Hello! The college entrance examination is over, which means that you will spread your wings in the university sky and start a new journey. At the age of eighteen, at a milestone like yours, my mother is already talking to an "adult" child. I think you and I are equal, just like two people who forget each other in a heart-to-heart conversation.
? I thought eighteen years was a long time, even sometimes I couldn't wait to help others, but it seemed that I was caught off guard, and suddenly you were eighteen. Your clear crying when you were born, your innocent smile when you were a child, your wandering figure when you were a teenager, and your rebellious face when you were a teenager all seemed to be staged in your mind, but a handsome and sunny big boy has stood in front of my eyes. Son, you have really grown up!
Mom is very happy to see so many bright spots on you. You are kind and upright, and you have always maintained a pure heart; You are generous and always try to accommodate everyone around you; You are warm, considerate, enthusiastic about others and put yourself in others' shoes. At the same time, you are a thoughtful and independent child, and you can always have your own unique opinions and opinions. So your mother has been very worry-free throughout your growth.
Now, you are like a full-fledged bird, about to leave the nest and fly high. Although your parents were desperate, you let go rationally. Because, we want you to be a real eagle and fly freely in the vast sky. However, please allow my mother to say a few words to me at this moment.
First of all, you should always write your "person" in a square way.
The mushroom cloud when the rocket flies is beautiful, and the curve across the sky is beautiful. But you should know that the rocket must run in strict accordance with its own orbit, or it will be a disaster. Being born in the world, walking in the society and writing life must be honest and self-disciplined. The water waves in the dam are gentle and graceful. Once we break through the dam, it will be a disaster and endless harm. Therefore, limited freedom is the real freedom, which belongs to your blue sky and white clouds and your comfortable life. Son, learn to consciously abandon the erosion of bad thoughts and resist the temptation of bad behavior. "Choose its goodness and follow it, and change its inferiority." Be an upright and capitalized "person". Whenever and wherever, please always remember that being a disciplined person is more important than studying.
Secondly, you should learn to study and master profound knowledge.
Today's era is an era of knowledge explosion. Without rich knowledge, we will all fall behind in the new era and even be eliminated by society. So you should learn to master a wealth of knowledge. Learning knowledge is our first choice, because it is the rich experience and achievements accumulated by predecessors, and we are also "standing on the shoulders of giants". This kind of study allows us to take fewer detours and master rich knowledge easily. At the same time, we should study and apply flexibly, and integrate theory with practice, so that we can truly master knowledge, turn the textbook knowledge summarized by our predecessors into our own knowledge, and apply it to our lives reasonably. If we are full of knowledge, but we can't make it work and create value, what's the difference between us and that heavy bookcase with two legs? Besides studying in class, we can also read a lot of extracurricular books to make up for our lack of knowledge in class. My mother sincerely hopes that you can learn professional courses well, be a fine and expert talent, be a good unit in the future and contribute to the country.
My child, mother wants to remind you again that you love reading. Relevant information shows that our nation is a nation lacking in reading, which may be materially rich but spiritually poor. So, let's start from ourselves, be a person who loves reading, enrich ourselves and make our nation stronger.
Thirdly, mom wants you to learn to deal with interpersonal relationships, love the collective and love the motherland.
? Each of us is a unique individual, but we are not alone. We all have our own living soil, such as your class, your school, even our society and our motherland, which is your living environment. Such an environment has a subtle influence on your life, so you should learn to deal with interpersonal relationships. Being kind to others is the most basic way to be a man. It is one of our principles to be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others. In this way, you will have more confidants and friends, and you will not be lonely when difficulties come. Mom sincerely hopes that you and your roommates, your class and your school will always be a harmonious and beautiful family. Mom hopes that your heart will always be filled with the motherland, because it is the motherland that provides you with such excellent learning opportunities and conditions. Therefore, when you succeed in your study one day, you must repay your motherland well.
Finally, mom wants you to become a stronger and stronger person.
Being strong doesn't just mean being strong when encountering setbacks and difficulties, but that you have done well. What I want to say here is that you must be strong when you make progress and success. Don't be carried away by your grades and think that you have climbed to the top. In this way, you will stagnate, your life will not progress, and you will not enjoy more beautiful scenery. This is another deeper power. "If you win, you will not be arrogant and you will not lose." Son, I hope you can do it!
My mother is worried for thousands of miles. I always feel that I haven't finished expressing what I want to say, and I always feel that I don't know where to start. I am worried, but I will definitely let go, because the value of sailors lies in fighting the wind and waves, and the territory of eagles is a vast sky. Children, pack up their confident bags, take their parents' advice, face the rising sun, stride forward and walk out of their own world.
? Love your mother.
20 16.6.22