First, expand the circle of friends.

If you only deal with a few buddies you know in the dormitory, it is difficult to get rid of the order. There is no chance to get in touch with the opposite sex. Why do girls take the initiative to find you? Therefore, if you want to get rid of the order, it is imperative to broaden your circle of friends and contact more heterosexual circles. For example, take part in more club activities in universities, join some interest circles and so on. This will not only show that you attract the opposite sex, but also have the same topic. For example, through the campus network, add girls from the same school, have photos and information, add what you like, chat online, or text messages, and you will gradually get familiar with it.

Second, add WeChat on campus.

The university campus is a relatively simple environment, so taking the initiative to find girls to ask for WeChat is rarely rejected. As you said, when you see something you like on the road, you go up and chat up and leave a micro signal. Actually, you should learn to strike up a conversation. Most girls like this initiative. There is nothing to argue about. What are you afraid of? It's a shame at best. As long as you get the other person's WeChat and pay attention to the way of chatting, you will have a chance of success.

Third, keep a normal heart and patience.

Honest and dull boys will be nervous when facing girls, afraid of saying the wrong thing, expressing the wrong feelings and doing the wrong thing. Actually, you don't have to do this. What you have to do is to be yourself, let others clearly see your strengths, characteristics and weaknesses, and at the same time see your frankness. There is no perfect man in the world. You don't have to cover up your shortcomings at the expense of your honesty. This is neither possible nor worthwhile. Even if you can hide it for a while, you can hide it for a lifetime. The result is nothing more than wasting each other's time and feelings. Don't make yourself nervous by thinking about falling in love as soon as you come into contact with girls. Be normal, start with your friends and let nature take its course, and you will have the best performance and the greatest opportunity. There is a saying that it is not unreasonable to chase girls insincerely (not to say that you are insincere, but to have a normal heart).

Fourth, enhance your personal charm.

Girls on college campuses value a boy's talent and looks more. So trying to make yourself excellent and clean will win you more attention from the opposite sex. Girls are vain, so I hope my boyfriend is excellent. Women are always comparing their men, so you must make her feel special.

Take her to the movies and give her a present.

Inviting girls to the movies is the best way to invite them, which is good for you and can further test our relationship.

However, watching movies is not a horror movie, but a gentleman's atmosphere. Buy her a small gift sometimes, but don't buy expensive one at first. Otherwise, she may be disgusted and can gradually increase and promote your's feelings.