When love becomes a pure game, it is an erotic process that has nothing to do with emotion. The more women who have experienced too many vicissitudes of love and see through men, the more they make men feel unattainable, and the more they can stimulate his desire to conquer. The sign that a man conquers a woman is to sleep with her formally, but the deep expression is her dependence and care for him. If a woman sleeps with a man, but at the same time disdains his love, it is simply contempt for him. If she is still detailing her past and sincerely asking him what he thinks of her historical boyfriend, "Should I marry the most handsome or the richest", it almost rises to insult-it seems to remind this man that the sex you get is only a woman's condescending charity, not the result of conquest. This purely rational and physical sex game has completely closed the emotional gate before consuming male sex. Its painful course is far better than watching chess without saying a word, far better than women shopping without shopping, and far better than men gambling without betting. Men's misfortunes are mostly due to greed, while women's misfortunes are mostly due to greed. If you can't grasp the scale of love, you will become its slave and be drowned by it. Happiness is not only enjoyment, but also a process of overcoming misfortune. Love is not only caring and giving, but also a kind of redemption for love itself. Only when husband and wife face the same enemies and sufferings, will Qi Xin work together and understand each other. Stress will squeeze you tighter, and cold will keep you warm. Marriage is also a kind of life, and it is also "born in sorrow and died in happiness". Men are more handsome than women, not that they must live better than women, but because they are always more sober than women. They understand from adulthood that love and marriage are very realistic. Life is a seesaw of spiritual and material pain. If you press this end, the other end will get up, so we should be satisfied. A man likes to know himself as a confidante, sometimes only mentally, at least at first, because he doesn't want his wife to know that he is fragile and powerless, and he wants to keep a strong posture in front of her forever. The stronger a person is, the softer his inner weakness is. Only a gentle woman can iron carefully. If a wife can find a man's fatigue and comfort him, a man will usually choose a wife instead of beauty. Men are easy to conquer women when they are successful, and they are easy to be conquered by women when they are frustrated, because men's hurt and frustrated hearts are sensitive, fragile and delicate. A frustrated man is like a woman and a child. At this time, what he needs is not a woman's "daughter nature", but "motherhood". If a man's greatest harm to a woman is "not loving", then a woman's greatest harm to a man is "surpassing". When a man approaches a woman for the purpose of healing, once he realizes that he is too dependent on the woman and becomes as short-lived as Liu Bei after his new wife, he will rationally choose to say goodbye to the woman temporarily and integrate into the world of pure men. This is why men like the World Cup. When he indulged his selfish nature, neglected his wife and children, and completely immersed in the crazy world of male life-and-death struggle, he felt completely relaxed. He warmly cheered for the attack and shooting, because dribbling and shooting largely simulated the process of men going in and out and ejaculation, and scoring was almost equivalent to getting a woman pregnant successfully. The greatest pain for a woman in love is that the person you love clearly loves you, but she plays the fool in front of you as if nothing has happened. A man is usually defeated not by a woman, but by his competitors. In a man's world, strength means everything. A poor man with great love may be a hero in the eyes of women-for example, Charlotte, a tramp in the eyes of the boss's daughter in the movie Circus, but in the eyes of the same sex, he is a real toad. A woman loves a man, not necessarily because of his current strength, but because he has the potential to become a hero. Pursuit is the best way to satisfy women's vanity. On the one hand, she can show her strong feminine charm by pursuing herself, increase her self-confidence and bring a deterrent to her boyfriend or husband. Second, you can show your loyalty to love by refusing to pursue. However, if a woman unfortunately meets a charming and indomitable man, the pursuit is a dangerous game. As the saying goes, there is no woman who is not tempted, only the temptation of flirting is not in place. It is a hobby of men, or a way of life. The "flower heart" index and action power of "oral flower" type men are far lower than those of "human show" type men. If a woman mistakenly thinks that a man loves you because of his sweet words or small fashionable gifts outside marriage, and then divorces rashly because of a little contradiction with her husband, you will soon find that the men who once courted you suddenly disappeared without a trace overnight. How did a man change from an idiot to a flirt? Why are men not as romantic and elegant as they were in ancient times? In fact, most men grow up in the storm of love. His first love teacher was either a romantic lover or a woman with romantic style. "China people get married like prostitutes, but prostitutes are like love." Ancient times paid attention to the words of matchmakers. A man didn't know why his wife got married until he entered the bridal chamber. It feels like a one-night stand to finish something beautiful with a strange woman who has never met before. However, visiting famous prostitutes is very particular. Meeting for the first time, revisiting the old place, and finally getting to know each other all have to go through established procedures, and the romance and elegance are far better than the wedding night. This doomed that the ancient men's understanding of women may mainly come from the romantic woman, not the wife. They always love each other, eating from the bowl and watching from the pot. They regard love as a game of conquest, starting with their own hearts and ending with women's hearts. When women make up their minds to start a new relationship, the curtain of men's feelings has quietly fallen. He is either waiting for his next romantic lover or busy buying Christmas presents for his wife and children. Life is a flowing