Nowadays, college students fall in love a lot, but if you ask these people who are in love, what is the reason for their falling in love, it is estimated that many people are at a loss. Because many people fall in love in college, they don't really find the person they like, but are influenced by the environment. When they see that people around them are in love, they feel that they are not in love, and they always feel out of place with their classmates. This is a typical situation of blind love without knowing what love is. If you fall in love with this confused state of mind, this relationship will not be too happy, and it will be difficult to last too long.

Second, treat disputes in love rationally.

Many couples, after a dispute in love, choose to deal with it in an extreme way because they are not rational enough. As a result, tragic cases abound, destroying not only two young men and women with bright future, but also two families. Therefore, before falling in love, we should learn how to look at the problems in love and know how to deal with them correctly, legally and legally, so as to better ensure that the tragedy will not repeat itself again and again.

Third, treat the money problem in love.

In the process of falling in love, when two people want to play around, eat and give gifts to each other, it will inevitably involve money, but how much money should be spent, or how much money the other person should spend for himself, must learn to measure. Avoid other unnecessary disputes due to money problems after breaking up.

Fourth, how to adjust the attitude towards the other half when you are in love?

Many people are possessive after falling in love and don't want their boyfriends or girlfriends to get in touch with other members of the opposite sex, but this mentality is wrong. Everyone is an independent individual and has the right to choose his friends. Even as male and female friends, he has no right to restrict other people's social relations. Therefore, it is very important to learn how to adjust your mentality.

Fifth, plan the future in love.

When I was a student, many people valued love more than their studies and future, which is a common problem of many college students. Therefore, people often face the opportunity for their boyfriends to go abroad and decisively refuse this phenomenon, which is also passed down as love words at school. It seems very touching, but it is actually very irrational. No matter how beautiful love is, there is still no escape from reality. If you want a better future, this is the real thing to do. Therefore, in love, how not to be blinded by the present love and make wrong life decisions is something that many college students should study hard.