At this stage of learning how to get along with people and society, it is normal to be out of reach.

You should redefine what you want and what you get in college, and don't judge your gains in college only by junior high school and high school.

Although your academic performance is not as good as others, it is normal for many people to tell you how to do it, but not how to do it. When you leave the society, you will feel that these are all natural and normal things. No one will tell you how to do it. You can only explore it yourself, but it is still very meaningful. These are the answers that you need to explore this knowledge.

You should also know that if you want to improve yourself, it is important to experience all aspects of life and sum up all aspects of experience. These are all important parts of trying to improve your life experience, so it is very important to find a suitable planning and planning method in the university.

Anyway, I summed up the so-called meaning of life. The most important thing in life is the following two things:

To experience, to experience, to feel.

To experience everything that life has never experienced, to experience all kinds of things, to experience mountains, rivers, oceans, islands, to experience grasslands, deserts and Gobi. To experience things that others have experienced, but they have not experienced.

Experience is what you do. You can experience a teacher without being a teacher, and you can experience all kinds of life experiences of lawyers without being a lawyer. You can experience it by yourself through your own life.

Feel the feelings you have never felt before, such as love, such as lovelorn, and regard them as some processes that must be experienced in the feelings of life, so that you can gradually grow from these setbacks. Increase your sense of success and failure.

Various departments, societies and associations in universities are equivalent to a small society, and working here is equivalent to working in society, so my second suggestion is:

To adapt, to discover, to summarize.

Adaptation is to adapt to all kinds of life in all kinds of States, to adapt to everything that you don't adapt to.

I remember someone saying that if we can't change the world, we must try our best to adapt to it!

Find out the consequences of what you have done and try to find something new that you haven't found. Write all these down and express your daily emotional state in a diary.

Life will develop as you want. You can only slowly explore the answer that suits you in the ever-changing world. Maybe others give you different answers, but these can only be used as reference.

What you really need to do is to solve it yourself and experience it. No matter what others say, you haven't experienced it, and you still won't believe it or fully understand it.

When you go to school, you will say that the teacher's lecture is so simple. How can it be wrong? Looking back when I grow up, I will feel that the previous questions are very simple, and I often understand the truth, but I don't know how to solve it. The solution to the problem is gradually formed and developed in the process of growth and experience.

Maybe when you are in school, you will ask, is the adult world so difficult? I think life is always so hard. You need to make your own plans, make your own decisions, be clear-headed, think from the perspective of others, and constantly sum up experiences and lessons, so that you won't be at a loss when you encounter things again. You need to get to know the world slowly and get to know yourself again by getting to know the world.

Here are some suggestions for your reference during your college years:

First of all, take part in more club activities, take part-time jobs on campus and give extra-curricular tutoring, try to save some money for yourself to learn more skills, encourage yourself to travel, experience, see the world, and learn various hobbies, such as dancing, diving, skiing and rock climbing, which not only broaden your horizons, but also enhance your sports ability and exercise.

Secondly: if you want to be beautiful, you must work hard as soon as possible. If you want to lose weight, you must lose weight. If you want to take good care of your skin, you should try not to stay up late. Once you get some diseases, even if you have money later, you may not be able to cure them. Remember that health is the capital of revolution.

Third: what is going on in the world is unknown, and what is going on in the world is unknown. Please don't try to die for the people you meet in your life. Nothing is more important than life, and nothing is more important than happiness. Feelings are mutual, so you should know how to give up. There is no need to cherish what others don't cherish, or you will be the last one to get hurt.

Fourth: study hard. University is a group society. You have been trying to form the habit of reading more books since college. After that, it will be hard to live outside school. Maybe you will never be able to study as leisurely as college. Life is endless, learning is endless, don't stop fighting and make yourself better. Reading is really not for others. We should try our best to absorb beneficial nutrition from reading and make ourselves better.

Fifth: be happy every day. Be sincere and love to laugh. A person's mentality is very important to life. Do not engage in some useless social activities. One or two good friends are actually enough.

Sixth: Try to start your own property plan and your own fund plan. No matter how much money you have, you should learn financial management from now on, and then slowly start updating iterations from here. From savings to investment to funds to stocks, I try to snowball my money.

Seventh: Learn to say no, please ask all students and colleagues who consume their emotional experience and practice to stay away from their own life circle, and don't entangle with it, consuming their ability and youth.