For boys, there are generally no complicated interpersonal relationships in university dormitories. They just say whatever they want. Even if it causes unhappiness, it won't be long before the two sides make up again.
If the two sides can't get along, other roommates will come to persuade us to let go of our bad feelings. Let's communicate with each other, solve the contradictions that should be solved, solve the misunderstandings that exist, and let the dormitory restore its former peace.
For girls, there is always a small world of their own because of their delicate mind. Therefore, when communicating with each other, it is often difficult to see their true inner thoughts. Maybe I poured out my heart to you, and you told these things to another roommate as a joke in the blink of an eye.
For such a roommate, we just need to contact her as little as possible. Knowing her personality, why bother rubbing her? This is asking for unhappiness. Just have basic contact at ordinary times. There is no need to show her everything in it.
In addition, when our family education or economic situation and personality are different, it is easy to produce contradictions. In this process, once you find a problem, you might as well put yourself in others' shoes.
When we have a contradiction, we should first consider this question from each other's point of view, whether he is wrong or I am wrong.
If it is my fault, then I should take the initiative to apologize instead of sighing, and I must win back this face, which will lead to more intense contradictions between the two sides. If he is wrong, and it is not a big deal, then we might as well take a step back.