How to effectively and successfully ask a girl out? Many boys don't know how to ask a girl out. Chatting is the first step to approach girls. Only if she is willing to continue chatting with you will there be a chance for further development between you. Let's share how to ask a girl out effectively and successfully.

How to successfully meet girls 1 1 and give them a sense of security?

If you want to ask a girl out, the premise is to make her trust you and make the girl feel safe to go out with you. What should you do? One is to exchange information, such as your own works, some play experiences and so on! The second is to let girls know that you are not a casual person, not everyone's date, and you can reveal your hobbies, personality and so on from the chat! Let girls think you are a real person!

Step 2 send an invitation

How to know a girl? In other words, when you want to ask a girl out, you can invite her in advance. Don't ask a girl suddenly. Also, it is best to meet girls in a convenient place. Don't ask the girl in the west of the city. If you ask her to go to the east of the city, she will definitely refuse your date!

Don't give girls a chance to reject you.

First of all, before the invitation, you'd better make some preparations and make a vague invitation in advance. For example, when you are chatting with a girl and the atmosphere is good, you can ask her to come out for a walk another day when the weather is fine. Come out and sit together sometime!

4. Choose a free date.

For example, meet at two or three in the afternoon, have a coffee, watch a movie, and finally have dinner together to send the girls home. This time is about 3-7 hours, which will give girls a feeling that you have been together all day and leave a deep impression.

Don't limit yourself to eating and watching movies.

Choose some unconventional projects, such as visiting IKEA, exhibitions, performances, making handicrafts, making desserts, etc. Some people need two people to do meaningful things. Nowadays, girls like to order food by themselves and can go to the movies by themselves. These traditional projects are really hard to impress them.

How to ask a girl out successfully 2 How to ask a girl out 1: Fuzzy invitation and double bondage

Fuzzy invitation:

Fuzzy invitation means that there is no specific time and place, only the intention of dating. For example, when you are chatting, you can say: I found that the food in XXX's house was particularly delicious before, and I still want to eat it. If you like, let's go together another day! Or watch a movie or something!

When your relationship with the other person is not clear, ask someone out as soon as you come up. Sometimes the other party will refuse you because the time and place are inconvenient, and it may be embarrassing when you are rejected! If you use this vague invitation to test each other, if the girl refuses you, then you can also make a good circle for yourself, and the relationship between your will not be embarrassed because of a refusal.

Double bondage:

Double bondage means that the other party has no way to refuse and uses language to bind the other party's inner thoughts. The use of this method is to take the default affirmation as a multiple-choice question. For example, if you want to invite someone to dinner, if you tell them, will you go to dinner together? This time is to give girls a chance to refuse. So a better way to put it is: do you want to eat or watch a movie? In this way, you can enter a state of choice in the other person's subconscious, instead of affirming or denying.

Therefore, when talking about dating, talk about two projects, first use the method of fuzzy invitation. If girls are interested, they can invite directly without double constraints.

However, I would like to remind you that there is no way to ask each other out 100%, so these skills only improve the probability of success.

How to ask a girl out 2: Inviting the other side is also a prerequisite.

Premise 1: sense of security

Many straight men have a high sense of demand. Just adding a few words with girls' WeChat will invite girls directly. Such invitations are not prepared, and most of them will be rejected. At this time, the girl's heart will think: Do I know you very well? Will you be a bad person? If you ask me out, I will go. What a shame.

So when you ask a girl out, you have to dispel all these concerns, otherwise any skills will be useless. The simplest thing is to increase contact with each other through chatting, so that girls feel safe! Only on this basis can girls be invited.

Premise 2: Girls' interest in you.

1, reply to your message in time.

2, the content of replying to your message is more than perfunctory.

3. She will reply to your comments in the circle of friends.

4. She will interact with you in your circle of friends.

5. She will take the initiative to chat with you or open a topic.

After girls feel safe in you, you should make them interested in chatting with you. You can speak in a practical and ambiguous way or in a humorous way, so that girls can feel that you are a worthy man. To do this, you need not only the appearance of a luxury car, but also sultry. In this case, your chances of dating success are already high. You need to learn to pave the way for dating and chatting, so that the other party will have a high interest in you and the success rate will be very high. Of course, before that, you should learn the way of vague invitation and double bondage!

How to effectively ask a girl out for 3 invitation times?

It is best to invite in advance, but not too early. If you ask her out a week in advance, maybe her plan is not so far away. If you stand you up for something else, it will also affect the feelings between two people.

Don't invite her for the time being, and people won't be willing to ask her out suddenly, because girls usually need time to prepare (and make up and change clothes themselves)

Usually, it is a better choice to invite for three or five days on the same day. Of course, this is not the rule. If there are large-scale activities, you need to invite them a few days in advance, such as music festivals and concerts.

Invitation skill

It is more reasonable to meet a girl you just met in a nearby place. Why?

"I'm visiting an elder in * * (near where she lives). If anyone sees you later, shall we come out for a drink? " Or "I want to meet a client in * * * (where she works). Why not have dinner together after work? "

In this way, inviting girls will be more casual, not too deliberate, and will not expose a strong sense of demand. If you just met her, too formal invitation will only give her pressure.

However, it should be noted that when you make a phone call or send a message, you can do it at home, and you don't really need to go near her home.

Telephone invitation

In this regard, the expert's approach is to call her for the first time, chat and get to know her, and then call her for the second time to make an appointment.

Remember not to reveal your sense of need. Don't send out an invitation as soon as you call. You can talk to her about the interesting things you have encountered in your life and work first, or ask her a question to catch her attention. Just talk for a few minutes, but don't talk for too long.

If you have a good chat with her on the phone, then "casually" ask her what she is going to do today, or what plans she has for the weekend. If she has no plans, she can vague the invitation first. This is a reasonable process.

Attention problem

If you hear a girl's invitation rejected several times, then I suggest you stop the invitation first, be quiet for a while, reflect on what the problem is, and then invite after several telephone conversations. The biggest possibility of invitation failure is that you don't give girls enough security.

matters need attention

1. Is the place you invited to meet far from her daily activities? If it is too far, girls will generally refuse.

2. Did you implant high-value personal information during your chat? Girls may resist because they don't know you.

Have you determined the specific meeting time and place and the theme of the event when you invited? If you are not sure about this with the girl, it is easy to be stood up.

In short, in the process of dating girls, girls will also get along to judge whether this man can be relied on.