In the second case, if you are unwilling to work and suffer hardships, you will feel at ease and rely on your parents. Like these college graduates, a large part of their peace of mind comes from abnormal family education, which is not only the fault of their parents, but also their own fault. Faced with these college graduates, if parents want them to take care of themselves and stand on their own feet, they must make up their minds to drive them out, let them face real life and learn to grow up on their own.
Finally, regarding the so-called "NEET", I have always believed that it is necessary to analyze the specific situation. After all, there are too many social fantasies and too many irrational people. I also hope that college students will think about "future career planning" during their college years, so as to avoid being confused near graduation and have to become real neets.