There is nothing to worry about. The key is how real you think your feelings are. At least there are too many LES in China that are fashionable, or because they are separated from their boyfriends for a short time, but there are good female friends to relieve boredom or LES affects girls, so sometimes they misunderstand themselves as LES, but there are few pure LES. I study in Singapore. There are also many words around me that "love can last forever regardless of gender". But it really hurts them to see too many points and too much pain to bear the short sweetness, but only they know the truth of this feeling psychologically. Interdependence has been inexplicably painful. LES is usually too sensitive. Because society can't accept it, because of the pressure ... In fact, God created people in pairs. Can a man and a woman not be addicted? Because that kind of understanding and communication is beyond men and women, don't be afraid, don't hesitate, ask your heart first. The most important thing is true or false, but it must be said that 80% of girls are bisexual. When they don't meet the girl they like, they will be heterosexual. Finally, I hope everyone will respect LES. Nothing, but it is true to choose different feelings.
Les = lesbian: lesbian. The largest LES forum in China, China LES Alliance Forum, is very famous in the LES world.
Les meant girl. But in China's network, it is gradually alienated into the meaning of lesbian, also known as the same hobby, lesbian.
But some people like women, but they may also like men. These people are bisexual.
Some people are nervous and afraid at the sight of men, so they can't talk, let alone fall in love. So when they need love, they have to find a woman. This is called androphobia (non-scientific name, corresponding to misogyny) and can be treated.
Psychological factors, such as trauma or environmental influence, can also be changed.
Finally, there is a special:
Those who are dumped by men and say they want to be LES and never love men again are just escaping from reality.
It can also be said that it is a psychological abnormality (different from the "psychological" above)
Glass = gay
Les is the abbreviation of English "lesbian", which means "Lesbian".
T is the abbreviation of "tomboy" in English, and in les, it is a person who is dressed up or has a masculine character.
P is the abbreviation of "pretty girl", a person who dresses up beautifully or has feminine taste in les.
T and P are relative, no one is absolute T or P, so judging whether you are T or P depends on the specific feelings of both sides. Who can overwhelm each other psychologically is T.
Regardless of TP (also called H), you can't decide whether you are T or P, so it's called "regardless". Les, which generally has no object, can be said to be "single-minded"
GL is the abbreviation of "girllove" in English, which means that this person is not LES (or not exactly).
But the person she loves happens to be a girl.
There is also a common saying that GL is used in the animation field.
Lily is a pure platonic love between women.
BI is the abbreviation of "Bisexual" in English, which means bisexual.
Gay, in English, not only means "happy", "cheerful" or "happy", but also refers to homosexuality. In use, the original meaning of "happiness" is basically no longer used in daily life, except that the original accident can be used when quoting literary works created in the past, or banter and word games can be removed.
English etymology
The word "Gay" has had a sexual meaning since at least19th century (maybe earlier). In Victorian England, both women and men were called "homosexuals" (because they were brightly dressed). So in the end, "gay" became the name of all gay men. In the United States, the term may come from the tramp group: a young tramp, or a "gay cat" or an "intermittent cat", often has to make friends with another older and experienced tramp in order to get a chance to learn and survive. There is sex in this relationship, so "gay cat" means "young gay". Among these earliest "homosexuals", Thomas collingwood is the most famous. He is a chubby musician with a face like an angel. After long-term unemployment, he fell into a difficult life.
Gertrude Stein wrote in Miss Fur&; The introduction in Mrs. skeen (1922) is probably the earliest traceable usage of this word, although it is not sure whether she refers to lesbianism or happiness.
They are … gay, they seldom learn how to be gay, … they are totally gay.
They are ... homosexuals, and they have learned something about homosexuality ... They are usually homosexuals.
Noel Coward's musical Bitter and Sweet is the first undisputed use of this word. In the song "Green Carnation",1in the 1980s, four people dressed as playboys sang:
Beautiful boy, smart boy, you can
Sniff our depravity,
Arrogant boy, naughty boy,
Honey, honey, honey!
Be fascinated by emotion ...
Why are we in the 1990s?
Will be called gay,
We are all wearing green carnations.
Beautiful boy, witty boy, you may laugh.
When we broke up.
Arrogant boy, naughty boy,
Honey, honey, honey!
be artificial/unnatural ...
Because we are the reason.
Because the post-90s generation is gay,
We all wear green carnations.
Cowell used "gay 90 s" as a pun. The name of this song implies the gay playwright Wilde, who is famous for wearing green carnations.
Gay has a narrow sense and a broad sense. Homosexuality in a narrow sense only refers to men who tend to have sexual or emotional relations with other men. Homosexuality in a broad sense refers to men and women who tend to have sexual or emotional relations with the same sex. (However, this point is controversial, so some people will use the word "lesbian and gay". Please meet gay people. Whether bisexuality is included in these usages is also a controversial issue (see bisexuality).
Some people claim that gay is abbreviated from the first letter of the sentence "Good As You", but this is based on the false etymology of the word gay.
Another folk etymology is related to Gay Street, which is located in new york West Village, which is connected with gay culture. According to the literature, it seems that this term once existed in new york in the form of code at 1940s. "Are you gay?" This question shows that there may be more meaning than outsiders seem.
According to the Washington State Safe Schools Alliance (Washington Safe Schools Alliance), the professional dictionary of school staff says:
Homosexuality: avoid using this term; Too clinical, too far away, too old. It is sometimes appropriate to mention homosexual behavior (although homosexuality is a better adjective). When referring to a person, homosexuality is regarded as a kind of degradation, contrary to the mentioned behavior, and homosexuality is a better term, at least in the northwest of the United States.
Therefore, in the eyes of some people, the word homosexuality also belongs to "politically incorrect" vocabulary.
Usage in China area
Taiwan Province Province, China
In Taiwan Province Province, gay has generally become one of the terms used by gay groups to address themselves, and it is also acceptable outside the group. However, gay has never been a term used to refer to lesbians at the same time, or at least it has not been widely accepted. Lesbian groups will call themselves lesbians. Usually when talking about the word gay, Lazi will be a relative noun.
There is no accurate Chinese translation of English "gay" in Taiwan Province province at present. Some people think that homosexuality is a possible translation of gay, but gay in the context of Taiwan Province Province includes lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people (see LGBT entry) and even dissidents like BDSM, while gay only refers to gay men. It is precisely because people can't understand gay in Chinese translation that English vocabulary is widely used in Taiwan Province Province.
Hong Kong
In Hong Kong, the Chinese translation of gay is gay. However, this Chinese title is derogatory because it is often used in a sarcastic tone.
continent
Gay generally does not refer to lesbians in mainland usage, and the name of lesbians is similar to that of Taiwan Province Province. The original English text rarely appears in official articles, and is replaced by homosexuality or gay men. The word "comrade" often appears now.
Differences in usage between English and Chinese
Gay can be used as a noun and adjective in English;
When doing adjectives, the expression "He is gay" (he is gay) is very common, and the singular form of the noun "he is gay" rarely appears.
When making nouns, they usually appear in the plural to describe groups, such as "gays and lesbians". The singular or minority is much less common, such as "he is gay" or "there are two homosexuals". This usage sometimes indicates that the speaker is slightly derogatory or joking.
In Chinese, the singular usage of the noun "He is gay" is very common in Chinese mainland. But he also said, "He's gay."