I actually like my ex-boyfriend. But feelings need to be equal. I think there are three things I can't get over.
The first thing is that he jumped ship and went to another company without saying hello to me before. Since he has a boyfriend and girlfriend and is getting married, I think he is very disrespectful.
The second thing is that he and his female colleagues are very ambiguous in short messages. I didn't get married at that time, and I felt wrong. I wanted him to give a clear statement, but he refused. Because he is my favorite person, I really 100% trust him, even if he says he loves each other, I will let go. But he just won't talk.
The third thing that hurts me most is that he and I have decided to get married. My family is going through a big storm. I don't want him to help my family. I hope we can work together and start our own small family. Therefore, he always pays attention to their families. I asked him at that time if I could put everything down for both of us and let our little family settle down first. Why can't you do it, but you keep saying that you are willing to marry me?
On the eve of my wedding, I thought for a long time. Women's sacrifices are not infinite. At least this sacrifice should be recognized by the other side. Even if you love each other again, this unequal love will eventually lead to despair.
Then we broke up. Zhang Ailing said, I don't care about your past, but I don't have any happiness with you.
Much as I like him. But life is so long, I have to live with dignity myself.
Long time no see. I have been depressed for the past few years. But I never regretted being apart from him. Because at least, I am broken, and I don't need to live without dignity and future!