cushion of love, a combination of love and being loved, injury and injury. Before a woman finds her final destination, her love always lingers between a good man and a bad man. The bad guy hurt her, the good guy cured her, and then she went to the bad guy to get hurt. When a woman still can't find her Mr. Right after setbacks, she often feels, "The person she likes doesn't appear, and the person who appears doesn't like it." The biggest difference between women who consume men and men who consume women is that when men play with feelings, they are often out of "fraternity" and can be backed by stable feelings and marriage, while women's game feelings are often out of despair of love. Without prince charming, love can only wander aimlessly, because it hurts when it stops. Feelings are poison, but it is more poisonous to keep your feelings. For women, the more they spend, the more lonely they are. In fact, feelings have never been "consumed" or "consumed", only those who conquer it. If a man hasn't made a move yet, a woman will see through him at a glance. Where is he qualified to continue to "consume"? Why is the probability of traditional housewives betraying their husbands much higher than that of models and artists who look more "playboy"? This problem has been discussed countless times: because housewives are lonely, bored, emotionally stagnant and full of fantasies, they always expect something to happen inadvertently, while models and painters have plenty of opportunities to vent their emotions, which is safer. Science seems to prove that the flower heart is congenital, mainly because "genes" are at work, that is, DNA sequence variation leads to individual differences in sexual desire. A beautiful woman is more of a passive and hypocritical playboy. Because they have the opportunity to be favored, sought after and paid for free by successful men, they surrender to vanity again and again in the face of strong material temptation, and over time they get used to being surrounded by men. Many times, they just can't give up a seemingly noble and respectable life. Many men find some so-called "beauties" after catching up with them. She is as pale, thin and boring as a blank A4 paper. She was frustrated, bored, regretful and wanted to commit suicide. At this point, he can't get rid of her. Unlike the goal of playboy men going straight to "sex", playboy women may like sex, or they may just like to indulge in a spiritual love. This is the reason why the concept of "fourth person" is popular among women (including feminine men), because real men are very short of this rich imagination and patience to stay in "Platonic" spiritual love for a long time. Playfulness does not mean promiscuity, promiscuity, but it can easily lead to emotional derailment. Once in love, women (especially beautiful women) usually go further than men. No matter what kind of "playboy" it is, after realizing its super attraction to men, women may subconsciously use it for commercial purposes and turn it into a tool to grab wealth for themselves and their families, which will inevitably hurt men and eventually hurt themselves. Whether a woman is a playboy or a man can't control himself in front of a playboy woman, in the final analysis, it is because human beings are animals first, and the image of men and women in each other's hearts can never be separated from one word: "color." A successful man may be emotionally confused. On the one hand, he is too picky and stubbornly believes that he can find a woman with good appearance and looks. On the other hand, he always treats love with a rational and logical attitude, but he doesn't know that women's thinking is always "nonlinear" on the issue of love. For the so-called successful man, it is easy for a woman to admire him, but it is often because of his casual weakness and clumsiness that she really falls in love with him. Don't think that your love is different.

The most common mistake women make when they are in love is to blindly believe that their lover is the best man in the world, that love is great enough to stand all tests, and that they have unique love in the world. If you just talk about it and satisfy your vanity, that's fine. What's terrible is that she actually took it as a program of action and put it into practice "bravely" to prove the correctness of her ideas through practice. Don't think that your love is different. Don't cling to an extramarital affair just because it has a beautiful result. Don't believe that there will be real feelings between a man and an extramarital lover, unless he wants a divorce before he knows you. Once a man gets married, he will understand that his responsibility to his wife is greater than his feelings. Especially when he has a child, his responsibility is heavier. Extramarital affairs are nothing more than a relaxing process to vent his excessive energy and desire, decompress his career and hinder his divorce. Once he feels that his passion is exhausted, or that you need marriage, or that this relationship may bring danger to his career, he will make a rational choice quickly. Don't think that your love is different. Don't give up everything for love. What is love? In the short term, love is an emotional dream that gushes from the heart and an impulse that is willing to pay for each other. In the long run, it needs realistic nutrients. Emotional happiness must be based on not confronting reality, otherwise it will be difficult for you to speak the same language with the people around you, and you will be black and blue all over. Don't think that your love is different. Don't cling to an extramarital affair just because it has a beautiful result. Don't believe that there will be real feelings between a man and an extramarital lover, unless he wants a divorce before he knows you. Once a man gets married, he will understand that his responsibility to his wife is greater than his feelings. Especially when he has a child, his responsibility is heavier. Extramarital affairs are nothing more than a relaxing process to vent his excessive energy and desire, decompress his career and hinder his divorce. Once he feels that his passion is exhausted, or that you need marriage, or that this relationship may bring danger to his career, he will make a rational choice quickly. Relatively speaking, men get the least injuries when they pursue women. Because he was only driven by lust and did not rise to true feelings. "Lala" told him