There should always be love in one's life. Don't miss love in college.
If one day you meet her, if you are moved by her and can't sleep at night, then love, express love, give love and reap love. If you are a college student, you have enough time to slowly brew and care for a relationship. You will become energetic and bright-eyed. More importantly, for the first time, you will deeply realize what kind of light a care can shine, what kind of faith a look can cast, and what kind of respect a life can get. You will care more about everything around you than before, and you will know how to accept yourself and be kind to others more than before. Love will make you learn a lot, which your teacher may not be able to do anyway.
Maybe you will be lovelorn, but who can criticize what love has given us? Things have changed, perhaps because the vows of the sea dried up and the rocks no longer collapsed! Even if you lose love, you will still get a lot of things. At least you know what love is, how to love, and how much your value can be publicized. In the later life, you will constantly think of this feeling, those simple happiness and deep happiness, those desperate impulses, those self-deception and silly waiting ... will gradually turn into a calm, calm and sober judgment and analysis of gains and losses after you step into society.
So, don't hesitate, don't miss it when love blooms. If not, wait patiently, and your fate will bloom in your most beautiful moment.
In the face of love, you have no reason to shrink back and ignore it, let alone dance school. The only thing you should do is: admit love, accept love, accept love and enjoy love.
At the age when you should have friends of the opposite sex.
It is reported that when American children reach the age of 16, their parents will hold a grand party for them and invite their classmates and friends to attend, so as to announce to everyone that children can freely choose friends of the opposite sex and hope to find intimate friends of the opposite sex through the party. Look at our 16-year-olds. At that time, he was probably busy with the senior high school entrance examination. He must blush to death after chatting with a classmate of the opposite sex!
In fact, what we should reflect on is our education. At that time, a seemingly simple song "Flower Season and Rainy Season" actually resonated with us so much! How we envy those high school students who are free and sincere in friendship! We know everything, we don't need futile education, we don't need school prohibition or social recognition, we just need a harmonious atmosphere for boys and girls. In the years when we should have friends of the opposite sex, teachers and parents can guide us to find our own friends and let us grow up healthily in a natural state. Instead of suppressing the heterosexual relationship for more than ten years, it suddenly appeared in an overly open attitude in the university.
3. Prevent repressed love from distorting the mind.
My first love was in my freshman year. After two years of ups and downs, we have all grown a lot. We understand that love is a matter of two people, and what is needed is two inclusive hearts. We have had vows of eternal love, and we have also had the grandeur in times of crisis. However, time diluted everything, and with the disappearance of excitement and fanaticism, we fell in love peacefully.
What I want to say to my friends now is that true feelings don't need to force you to do anything. People who treat feelings as games just to experience the taste of love, or who don't want to let themselves fall in love for four years in college leave regrets to fall in love, hurt more than one person. When fate comes, more than one person regrets those who are timid and dare not pursue happiness.
Love is not a scourge. At the age of budding spring, if we must suppress this seed that should have grown healthily, we may get a distorted mind. Love is not only the embellishment of college life, but true love will make people more mature.
Ten Benefits of College Students' Falling in Love
1, become confident: sweet love makes them extremely proud in front of lonely classmates. Especially sleeping in the dormitory, they can explain things in simple terms and integrate theory with practice, which makes roommates deeply admire.
2. Life is full: fighting landlords with tractors is no longer an amateur activity of enthusiasts. They don't have to break into the library alone with heavy schoolbags. They have a rich campus life.
3, frugal resources: They can spend a long time with the least money, such as hanging around the campus hand in hand, and they will be happy without spending a penny.
4. Diligent and clean: like washing clothes, like washing hair, and pay attention to five things and four beauties. You don't have to go to great lengths to choose which one of several dirty clothes. Boys, in particular, are willing to be bicycle drivers for girls.
5. Efficient learning: the resources are the same, the advantages are complementary, and you won't burn the midnight oil over CET-4 and CET-6. But at least half of the achievements are due to her (him) who occupies a seat as scheduled every night.
6. Work-study program: The desire for money has made them develop a hard-working style. When inviting her (him) to dinner, they can confidently say, "I earned this money myself."
7. Be tolerant: They would rather get a few seconds of joy, compromise and give up their views for a while. Not because the views are different from each other.
8. Learn to be considerate: He has practiced climbing skills of climbing over the wall and shrinking bones to avoid disturbing the dormitory administrator in the middle of the night.
9. Free life: They are strong advocates of liberalism and anarchism, especially against birds of a feather flock together. They will not be disturbed by all kinds of things, and they will take pains to sort out their activity logs.
10, good health: I often go shopping, go to the cinema and go to restaurants, and I usually get enough exercise, so I don't often go to the hospital because of lack of exercise.