Love is what everyone yearns for, especially talking about a vigorous love with the person they like, which many people have expected, and of course college students are no exception. When I was a student, many people had the impulse to fall in love, but in high school, the teacher always said not to fall in love, and how to fall in love when I went to college. So many people put up with it, thinking that they can fall in love at will when they get to college. But is it really what the teacher thinks? Can you really fall in love when you get to college?

I tell you as a senior, this idea is not correct, and falling in love in college is not that simple.

First of all, you can't find the right person to talk to you about the love you want. Either you don't like others or others don't like you. At this time, you no longer believe that college can fall in love casually, and you begin to lose heart and care about love.

Secondly, although you fell in love and even gave him everything you had, the result was not what you wanted. How sad it is that you are planning your future and he is trying to escape.

Third, some people fall in love just to get rid of loneliness. This kind of love is harmful to others and yourself. You can try if you don't believe me.

So how to increase the chances of knowing the opposite sex?

First of all, you should take part in more activities. Classes in universities are not so closely connected. You may not know a few people last semester, let alone have a deep conversation and fall in love. It is very necessary to cooperate with various activities at this time. There are more opportunities for contact with people, and naturally there will be heterosexual contacts.

Second, you should constantly improve yourself and become excellent. Excellence is a habit and a unique attraction. When you talk about Kan Kan in your speech, it is inevitable that some boys will be interested in you and ask for contact information everywhere.

Third, it is also very important to take the initiative. Be nice to the boys you like, increase the chances of contact, and don't be too shy, so as to ensure that you won't miss the people you like to the greatest extent.

In addition, senior feels that a girl's correct view of love can also attract the opposite sex. The so-called butterfly is in full bloom and the flowers are coming.

First, you should choose what you like when you are in love. If you don't like each other, but fall in love for some benefit, I advise you not to talk as soon as possible. If you squander your feelings like this, one day you will be unable to love and no one will love you again. So you'd rather not fall in love than deceive yourself.

Second, put yourself in the other person's shoes. If you are already in love, think more about each other. Don't always hurt each other because they love you. If this goes on for a long time, you will lose your love and the people who love you.

Third, lead an honest and clean life. This is advice for a girl in love. You can give yourself to him, but you must be willing, not keep him. If you don't want to hand yourself over, you should make it clear to the other party, and don't always play with others vaguely. Of course, this is also responsible for yourself.

Fourth, do it and cherish it. You can't be half-hearted If you love someone, you have to be whole-hearted. Don't always think that he loves you and dotes on you, so you become savage and inattentive. I tell you, if you do, you will regret it.

Fifth, don't compare, love is love, don't always compare your lover with others, so your's love will end with your's comparison.

Finally, I will give you a piece of advice: "Choose what I love and love what I choose".