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I am a college student, and my boyfriend's mother invited me to their home for dinner. How should I prepare?
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Take a small gift when you enter the door, such as chocolate or fruit. Just keep it simple. You'd better ask your boyfriend's opinion. If your boyfriend is mature, he will know what to bring.

Talk less and ask more questions, that is, take the initiative to find a topic and lead a topic. In this way, they will be more relaxed, so that you can master the dialogue.

You must play the clown and know that you are right, but agree that the other parent or your boyfriend is right.

You'd better address your elders with your respectful names instead of "you"

When someone gives you something, you should hold it with both hands. A little bow is good.

If someone gives you snacks and tells you to eat as much as possible, you can't eat as much as possible, you just have to taste 3. Only four. Although other people's parents say to eat as much as possible, they will still mind that you eat too much.

Take the initiative to help wash vegetables and serve.

Wait until he and his parents sit down. Chopsticks should be picked up by them first. You can eat.

Sit up straight and sit in the middle of the chair when eating. Don't bend over. Don't open your arms, hold them.

When eating food, eat it sideways, not on your stomach.

Take the first bite politely and sincerely praise the delicious food.

Don't eat with your mouth open, bite with your mouth and swallow it slowly.

After eating, wait for the adults to finish eating, and then help clean up the dishes. Don't leave the table at once. You can ask your boyfriend for help and try not to let his parents do it.

When you speak, be careful not to talk about your ex-boyfriend, avoid talking too much about your family, and don't let the other person know too much about your education and salary (these can trouble your boyfriend to help you make peace, so say it in advance). Your future thoughts should be tested before you speak them out, because they have paved the way for your son, so you should make sure whether your future thoughts are close to them.

The last piece of advice is to listen carefully when people speak. Sometimes you may hear the delicious food his father used to eat when he went to xxx. Bring it to him next time. You need to pay special attention to what your mother says.

You need a week to get used to these exercises and ask your good friends to help you pay attention to your behavior. I used to grow up in Taiwan Province Province, and my mother beat me when I was a child = (