that where he fell, he had to get up and he had to never lose heart. A man becomes a man because he must be strong, brave, intelligent, tolerant and gentlemanly. Even if you are not born, you should practice hard the day after tomorrow until you look like this. However, it is these secular requirements that make them often deceived. In the name of pure love, women lie on men they don't love for shelter, or under the banner of testing men's true love, lure him into shopping malls to swipe their cards during the first two dates, which are all insidious injuries to men. For women, it is even more shameful to seduce men because of business orders or job promotion. Women should live in a hidden and dark place, because this weak gender is full of insidious and cunning. Unless a man is battle-hardened and invulnerable to beauty, he probably falls into the gentle trap of beauty before he knows it. The more industries and transactions involving major interests, the more rampant the "honey trap", and the more men in it are wary of beautiful women. They would rather date a simple-looking female college student than accept an active invitation from a professional woman with a dusty face and a business conspiracy behind her. A man is like steel. You seldom see him hurt, but you only see him "broken". In fact, men are more insecure and need women's care, although they never say anything. It takes a person who tied the bell to untie the bell. Only a woman with great tenderness and sincere care can let a man find a sense of security and recover his toughness before "breaking". The so-called human nature is just that everyone seeks the best balance between loving and being loved, hurting and being hurt according to their own standards. Don't you think women would rather a man be a little macho than a melon? Although women want men to spoil her, they don't like men who take her too seriously, at least they don't cherish it. Women generally don't like obedient men. Women who ask men to always put themselves first are often not mature enough to cherish. Women don't really need men's looks, otherwise they will feel insecure. The insecurity of love is like beer foam, and proper foam has a taste. Loving a woman can neither make her too insecure nor make her too insecure. Many times, women love because of insecurity, and a kind of power to hold men tightly emerges from their hearts. If a woman feels that she has complete control over a man, it is hard for her to like him. In fact, women prefer mysterious and exciting things to men. She is often attracted to unpredictable men, although she will face danger and injury. At this time, she loves purely for love and for her own benefit. The ultimate goal of human life is happiness. Women will feel happy only if they release their motherhood and daughters to men. The main product of marriage is stability, and happiness is only a by-product. When a woman is single, she just feels lonely, not painful. Marriage is the root of their pain. Being too attached to feelings is the same as being too attached to life and death. Couples in trouble feel happier because insecurity makes them have little time to think about whether they are happy or not. Men are animals who only look at the results but not the process. Although they often despise women's eyebrows and eyes, they are indeed more easily moved by "carefully decorated" women. When women think, men laugh; When a woman is tempted, a man is fooled. Love is something that is incompatible with reason. A woman with a good face and a bumpy figure not only has the opportunity to wear an evening dress that makes men nosebleed, but more importantly, the self-confidence that gushes from her heart may make men fall in love at first sight. From the moment women enter the society, they begin to worry about love and work (the employment situation is not good now, and these two things have entered the university campus in advance). Having a good job means that women can enter a golden pond full of grass and fish and hold on to men as freely as Jiang Taigong. Even if they are unlucky and do nothing, there must be times when a dead cat trips over a blind mouse. In order to realize these two dreams, women must cheer up and start from self-transformation. Women are props, from face to hair, from chest to waist, from hips to legs, from hands to feet, as long as they are properly decorated, they can make men horny. On the one hand, a woman tries her best to "expose" things, on the other hand, she loudly scolds the man who stares at her no matter what clothes she wears as a "rogue", just to get the man she loves off-she would never have thought that this behavior has constituted a serious "sexual pollution" and inadvertently induced prostatitis in a strange man. When a man encounters a "honey trap", he usually can't remember that "walking is the best solution" because his brain has been "short-circuited" in an instant, the emergency escape procedure has been destroyed, and his memory can only call his default setting: "accompany him to the end". A man's life's hard work and innocence were destroyed by a woman. Women are natural love strikers, shouldering the two banners of "love first" and "vulnerable groups" and going forward bravely. Perseverance and injury can make them gain wide understanding and sympathy from society, and invisibly encourage them to attack successful men, even if he has a wife. If the life circle of a typical good woman is family, then the life circle of a typical bad woman is Jianghu. Bad women often wander among various interest groups and are indispensable lubricants in rivers and lakes. If she is not as beautiful as a fairy, then she must have superb male control ability. Their greatest pride is that they have the power to go straight into men's hearts, and some seemingly unsolvable problems can be easily solved by them. Bad women are the bridge of friendship between men and the most effective way for them to make a deal. A man's love for a woman must be based on complete conquest, otherwise he will always be in an unsafe state. A good woman is a man's rear area, and a bad woman is his comrade-in-arms in the trenches, and may even be a career noble. Different functions naturally lead to different identities. Like a person, you don't have to marry her. Men's unusually sober attitude is the main reason why they are not as fragile as women. Bad women can win so-called love, and good women can win substantive marriage.