Of course, the little girl's mother definitely didn't want to fight with the female college students directly. Fortunately, someone pulled a leg and no more serious consequences occurred.
After this incident, netizens also commented one after another. There are two main tendencies.
People who tend to be female college students think:
1. The little girl is ill-bred and screams loudly in public places, which affects others' eating. Everyone's views are also in line with the article written by the author earlier. "If parents don't educate their children well, someone will educate you in society …" roughly means "Xiong Haizi".
2. Emphasize that when the little girl screams and affects others' eating, the mother should pull the little girl out of the restaurant for education.
3. There is another view that in the face of many "Xiong Haizi", most people also want to stand up and teach them a lesson in person, but because of their reasons, everyone refrains (yes, this is the difference between adults and children).
Netizens who are distressed by their children hold another view:
1, preschool children's noise is really not a problem that "education" can easily solve.
Parents didn't choose to ignore it, but stopped it at the right time. It shows that parents are not blindly doting on their children (there are also pictures of mothers pointing at their children after hearing them scream in the video).
In any normal society, it is inappropriate for female college students to do so.
4. Some netizens satirized those who applauded and supported female college students: "You people had better not have the next generation."
Some netizens strongly support the little girl's mother to call back, so there is no need to be polite to female college students. And think that the behavior of female college students is very uncultured.
6. Another netizen's point of view is thought-provoking: children have poor self-control and can't control their emotions. Are college students unable to control their emotions? Should they be as knowledgeable as children?
This last point of view really pushed the right or wrong of this farce to the forefront. Compared with children who don't know the rules, this female college student should know the rules even more. The little girl just got carried away and screamed a few times. Although there is something wrong with her behavior, it is much lighter than "kicking people" by adults. Compared with the behavior of female college students, the behavior of little girls is easier to be forgiven.
Therefore, we also need to warn those who care about other people's children. No matter how bad their children are, as long as you don't do something uncivilized that directly targets you, don't try to be brave and teach other people's children a lesson. This is also the difference between adult literacy and child literacy. As the saying goes, "my children and I have no common sense", let alone preschool children!
But then again, children's behavior in public places can really reflect a family's upbringing. Whether children can behave in public places has a lot to do with their usual family education. Children with good family education, even if they play in public places, will have a sense of proportion and will not be as presumptuous as at home.
Some parents may find it a headache for their children to play in public places. A netizen said that such an example is worth learning.
Case: Two girlfriends took their children to a restaurant for dinner. The two children are eating and making noise, and everyone around them is disgusted. After several unsuccessful educations, the two mothers got up and left with their children. The child said there was still a lot to eat. Mother said, "because of your noise, we can't eat here, and we can't pack the unfinished things." I hope you can remember! " "
The author believes that this educational case can be used for parents' reference. In the face of stubborn children, let them feel pain in the absence of education (not physical pain, but let the children feel pain inside). Let them know that the consequences of disobedience are serious and there will be losses. Only in this way can children remember the lessons and gradually change their stubborn habits.