in this way can we survive in the cracks of rights, develop and grow, and achieve our cause.
Mencius advised people to adopt the attitude that "poverty can help the world", so they should tolerate waiting for opportunities in everything and never lose heart, because a person who can help the world cannot help the world. Seeing the micro-knowledge, punctuality, forbearance and standby are the only way to achieve great things and make great achievements.
During the Northern and Southern Dynasties, the Eastern Wei regime in the north was controlled by the powerful minister Gao Huan, and the emperor was just a puppet. During the reign of Gao Huan 16, his son Gao Yang abandoned filial piety and became independent, with the same title, which was called Beiqi in history. Before Gao Yang proclaimed himself emperor, the regime was in the hands of his younger brother Gao Cheng. Gao Yang's wife is very beautiful, and Gao Cheng secretly envies her, and her heart is very unbalanced. In order not to be suspected by Gao Cheng, Gao Yang acts like a simple Woodenhead, and often giggles with two big noses. Therefore, Gao Cheng regarded him as an idiot and said to his relatives, "Such people should also have money. How to explain it in the photo album? " After that, I no longer doubted Gao Yang. Gao Cheng often molested Gao Yang's wife, and Gao Yang pretended not to know. Later, Gao Cheng was assassinated by his men, and Gao Yang became prime minister, commanding Chinese and foreign troops, recording the history of ministers and punishing the King of Qi.
In the past, North Korean ministers have always despised Gao Yang. At this time, Gao Yang held a civil-military meeting, laughing, and the British adopted Mao method, which was completely different from the past. Suddenly, all four seats were surprised, and I never dared to despise them again. After Gao Yang usurped the throne, the early government was clear, simple, quiet, broad-minded, meritocratic, governing the country according to law, and revered at home and abroad.
At that time, Yu Wentai, the prime minister of the Western Wei Dynasty, heard that Gao Yang had usurped the throne and attacked Beiqi under the banner of the sense of honor. Gao Yang personally commanded the soldiers to go to war. Yu Wentai saw that the Northern Qi army was well-groomed and prosperous, and could not help but sigh: "Gao Huan has such a son, although he died without regret!" So he led the army westward.
Gao Yang felt inferior in daily life, became invisible in loneliness, and lived with his brother. At the same time, be prepared for danger in times of peace and pay attention to changes in the current situation. Finally, he seized the opportunity of Gao Cheng's murder and achieved his imperial career.
Generally speaking, people who don't do well will be satisfied with a daily salary of ten yuan a day; If you do well, you will get hundreds of thousands of annual salary, which is not the top figure; The monthly salary is also good, which is more stable than the former and less than the latter. No matter how high the monthly salary is, it is impossible to get rich.
The checkout time is closely related to the size of the business. People who set up stalls pay their bills every day, and the profit and loss are clear at a glance. But if it is a tens of billions of big projects, it may take many years to recover the investment. Therefore, if there is no harvest for the time being, it does not mean that this road is blocked.
The most important thing for people who do great things is to be able to withstand loneliness. It doesn't matter if they don't open for three years. As long as you have food, as long as you believe that you are getting an annual salary, the more prepared you are, the more brilliant the result will be.
Faith is the most powerful force at any time, especially when the people around you have been harvesting, and your fruit is not mature or even blooming at all. As long as you judge that the seeds are excellent and nutritious, it is only a matter of time before they blossom and bear fruit. The only thing you need is patience and persistence.
It can be seen that if you can stand loneliness and wait for the opportunity, you can fly high.
10. Endure humiliation and accomplish great things.
"Bear the burden of humiliation"-No matter how hard it is, how hard it is and how humiliating it is, we must hold on. It's a shame to drill the crotch, but Han Xin has to drill it. If he doesn't drill, there are only two results. One was killed by a butcher, and there was no Han Xin. Second, he killed the butcher and won a temporary victory, but from then on there was no Han Xin, because he killed someone, and the murderer paid the price of his life, and he would be put to death by law. Either way, there will be no Han Xin in history. The image of Han Xin's great cause is immortal in the history of China, because he looked to the future and had lofty goals in his heart when he endured humiliation. ?
"Be strong and live"-to live is to be strong and brave in facing all kinds of humiliation and suffering in life. Don't forget that everyone dies, and don't take life too well. It's sad to realize that life is impermanent, but it's not without benefits, at least it can help us alleviate our fear of death. You may be unhappy when you are alive, but you will never give up; May be disappointed, but not desperate; Maybe I will give up, but I will never give up. ?
For those who do great things, bearing the burden of humiliation is the basic quality that must be possessed to achieve their career. Mencius said: "Heaven will be a great task for the people of Sri Lanka, so we must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and tire their bodies." It is an ability to bear the burden of humiliation in various difficulties, and it is a skill to bear the burden of humiliation. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. ?
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Gou Jian, King of Yue, was surrendered by Fu Cha, King of Wu. He pretended to be a vassal and kept horses for Fu Cha, the king of Wu, who was ill in bed. Gou Jian personally tasted dung for him, gained trust and was put back to China. After returning home, Gou Jian sympathized with the people, reduced taxes and lived with them. He also hung gall on his head, often tasted gall, and recalled his insults in the state of Wu to warn himself not to forget the past. After more than ten years of hard work, Gou Jian finally wiped out Wu and killed Fu Cha at one fell swoop, realizing his ambition to rejuvenate the country. ?
