Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and people do not believe in marriage more and more. Not only young people, but also some middle-aged and elderly people can't go on, and they have filed for divorce from each other.

Mr Chen is 50 years old. He and his wife have been married for 20 years. The child has just been admitted to the university. He thinks he can relax. Unexpectedly, his wife surprised her husband by asking him for a divorce. She has no job and no diploma. Who would want her to be a 47-year-old woman? He agreed, thinking that in a few days, his wife would beg him to remarry. Who knows, he is wrong.

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My wife and I are both born after 60. At that time, getting married was very simple, and there were no excessive conditions. They almost got married.

The house was converted from an old house, and there was no such high bride price. A year after my wife and I got married, she gave birth to a son, and the child was left unattended. She quit her job and concentrated on taking care of the children at home.

I can make money outside with more confidence. When I was old, I made do with her. I can't say anything about love, but I am responsible for her.

In this way, she took care of the children at home and I worked outside, which was also the model of many families at that time. Although having only one child is a great burden to us, the children spend a lot of money. In order not to let the children lose at the starting line, my wife specially invited a tutor to train the children, which required a lot of money.

To make matters worse, at this time, I was suddenly laid off. In order to make a living, I have to work in the south with my friends to make money.

In order to support my children and my wife, I work overtime day and night, just to earn more money, and my communication with my wife is getting less and less, so I can only go home for the Chinese New Year holiday.

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When I go home for the Spring Festival every year, what I wait for is not my wife's praise and greetings, but mostly her complaints and confidences. I am very distressed. After a few days' rest, I not only failed to get her kindness and concern, but made a scene with her every time, which made the whole family restless.

I just want to end my holiday early and leave home quickly, and I don't want to listen to a yellow-faced woman's complaints and accusations anymore. She said that I didn't care about my family, her and my children, which made her very miserable.

It was a man's responsibility. She had to do it herself. For example, if the child is ill, someone looks for a doctor to find a car and she is working alone.

The old man is in poor health and needs care. It is also her concern to see a doctor and buy medicine. She is on tenterhooks every day, afraid that she can't take care of the children and the elderly.

The electrical appliances at home are broken and the lights are out. Like a man, she has to stand on a high stool, change light bulbs and fuses, and her legs are weak, even if she falls and dies, no one knows.

She is ill, and it is her own responsibility where it hurts and where it hurts. Who will comfort her? She said, what's the use of a man like you? It's the same with or without you.

I feel wronged, and I don't want to, but I want to make money, but I don't want to make money. Don't their mother and son want to drink northwest wind? I blame her for being unreasonable and asking for trouble. Isn't that how every family lives? During this period, she mentioned divorce many times, and I was so angry that I smashed everything, but when it came to divorce, no one took it seriously.

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My son gets angry every time he quarrels with his wife. He said, "Stop arguing, I'm not going home."

We had to call a truce, and my wife said bitterly, "If it weren't for the children, I would have divorced you." Everyone is holding their breath, maybe it will break out one day, and I can't stay at home at all. I'm lonely and don't want a real divorce. In order to avoid quarreling, I left my hometown before the holiday came.

I want to go back to my hometown when my children go to college. Although I earn less money, I can stay with my wife and help her. She doesn't have that much resentment.

The child finally went to college and left home. After we sent the children away, I went home and said to my wife, "I plan to go back to my hometown to work." What do you think? " ?

Who knows, she said coldly, "What does it have to do with me? I have long thought about it, the child is gone, let's divorce. "

When I heard this, I flew into a rage, had a good talk with her, and even asked me for a divorce. I said, "Don't regret leaving."

I thought to myself, she hasn't been to work for 15 years and can't do anything. I have raised her for so many years that she can't live without me for a day. Before long, she was mainly obedient and begged me.

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Divorce her, I agreed, and leave the house to her. I ran away from home, left her 2000 yuan for living expenses, and went to work.

Day by day, one day, two days, a month, two months. More than half a year has passed and nothing has happened. I was a little anxious and asked my son what was wrong. According to him, his mother seems to have found a job and sent him money.

I am surprised: what can this woman who knows nothing and knows nothing do? I was in a hurry to call my ex-wife, but she answered, blaming me for affecting her work and telling me not to call again.

I was anxious to ask my boss for leave and go back to see what she was doing.

Back home, home has changed a lot. Many old things have disappeared and become particularly empty, but I feel clean and comfortable.

She didn't answer my phone when I called her. It was not until after 6 o'clock in the evening that I saw a woman, dressed in fashion, going home.

I hurried to open the door to meet me. My ex-wife was not surprised to see me, but she drove me away: What are you doing here? We have nothing to do with it. The house is mine. Leave quickly, or I'll call the police. "

I suddenly feel how small and stupid I am. I misjudged the situation and thought my ex-wife would beg me to get back together. Who knows, she'll be better off without me.

Become confident, young and beautiful. After so many years of marriage, I didn't expect my wife to be so beautiful. I secretly decided to get her back. I want her back. I dare not look down on her anymore. I want to learn to respect her.

People are forced. Without it, people will not be outstanding. In the past, my stupidity drove my wife away. I have to save her today.

Conclusion:

In fact, the problem between him and his wife has already happened, but he is above, does not want to solve the problem, and looks down on his wife from his heart.

I thought my wife could not live without him for a day, but I didn't know that her wife had sacrificed everything for her children.

She bravely took this step when the child didn't need her care. She wants to prove to people that she can still live well without a husband. At this time, the ex-husband had to lower his arrogant head and learn to respect her. I hope they have a happy ending.