People who study yearn for famous schools. The two most famous universities in China are Tsinghua and Peking University, which are battlegrounds for top students every year. However, there is such a girl from Guizhou who resolutely gave up the quota of walking to Peking University and chose to borrow 654.38+0000 yuan to study at Harvard. What is her usual life like?
The girl we want to talk about is Zhan Qingyun. Many people have seen her in variety shows. On the screen, she is calm, leisurely, hitting the floor and has a strong psychological quality. She is a very powerful debater. Although young, he has excellent professional standards, and many people will never forget his performance in the debate program. Many people say that she is a person with a sense of variety, and her professionalism is very high, from expression to figure to speech. What did she go through to have such an excellent performance? We might as well look at her past experience.
Zhan Qingyun was not outstanding when he was a child. She transferred from primary school to high school six times, and each transfer experience made her adapt for a long time. Every time she goes to a new environment, she becomes an "underachiever" in the eyes of teachers and classmates because of her poor grades. She is often laughed at by her classmates and satirized by her teacher. In the face of successive blows, Zhan Qingyun was very depressed. Instead of criticizing her, her mother often forgives her, telling her to treat her with a normal heart, not always thinking about her failure, and never forcing her to get points.
Zhan Qingyun said that my mother has a unique way to encourage me. When the grades in primary school are not good, my mother will say, "Don't worry, my mother will find someone to help you calculate. You will become a good student in the fourth grade." By the fourth grade, she was full of hope that she could become a good student, but her grades still didn't improve, which hit her hard. But her mother did not show despair, but encouraged her as always, saying that I would find someone to do the math again, and Xiao Qingyun would be a good student by the second day of junior high school.
By the second day of junior high school, Xiao Qingyun's grades still didn't improve much, which made her very anxious, but later, it turned out that her mother's words did have an effect. Since Xiao Qingyun arrived in the first year of high school, her grades have been getting better and better. Thanks to the encouragement of her parents, Xiao Qingyun never gave up on herself. With unremitting persistence, she finally ushered in hope and achieved better and better results. In the year of college entrance examination, she had a place where she could walk to Peking University.
Peking University has offered an olive branch, which is the dream of many children. Peking University also said that as long as she came to school, tuition fees would be free, but Zhan Qingyun did not choose to enter Peking University. She turned down the invitation from Peking University and chose Harvard University. The decision at that time shocked her relatives and friends. You know, Peking University was once an excellent condition. Although Harvard University is very good, studying there is not an easy task. After all, Zhan Qingyun is not afraid. In order to enter Harvard smoothly, she chose a loan of 6.5438+0 million yuan. Her parents also supported the resolution.
After successfully entering Harvard, Zhan Qingyun never relaxed his demands on himself, and still studied as hard as he did in high school. At Harvard, she not only learned a lot of high-tech knowledge, but also made many friends. She lived a full and happy college life there and graduated with honors.
After graduation, she went to work in a brand-new capacity and became a lawyer. In the program, we can be influenced by her elegant speech and calm expression, and this confidence is inseparable from her experience. You know, everyone will encounter all kinds of difficulties and choices in school life. It is very important for parents to encourage and support their children's future success. Zhan Qingyun didn't get excellent grades when she was a child, but she never slacked off in the long-distance running of her life, so she got what she wanted later and had the life she wanted.
Everyone is a maverick. Zhan Qingyun's experience tells us that the blade is sharpened and the plum blossom is bitter and cold. A person's life is very long. Although the performance at the beginning is not so outstanding, it is important to persevere and forge ahead. As parents of children, we must not be overly anxious or overly pressured. Giving children enough encouragement and support is more important than constantly asking them to win at the starting line. It is better to give children a relaxed growth environment, let them learn to adjust their state, and let them better adjust themselves and pursue their favorite careers after entering the society in the future!