I work in a foreign company, and my income is good, but compared with the money needed to buy a house, it is far from it. My boyfriend's job has been unstable, and he graduated for two years. He has no savings at all. Every time I am with him, I see that he is reluctant to order good food and buy clothes, and I think of a sentence to describe our future, "but it is not what those who have been poor together know."

So, when he proposed to me, I refused. When I refused, many people on the sidelines were talking about it. Some people say I'm cold-blooded, others say I'm too realistic. But I can't go against my heart, I can't accept naked marriage, I can't accept a completely hopeless future.