? -written after the 57th issue of psychology of Nanning University.
Issue 49? Zhu Junfeng
On October 20 19, 1 1 0, I entered the classroom of college psychology, which opened a turning point in my fate. Looking back on the past year, I took five primary school classes and time passed quickly. The past me gradually drifted away. A few days ago, I sorted out the photos on Baidu's network disk and saw that 202 1 changed a lot. 20 19 up to now, my face has also changed a lot, and my body and mind have changed.
First of all, about desire.
I used to be materialistic and wanted to get rich overnight.
Now, I am relieved, and my speech is more grounded, frugal and moral.
? It turns out that I am busy every day on the way to start a business and have been looking for it. I have no goal, no direction, no plan. Now I finally understand that only moral pursuit and spiritual prosperity can precipitate more for myself and accumulate wealth. Bauer will be born soon, so she should be a better role model and try to be a good ancestor.
Second, the change of self-discipline.
Over the years, I have been going my own way, leaving early and returning late, rarely taking care of my children and not greeting my parents.
? In the past two years.
From getting up early and going to bed early, stay away from staying up late, stay away from the wine field (the tutor has never touched the casino), quit drinking when he can, and stay away from the old habit circle. The more self-disciplined, the more relaxed I am. Since August last year, I have also organized friends to climb mountains in Qingxiu Mountain every week, and share them with more people at dawn. Of course, I benefited the most. My 7-year-old daughter has also made many friends and has a good personality. She insists on getting up early and can get to school with the top three grades in her class, becoming a small role model.
Third, physical changes.
It used to be a monkey's face, but now it's a little round, paying more attention to the heart, landing?
Before entering the classroom, I was very afraid of cold in winter, but I should be more diligent in warming the bed for the whole family in the past two years.
The "heart" has softened, and I used to read articles without tears. Now I can, and my eyes are brighter. I'm practicing a series of eyes that will find beauty, and I'm moved?
Fourth, changes in education.
What needs to be strengthened and greatly strengthened is that it is often not obvious to help other people's children change some of their own homes.
Teaching by example-environmental education, I firmly believe that I have made some progress. I believe that I will help my friends change first, and my children will become better and better, because I lack that motivation and believe in my continuous efforts.
Will play an active role in family education, grow up with children, climb mountains with children for at least 7 years on weekends, and practice "rough cultivation and fine education" together.
Five, the change of thought
Teacher Xiaodong said that where there is a will, there is a way.
Take the teacher's ambition as your own ambition and help more lives grow.
Sixth, 57 classes
? This time, I didn't get much in class, but I was moved again and again outside the classroom. This time, I am mainly responsible for propaganda work. Generally speaking, I feel that I didn't do well, and many ideas didn't land well, but my team members are very strong and everyone works hard. Under the leadership of Brother Sun Qiong, we completed some publicity work before the meeting.
From this class, I once again saw the teacher's great love and compassion, not only wisdom, but also excellent physical strength. I saw the divorced couple, found the original love, embraced peace, and saw the prodigal son's money unchanged! Seeing the most "snake-solving" scene in the teacher's history, I felt the * * * vibrating power of "Boo-Boo" ... and "Boo-Boo". I thought I had that skill, which was the best and could help more people, but I didn't start until I knew myself. I only know a little, but I don't work hard enough. I met all the teaching assistants. This is really the best meeting I have ever seen. Every atmosphere in the classroom is carefully prepared. The classroom with more than 240 people and nearly 80 freshmen is like a mirror in the teacher's persuasion, showing everyone's habits clearly! I met someone closer to the "truth", and I learned more about the five principles of university psychology to cultivate my self-cultivation!
1 minute awareness, every second is equal (self-emotional management)
Communicate my feelings and let others know (how to communicate with others)
Willing to take all responsibility (take the initiative to take responsibility)
Accept what I have (don't compare)
5 live according to my principled position (with goals and directions)
Seven. Work in the propaganda group
1 Want to help refine the work, how to do a good job of division of labor. This time, I would like to thank Brother Wei Wei, who has decades of photography experience in the publicity group, for his hard pregnancy and coming back from Zhuhai a few days in advance to support the strictness of classroom work, as well as Meng Ping's eyes that will find beauty, Wei Ting and Chun Xiang, who are young and eager to learn, handsome and wise Jian Wei, and the steady and meticulous "corner" of the college. Brother Sun Qiong, who has always been modest and supportive of our young people, is so happy. After class, we also get together to share and exchange ideas. We will continue the publicity group next time. We have unified our opinions, so that everyone who discovers beauty in the propaganda group has the ability to discover beauty and practice that everyone is a propagandist. Teacher Zhu said: the propaganda team plays a role in adding fuel to the flames and making the finishing point.
The development of the team is always accompanied by active publicity activities, so we are more motivated. When we saw the team members working hard and sharing carefully: I am also glad to see that you two have gained something. I will definitely practice hard and live a good life. I think once, propagandists were lifelong propagandists of college psychologists. Our slogan is: everyone has a propagandist, and on the third day, he has a chance to get a microphone. I said this is the best conference system in the country. It may be really difficult for our group to make a good breakthrough, because basically all of them have reached 90 points, but the propaganda group can increase the number of people who find beauty and touch beauty on the basis of 60 points, show them to more people inside and outside the venue with words and videos, send signals to those who are looking for this lighthouse, and give more information and confidence to those who enter the system. There is a long way to go and more people need to participate. There are many talents in our propaganda group every time, but we need a team. Know how to cooperate with the team, how to coordinate the relationship inside and outside the field, how to concentrate in class, and how to return to work immediately after class, at least three times. Although I picked up the camera to shoot, I was very sad because of the memory problem of the mobile phone, because I didn't capture the most beautiful picture because of insufficient power. I think the publicity group is the best process to sweep the heart. I hope more senior brothers will participate in the publicity system and form a small force. In the long decades of practice, we have spent 1 to 2 years doing a good job in the publicity system, teaching and educating people, and teaching by example. It is not easy to find out. Let's deepen the propaganda work and form a surprise squad together!
This time, I have two starfish to come to class, Haiyan and Li Fen. Their efforts in class didn't worry me. Although I didn't lead by example as a gentleman, I devoted myself to the propaganda work and stood by 24 hours. They should be able to feel that I said "this is the best team" before. This class must be worthwhile, and I was forced to be sincere at that time. I will pay attention to your arrival and your sharing. I will be moved by your landing and diligence, which will be used by me and give me more strength to cultivate self-cultivation and family harmony. With you, I am no longer lonely in our group and our weekly mountaineering group.
From then on, I had friends on the same frequency, instead of 1 to share with hundreds of people. You have officially boarded the "Wisdom, Harmony and Happiness" and found the harbor of "Heart". In the future, we will walk hand in hand, thank you for your trust in me, and finally thank my referees: Brother Liang Yilan, Brother Ai Xiu, Brother Yongming and Brother Mei Zi, Teacher Ruoxi, Teacher Xiaodong, and many college students who care about me. Entering the "Yellow River" of university psychology, we can March forward, flow into the sea, join the Yellow River, I am the Yellow River, nourish more lives and run towards a happy and beautiful life together; The last drop of water gathers into a river; Moisturize the four sides, and show your virtue.