Teacher Wei is here to talk about how to make students know how to respect others. The most important day should be for teachers to set an example. If teachers set an example first, let students feel respected, and then tell them that they should respect others in this way, students' experience should be deeper and the effect of education should be better.
However, in reality, we often can't do this. For an extreme example, the hottest news on the Internet recently is the incident of Teacher Ni from Shanghai Jiaotong University.
The incident happened as follows. Some netizens broke the news that Ni, a doctoral supervisor of Shanghai Jiaotong University, insulted students in the academic exchange group as "garbage, idiots, illiterate, and wrote the same thing as shit", and said that "everything is garbage, and when you train yourself into a cow, mention the word rest again!"
In response to the above incidents, the School of Electronic Information and Electrical Engineering of Shanghai Jiaotong University published a notice on its official WeChat about the handling of Ni Bingbing's violation of teachers' morality and style. According to the notice, in the process of guiding graduate thesis, Ni Bingbing did have inappropriate remarks and unethical behavior.
After the study of the joint meeting of the Party and Government of the College, it was decided to deal with Ni Bingbing as follows: 1, and immediately apologize to the students involved and the students in the research group, and make a profound reflection; 2. informed criticism shall be given within the faculty; 3. Stop its teaching work immediately.
After reading the news above, many people will be very complicated. A doctoral supervisor with very strong personal ability has such a problem that we have to ponder: what is wrong with our education?
The doctoral supervisor of the Open University is a teacher who sets an example. No matter what problems the student had before, when he said such disrespectful or even insulting words in public, he was already degrading himself. It is not easy to train a doctoral supervisor in our country, and we also believe that he has made infinite hardships on the road ahead. But when we lift the veil of hard work, struggle and success, we see such an indifferent soul.
I don't think it was his accidental behavior or unintentional loss to say these words. It is not easy for a person who never hits people to hit people, and it is not easy for a person who never swears to swear, which goes against his nature. Therefore, Ni Moumou's inappropriate remarks must not be the words of the time and place at that time.
In this person, we see high IQ and low emotion. The problems reflected in him, to a certain extent, represent some people with high academic level but poor moral quality. Whether it is school education or social education, moral education should be more important.
Back to the question of respect, it is precisely because of Ni's disrespect for students that students respond to him by exposing them; At the same time, due to Ni's disrespect for his work, Shanghai Jiaotong University gave a disciplinary decision.
Everyone in society is not an independent individual. A word or an action may bring good or bad results. There are words of caution in our old saying, all of which tell us that a gentleman should have a gentleman's heart and hold others to the clouds, and others will hold you to the sky; Step on others and they will abandon you.
People who love others will always love others. People who respect others will always respect others. This statement is correct.