Is it advisable for children to attend university banquets? After ten years of hard work, they just want to be admitted to a desirable university. Many children's parents want to celebrate their children's graduation banquet after becoming the number one scholar, so is it advisable for their children to attend the university banquet? What should I do?

Is it advisable for children to enter the university for a banquet? 1 Is it advisable to hold a school banquet?

At present, the election of unified college entrance examination has gradually fallen asleep. Many parents will prepare a "school banquet" for their children after receiving the university election report. I received several phone calls these days, inviting me to have a "school banquet". Among them, there are public officials, so it is difficult to send invitations, so they can only ask for permission by phone. Board houses are not allowed to go, and then they are divided into several pieces, and several quiet "peasant houses" are used for banquets in batches. If you are not a public official, you can strut out and invite me, and you can sing me on stage.

Why do a few parents hold a "school banquet" for their offspring? After observation and creation, the author seldom finds the following reasons: First, in the past, too many "sky-high meal tickets" were received, and the "silver" spent was secretly collected and audited, or "lost". Second, there are many only children at present, so "being among the best" is a family event, and it is a bit unreasonable not to "make trouble". Thirdly, influenced by the conservative idea of "returning a peach to a plum", a few people always find a time to salute each other after receiving gifts from others repeatedly.

This unhealthy trend of "school banquet" has spread from metropolis to rural areas, and many farmers have moved the "school banquet" to metropolis after being admitted to Shanghai University. The "school banquet" hosted by the author for relatives in a rural area has a special style, with nearly 50 tables, hundreds of guests and a band, which can be called "high standard".

The result of the "school banquet" is a long-term extravagance, focusing on comparison and promiscuity. At the same time, it has also suffered ordinary old people and made many families miserable. The gift money of the "school banquet" ranges from 200 to 500 yuan, even as high as several thousand yuan, which greatly increases the expenses of many families and makes them "financially" nervous. A few people think that eating in the past was just a conservative "wedding, funeral and wedding", but now it has spread to housewarming banquets, birthday banquets, full moon banquets, one-year-old banquets and school banquets, which are ever-changing and daunting.

At present, from the central government to the occasion, leaders and departments at all levels are eating and drinking, saving money, and discipline inspection departments at all levels should formulate countermeasures to give public officials a root in view of the "upper strategy and lower countermeasures" shown in the "school banquet". For the general elderly, holding a "school banquet" is certainly part of the action, but it has a bad influence and is unlucky for building a harmonious family and society.

Is it advisable for children to go to college for a banquet? How should we hold a school banquet?

1, "good university" is the opposite. It depends on who they are. Take our family as an example. From my father's generation, not to mention three generations, that is, ten generations forward, they are all farmers.

Among them, the person with the highest academic ability is my father. Of course, the hukou book says junior high school education ability, but in essence, in my opinion, he graduated from primary school at most.

In this family, of course, I was admitted to an ordinary two universities. However, isn't this a good university in our family? Is happiness worth it? Why don't you congratulate me?

Not to mention two, even if it is a junior college, our family is also very happy.

So good universities are opposites, and there is no consistent good university. For a family of scholarly families, it is nothing trite to be admitted to a prestigious school, but for an ordinary rural family, it is particularly satisfying to be admitted to an ordinary two books.

Therefore, as long as my feelings and family get along, that is, I have been admitted to a good university, it is worthy of congratulations from my relatives and friends.

No matter what university you are admitted to, it is the deadline for your children to do their best. For parents, we are not allowed to just stare at other people's children. No matter how well other children do in exams, it has nothing to do with us.

We should pay more attention to our children and give them certainty no matter what university they are admitted to, because this is the deadline for them to go all out and the best report of their hard work for more than ten years.

Therefore, only they do their best, and no matter what university they are admitted to, they deserve congratulations.

3. "School banquet ≠ stale" is a way of congratulations. We need to correct a point before giving the children a school banquet.

That is, the school banquet is just a way to congratulate children on being admitted to Shanghai University, and should not be regarded as a "stale" signboard.

Even a small number of public officials must beware of size, even if the unit has a relationship appeal, it must be placed according to it.

Therefore, before the school banquet, we need to correct our views, but for the sake of the noise of the master, to congratulate the children on their admission to Shanghai University, and to congratulate the children on their adulthood.

In many cases, "involuntary" school banquets, especially in rural areas, are still gradually becoming a fashion.

This is probably related to the conservative atmosphere in China. After all, getting into Shanghai University is as good news at home as the traditional one.

Generally speaking, when something big happens at home, relatives and friends in the city get together to congratulate them to express their praise for their children and to recover their scattered money.

Under the efficiency of this fashion+ethos, in many cases, parents are still a little "involuntary" whether to cook tables or not. This is not my decision, so parents from rural areas may wish to understand this sentiment.

The school banquet is not for comparison, abuse or saving money. This is a good conservative habit of China. Recently, the masters are advocating frugal diet, and the "CD Action" starts with me.

Even if you hold a school banquet for your children, you should chew more than you can chew, don't compare with others, and don't abuse it.

Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. If someone else orders 50 tables, I'll order 100 table, and if someone else orders one day, I'll order two days. This unhealthy trend must be eradicated.

The best way to have a school banquet is to invite friends and relatives with equal strength to have dinner together. Of course, if you don't accept red envelopes, you don't accept them.

After all, at this moment of soaring time, it is unlikely that you want to "collect money" by hosting a school banquet. The real profit was originally made by the stack house and the people who cooked the Tik Tok banquet.

6. Congratulations on your child's admission to Shanghai University. We are not sure that we must surpass it at the school banquet, and our thinking must also surpass it.

It is really worthwhile to congratulate a child on being admitted to Shanghai University. However, the way to congratulate him is not necessarily a school banquet.

Parents may wish to accompany their children to travel and have a graduation tour. After all, after their children go to school, they are probably busy with their studies and have no fun outside.

It is concluded that such a tour not only has a special significance of congratulations, but also might as well leave a beautiful review for the master.

In addition, parents might as well be satisfied with their children's ideals, which will probably win their children's love more than holding a school banquet.

As a result, let's sum up that whether to hold a school banquet has nothing to do with what university you are admitted to. This is just a way to congratulate.

It is worthwhile to congratulate you on being admitted to "985/2 1 1" University, and it is also worthwhile to congratulate you on being admitted to "Erpu" University. After all, now is the deadline for children to do their best.

Even if you want to hold a school banquet, you should be reasonable and compliant, not extravagant and wasteful, and not specialized.

Therefore, the school banquet is not the only way to congratulate.