My family lives in the suburbs of Wenzhou. I work in a factory downtown and my sister is in college. Neither of us has a boyfriend yet. I'm a little worried about my sister's suggestion, but my sister is particularly keen on these fashionable things. She said that her college classmates like to rent a house off campus and share it with the opposite sex. Let's live in peace. Of course, there are people who talk about love. It depends on the fate of both sides.

Before and after running, my sister not only found a nice house, but also found a roommate, which is said to be recommended to her by her classmates. His surname is Xia and he is 29 years old. He is a foreigner. He looks mature and practical, but he is also impressive. He said he was unmarried and had a girlfriend in his hometown. Work in a good enterprise in Wenzhou.

When I first shared a room with a young man, I still felt uncomfortable in my heart, but he and his sister both acted naturally. Go to work and school separately during the day and go out in the morning. In the evening, no matter who gets home first, my sister and I will start cooking. He will do what he can, watch TV after dinner and go back to his room to do his own thing. Because there are two bathrooms, there is no inconvenience. Sometimes when friends come, they all talk in their rooms and don't bother each other.

One day, my sister and I were in the house and heard him talking on the phone in the living room, louder and louder. Finally, he slammed off the receiver and rushed into his room. My sister winked at me and said that she had fallen out with her girlfriend. I asked her how she knew, and she said he told her himself. I looked at my sister and said nothing. Although he told her his privacy, I didn't find any ambiguous behavior between them.

Later, my sister and I found that he was a little depressed. The girl's unique sympathy has made our attitude towards him much gentler than before. It's sweet to bring him food at dinner, and he is very grateful. The atmosphere is becoming more and more like a family.

Just then, my sister had a boyfriend, never came back for dinner, went home late at night, and then didn't go home at night, leaving me alone to live in a room with him. I still cook after work, and he is the only diner. The atmosphere is far less relaxed and lively than in the past, but everything is natural because the past days were quiet.

The embarrassing thing happened that night. It began to rain in the middle of the night, and I was awakened by the sound of rain. It suddenly occurred to me that my clothes were still hanging on the balcony. It rained that night, so I washed it for nothing. So I got up in a panic, crossed the living room to the balcony and took back the clothes hanging there. I threw my clothes on the sofa in the living room. When I looked up, I found him standing at the door of his room, staring at me. I looked down at myself and found myself disheveled. In a hurry, my pajamas were not buttoned, my breasts were half naked, and my hem was lifted to my thighs. I quickly pulled up my pajamas and told him with a smile that it was raining. I got up and packed my clothes. Are you still up? He still looked at me with that kind of straight eyes, and it took a long time to say that I got up to collect clothes.

I went back to the house, my chest was pounding, and I couldn't sleep for a long time after lying down. I seem to really realize now that I live with a man, a man with feelings and desires! I secretly told myself in my heart that I must pay great attention to my behavior in the future and never let him have any chance to think wrong.

Another night, he invited a group of friends to drink in the living room. He seldom brings his friends in, so I am very polite to them. I didn't expect them to stay up until midnight. I was too noisy in my room to do anything, so I opened the door and said, will you stop it? After his friend apologized, they broke up. After seeing them off, he knocked on my door. He said he was in a bad mood, so he invited his friends to get drunk with him. I'm sorry to disturb him. He invited me to the teahouse outside. I said it was late at night and I was too tired to go. His eyes are full of tears, and he won't forgive me if I don't go. I was moved by sympathy and went out with him.

In a teahouse, he asked for some wine and poured me a cup. I want to persuade him to drink less, and I don't want to be persuaded by him. He told me his lovelorn story, and I enlightened him. We talked for a long time before we went home.

Unexpectedly, when I opened the door and just entered the living room, he suddenly hugged me, pressed me on the sofa and kissed me wildly. I refused in despair. He said incoherently that he likes me. I don't have a boyfriend anyway. Since we live together, why can't we be dew couples? I pushed him away and told him seriously that I was a serious girl. In order to take care of each other, I share a house with him. I don't love him, and I can't help it.

I stayed up all night that night and hated him, but I had a strange affection and expectation for him. Intuitively, I know he can't sleep. I have an impulse to run to his room. I don't know what to do. It was not until the early hours of the morning that I made a decision in my mind. I have to move out. He and I are both confused, which is absolutely impossible. If there is any development after moving out, it means that we really have fate, but I will never be a naked couple with him as he said.

The next day, when I saw him coming out of the house with a face of regret, it was obvious that he had not slept all night. My heart melted and I gave up the idea of moving out. I was watching TV in the living room that night, and he took my hand. I didn't take it back. He stopped there.

Sister came back and found that there was something wrong with our expression, so she reminded me, sister, he is not suitable for you to marry. I woke up the dream person with one word. I am a girl who is going to get married. The person I am looking for is not like him. He has crossed the boundary of heterosexual sharing. How can I "mix" with him

If it weren't for Li's appearance, I wouldn't have moved out of that suite resolutely. Li is a boyfriend introduced to me by others, and all the conditions meet my husband's standards. My sister and her boyfriend rented another room, and I found a place myself. I didn't expect summer to come to my new place. He told Li that he had lived with me for a long time and I had long been his man. I am angry, but I can't explain it. Li said that he believed my sister and I's excuses, but I think his heart was full of doubts. I've known each other for a year, and I haven't talked about marriage yet. I know there is still that summer between us. I heard that heterosexual sharing is very popular in big cities such as Shanghai and Beijing, and there will be no problem. Why do my sister and I have such serious sequelae after trying it? Is Wenzhou too small, or is the concept of Wenzhou people more conservative than that of big city people?