rebellious mind

Oral abnormal psychology

On the one hand, it is the sweetness of enjoyment, on the other hand, it is the moral concept of restraining temptation. At this time, rebellious psychology will begin to work.

! Rebellious psychology is an emotion that people escape from reality, suppress their true emotions and escape from their own psychology.

For example, in order to cover up his guilt, the cheating party often implies that he has done nothing wrong through money and material compensation, which is rebellious psychology.

But it is often this kind of psychology that leads to some unconventional actions, which makes the other half begin to doubt and even get caught.

Rebellion is not a bad thing. If we make good use of it, it can effectively help us keep love and that ta.

The second best thing is to start with friends.

If the party with negative psychology in the relationship decides that the relationship can't continue, he will resolutely end it.

Insist on improving yourself.

* If you are obsessed with death, it will accelerate the feelings to fall to the bottom, and finally there will be no warmth left. He is rude to you, not because he doesn't love you anymore, but because he wraps his heart and subconsciously hides his true thoughts, so leaving you is only a temporary act.

At this time, it is also wrong to blindly retain. The best way is to be friends again. First of all, we must ensure that the relationship between the two will not become rigid, and then we can make further progress.

When he can tell you some unhappy things in life, or the pressure of work and study, it shows that he is willing to trust you and can show you his inner soft and fragile side.

Maybe now is a good time for you to stay.

(3) Don't sell yourself short and insist on improving yourself.

"Loving a person will humble itself to the dust and then blossom."

Many people put all the responsibility on themselves and belittle themselves in order to keep their other half. There is no need to do so. Being too humble in feelings is not the right value.

Control negative emotions

Spend the time you spend in love on improving your ability and value and making yourself better, so as to attract each other.

If the separation of two people is the unilateral responsibility of the other party's derailment, all your efforts will not be rewarded. After a long time, you will fill the missing love with hatred in your heart. This kind of rebellious psychology is also a hatred for oneself that has been lingering.

Control negative emotions and divert attention.

At the beginning of separation, everyone has negative emotions, which is inevitable. After all, we are not saints and will not always keep a normal heart.

But learn to use the right way to relieve bad emotions.

People in rebellious psychology, once obsessed with an idea, will not be able to stop thinking, but let themselves get deeper and deeper, so it is very important to divert attention.

Find a new thing or hobby that you can devote yourself to.

For example, climb mountains with friends on weekends, go to the gym after work at night, or make a plan for yourself to finish reading a book in a week. ....

Find the right way

5 find a suitable method

This will not only help to reduce the influence of negative emotions and enrich your life, but more importantly, let the other person start to see your different charm.

When we feel pain in our hearts, don't try to control our desires, and don't avoid problems like ostriches, but learn to accept them positively.

! Once we are dominated by negative emotions, we will make wrong judgments, and maybe we will miss our happiness.

Most problems in love can be solved. Facing it positively and finding the right way to promote the relationship between two people is the only way to make love leave no regrets.