In fact, there are many factors that affect it. For example, personal disharmony, some people are strong and some people are introverted, which leads to some contradictions in the process of getting along with others. Especially in a dormitory, there may be more friction between roommates. Over time, there is more friction, which makes some people reluctant to participate in social activities.

In addition, under the influence of the surrounding environment, for example, in today's society, some people's families are relatively rich, while others' families are relatively ordinary. Often, these two types of people will form a sharp contrast, while people with strong self-esteem will feel a little inferior. Over time, in such a college life, they are even more reluctant to participate in various social activities, because they feel that participating in such social activities is just a comparison with themselves, and they would rather be alone than participate in social activities.

In addition, under the influence of the environment in which you grew up, if your parents instilled some ideas in you, or lived in some depressed environment for a long time, your personality will be more introverted, even in college.

Proper socializing is still important, because college socializing is your circle of friends. How social you are, how wide your circle of friends is. But whether you like socializing or not, in fact, I think having fun is the most important thing. As long as you are comfortable, don't socialize too much.

If you feel a little lonely in your life, you can look at the beautiful scenery around you and look up at the sky, which may give you some comfort. Sometimes I just like looking at the trees around me.