A spare tire, as its name implies, is a spare tire. Its function is to keep the journey going when an accident happens to the positive tire. In Renren.com, where college students gather, many college students call themselves "love spare tire" and "spare lover", and some students interpret "love spare tire" as a spare lover and a second lover to define their current love life. The social phenomenon of spare tire, which is not new, has also spread to university campuses.
"Be prepared" is the definition of the function of spare tire family to spare tire. If there is no accident in the front tire, the spare tire may never be used, but with it, this road is particularly reassuring. Facing the popular spare tire behavior, college students' attitudes are as follows:
A random survey on Renren.com was conducted among 92 college students in China. Among them, 34.8% students agree with the behavior of spare tire, 33.7% students object, 20.7% students say it doesn't matter, and 10.9% students feel very fresh when they hear the word for the first time.
Among the 92 students interviewed, 2 1 person has experienced or is experiencing the feeling related to the spare tire, accounting for 22.8% of the total. Wang of Jinan University said in an interview: "Now 80% of spare tires know that they are spare tires, and then they are willing to hang someone else's ass and wait to become a regular one day."
"With a spare tire, people will become irresponsible, because even if one is missing, there is still a way out." Jiang Yi of Qinghai Normal University believes that finding a spare tire is a selfish performance. He is always afraid that others will not be responsible for himself, but he never thought that he would be responsible for others. I am always afraid that I will be lonely and hurt, but I will hurt others. This kind of person is not only full of feelings, but also often complains about the imperfection of society in life and has never thought about how he should work hard.
The spare tire also illustrates the credit crisis between people. In the changeable, pluralistic and fast-food culture, people often pursue their ideals, but they lose their sense of security. I've always wanted to find a spare tire, because I'll have a home after I burn my bridges, which starts with my distrust of myself and each other. There are redundant devices in the machine to deal with machine failures. On the surface, it is only for safety, but in fact it is a sign of losing trust again.
Wang Xuebin, who is studying in Inner Mongolia, feels that this generation of young people have different views on love. "There is a spare tire. In fact, you can't tell who is right or wrong. Who will find a spare tire in the first love? Everyone has been hurt, and when they fall in love again, they all want to protect themselves. Today's society makes us feel insecure, and everything is full of uncertainty. I don't know what else to believe? " He said loudly.
Chen Xin of Shanghai University of Traditional Chinese Medicine even said that if the relationship suddenly breaks up after four or five years of college graduation, it will be difficult to find a suitable one when you get old, and the reality is compelling. If unmarried men and women were not married at that time, they would "turn the spare tire into a regular tire" with each other. However, she also admitted that the existence of a spare tire was helpless. If you can hang yourself from a tree for a lifetime, it is of course the best.
In the face of these comments, Hu Zhongming, who has had the experience of being a spare tire, thinks that the most fearful thing is to hold an indifferent attitude towards love after being hurt. As a result, meeting the next person who loves you very much will hurt him. "In fact, maintaining a spare tire is far harder than concentrating on a relationship. Besides, will he be willing to act as a substitute for your spare tire? "