First, pregnancy before marriage.

Second, the family is not short of money, and the feelings are natural.

Third, if you can't afford a wedding, get a license first. ?

Not many people can do this. First, I don't know when I can arrange the wedding, and I don't know how to explain it to relatives and friends. Second, some people make up their minds that when they become excellent, they don't like the one around them and don't want to decide so early; Third, some people don't want to get married at all. They fall in love just for fun, and cheat girls into getting married if they have money.

Now about 1 ~ 3 married students in each class have graduated from high school, and some classes have not. The number of people is repeated because several couples are classmates in the same grade (for example, my high school classmates). ?

By my side, there are students in all three situations. The third license was obtained in secret, but it was not made public, and only a few friends knew it.

The proportion of pregnancy and marriage at home is the highest.

It's a real problem that boys often don't consider getting married so early on the premise that men and women are of the same age. Most boys wouldn't get married so early if they weren't urged or pregnant at home.

The reminder at home has two meanings, one is literal, and the other is the offer of financial help at home. Few children can talk to their parents and say "I'm getting married, give me money", right? That's not small money.

Who will be rich just after graduation? Everyone is the same.

To tell the truth, we would all be embarrassed to get married if our parents didn't strongly mention it. Even if married, it's a naked marriage. A marriage in which both parents support blessings is really much smoother. To put it bluntly, it can be said that it is old-fashioned, but parents can help their children get married and stand out as soon as possible, so that their children can retire early and enjoy happiness. As long as they have a conscience, they will repay them. Otherwise, according to the current prices, it is really difficult for young people to buy their own houses and get married. In fact, everyone is standing on the shoulders of their parents. (There will still be comments, right? I've deleted them. It's no use stopping talking. I didn't say that young people can't buy their own houses, but not many people are still "young people" when they buy houses. Even most people can't afford to buy a house for life without the help of their parents. That is the reality. Just look around. There's no need to deny it. In fact, no matter what kind of family, parents do their best to push their children forward. PS。 You can get married without buying a house. )

My boyfriend and his family, also considering my feelings, will think that they have talked for two years and can't drag me down.

It's good to meet a reasonable in-laws. There are women in their family, at least their mother is a woman, and they also understand that a son should not drag his girlfriend to get old without giving them an explanation. I am one year older than my boyfriend.

And selfish people only play dumb.

I am a female classmate. I have been married to my boyfriend for almost 5 years, and I have been married to my boyfriend for n times. The boy said that he had no money. The boy's family said that their family's habit is not to worry. The boy has a 30-year-old unmarried sister who has been married to her boyfriend for 7 years. It stands to reason that the boy's family can feel the same, but all the staff are playing dumb. Even the boy's sister said to her, "I'm in no hurry to get married." I want to play for a few more years. What's your hurry? " Look at this family. How selfish they are. They lie and don't recruit. Even if she doesn't lie, her sister is really in no hurry, and she can't force her brother's girlfriend not to worry. If his sister is not married at the age of 35, will he drag his girlfriend to the age of 35? There's a big loophole in logic. Bullshit. To put it bluntly, it is selfish and rogue. Just considering the family's concept, I don't worry, regardless of the anxiety of my girlfriend's family. You can imagine how distressed the girl's parents are. Their daughter has been talking for five years, almost 30. These people refused to express their feelings. Are they angry?

Didn't the man say he had no money? The woman agreed to pay with her family, and the man said that his self-esteem was unbearable. Anyway, he always has a point.

I don't need to explain too much. A discerning person can tell what is going on at a glance. )

Parents urging marriage is the main help, of course, provided that we are happy in love.

Our early marriage belongs to the second category.

After talking for two years, I got married when my feelings arrived, and then I was ready to get pregnant. Not rich, but the wedding is not a problem.

With my personality, I will get married even if I can't afford a wedding. I don't like long-distance running. The wedding gives my parents trouble and I'm embarrassed.

I said I didn't care about the wedding and let me run a long distance, which also showed that he didn't entrust me with lifelong affirmation. It's no use waiting any longer. I'll just bite the bullet and break up.

I'm sorry to live too rationally, so I can't have a painful story of breaking up in a long run. )

It is more important to spend all my money to start a business. I don't even want to buy a diamond ring. He dragged me there. I also said to him, "Is it necessary? Just a gimmick? " He asked me if I was stupid.

His family is very concerned about the wedding, so I have no problem with it. If I think it's hard, I'll feel fine without a wedding. But his father thinks the opposite. He felt that he should do his best and do it as well as possible. Then I'm sure it's okay with me. People do this for our own good. In fact, weddings are also parents' social activities. I've been suffering all my life. I just want to have a face. )

Double gratitude, work with him in the future, and let his parents retire with peace of mind as soon as possible.

I don't know how many years I will be poor after marriage.

Because we are going to start a business and have a baby.

I like children, too. Having children early will make the mother recover quickly, and the younger the couple, the more energetic they will be. If you don't have a date, you don't have to worry. Don't worry about misleading people. There is no need to drag yourself to the age of having a partner. Just arrange it.

There is nothing else to think about, just hope to get rich quickly.