Similarly, the story of Zhuge Liang insulting Sima Yi during the Three Kingdoms period is well known. Zhuge Liang went out of Qishan six times and was stationed in Wuzhangyuan. Sima Yi knew that his military strategy was not as good as Zhuge Liang's, so he took delaying tactics and did not send troops for a long time. Zhuge Liang sent Sima Yi a dress and a letter, which said: "If you dare not go out, you will bow down and surrender respectfully;" If your sense of shame is still alive and you have some masculinity, you will immediately admit it and fight regularly. "Sima yi looked around and was very angry and well documented, but Sima yi insisted on not fighting. Soon Zhuge Liang broke down from overwork, and Sima Yi won without hurting a soldier. No wonder the ancients said, "You have to be able to stand the offense and disobedience that others can't stand, so that you can achieve career fame that others can't achieve." " ?
Gou Jian and Sima Yi are indeed broad-minded, but in real life, we can easily find that some people haggle over every ounce for their petty profits and even fight with each other; There are also people who can't rub sand in their eyes, and they have to be reasonable. As for turning against each other because of an excessive joke, fighting because of strangers' collision and fighting because of neighborhood disputes, there are countless more. It is impossible to expect such a person to achieve great things. ?
Patience needs to be cultivated, humiliation needs to be measured, and humiliation is a realm. Endurance is a sharp knife in my heart. To cultivate the tolerance of stabbing your heart with a knife, you have to endure the hatred of killing your father, the hatred of taking your wife, the humiliation of your legs, the bullying of your attack, and the injury of fighting for the front ... If Sima Qian can't even stand the humiliation of castration, how can he complete the masterpiece Historical Records of "studying heaven and man, becoming a family" and become a fairy and everyone? ?
Patience is motivation. As the saying goes, "There are mistakes in the busy, and there are good people in the bitter." To achieve something, we must observe the opportunity, wait for karma, and be anxious. Patience and endurance are a kind of commitment, a kind of treatment, a kind of waiting, and an understanding of the law of cause and effect. Many successful people have endured many failures, and the more frustrated they are, the more brave they will eventually succeed. Therefore, in difficulties and hardships, it is better to endure self-control, and once the time is ripe, it will come naturally. ?
Su Shi, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said in On Hou: "In ancient times, the so-called heroes must have extraordinary festivals, and human feelings cannot be resisted. Men are not brave enough to draw their swords when they see humiliation and stand up and fight. There are great and brave people in the world, but they are not surprised when they die, and they are not angry when they are added for no reason. This means that they have great hostages and their ambitions are far away. " ?
Some people think that being kind, patient, uncontroversial, tolerant and never harsh is sheer cowardice, but they don't know that such people are really people with great wisdom, benevolence and courage. Some people even think that it is a coward to endure everything, be humiliated by dirt, admit mistakes and accept punishment. In fact, to measure your own conditions, you must temporarily bear the burden of humiliation. And never admit your mistakes, often afraid of taking responsibility, is the real coward. ?
"Only by taking responsibility can we be brave; Once quiet, you can change. " A person's mind is open and aboveboard, and he can be inclusive, omnipotent and omnipotent. The so-called heroes in ancient times all had extraordinary attainments and patience beyond ordinary people's endurance. A knife in the heart is forbearance. If you can stand this knife, inch by inch efforts will teach you success. "Tolerance is great, and virtue is great; Be patient, things are in the economy. " If you can tolerate everything, you can accept everything and endure everything, and then you can change everything and overcome everything. The so-called big-bellied tolerance, resignation, is not a born loser. On the contrary, he is a strong man with great achievements! ?
Writing here, I remembered a story of Sui Tang Jiahua. Loude, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, also had a younger brother, who was appointed as the secretariat of the country. He asked his younger brother, "How can we live in a high position without being envied, so as to save ourselves and achieve the goal of filial piety?" The younger brother said, "From now on, even if someone spits in my face, I dare not complain and just wipe it off silently." Hearing this, Mr. Lou said earnestly, "People spit at you because they are angry with you. If you spit, it means that you hate others, confront others and contradict others. This is tantamount to adding fuel to the fire. It is better not to erase him, let the saliva die and bear it with a smile. " ?
I think today's highly civilized society is a people-oriented era, and people's quality and cultivation are constantly improving. Everyone knows that we should stress principles on major issues and style on minor issues, but if we want to spill saliva on our faces without wiping it, I'm afraid not many people have this realm and accomplishment, and most people don't have this sense of proportion. But just remember one truth: in order to achieve your goal, you must learn to be patient in all kinds of adversity. Patience is beneficial and fighting is harmful. It is true that the humiliation we emphasize is not absolute, but relative. If you follow the rules blindly, you will lose your principles, even your personality and even your national dignity.
Finally, I end this article with a passage from my classmate Du. He said: "Enduring loneliness is a necessary condition for success, enduring failure is a source of strength for rejuvenation, and enduring humiliation is an inevitable prerequisite for great achievements. In a sense, the ability of "patience" is the great driving force behind success and the absolute element of success. Without a strong mental state, people cannot achieve and create. "