China people pay attention to "standing like a pine, sitting like a bell, lying like a bow and walking like the wind". I think everyone knows what it means, but some men just don't pay attention to their manners, even if they are handsome, they will give people a great impression.

Manners are very important to cultivate gentlemanly manners. So how to be an educated gentleman? First of all, please hold your chest and abdomen at any time, whether standing, sitting or walking. Holding your chest and abdomen will add elegance and confidence to you.

Stand up straight, straighten your back, chest and abdomen, chin slightly inward, eyes naturally look straight ahead.

Try not to lean back when sitting, and don't shake your legs whether you cross your legs or not. As the saying goes, "men shake their hands and women shake their hands to be bitches", which is rude!

Walk as lightly as possible, touch the ground with your heels first at every step, and don't mop the ground, which will make you feel lazy and unconfident.

2. Office etiquette

Don't laugh at the dress and makeup of female colleagues, it will make you look tasteless. Don't sit at your desk when you make a phone call, let alone play with the telephone line like a woman. It's so sissy! Even if a woman has such behavior, she looks vulgar.

Don't sleep on your desk during the break, especially when the leader sees you.

Don't put your legs on the desk or chair, which is also one of the annoying behaviors.

The most important thing is, don't just rummage through the things on your colleagues' desks, and people will guard against you like thieves in the future!

3. dress etiquette

Your company may not be so strict about dress code, but whether you are at work or going out to meet customers, the dress principle is "clean and tidy, generous and decent".

The best clothes for business activities are black suits, white or light blue shirts, black socks and black lace-up shoes. (Light socks with dark shoes, barefoot shoes are the most taboo! It is best to wear a tie with a fine twill pattern. The tie is a strict "windsor knot", also called a business tie. I know six ways to tie a tie. )

If you are wearing a suit with two buttons, only button the top one; If you are wearing a three-button suit, only button the top two or the middle one.

4. Restaurant (coffee shop) etiquette

On this occasion, it is forbidden to speak loudly and softly. The waiter will lean over and thank you for pulling the chair to serve. If there is a colleague of the lady, take the initiative to pull the chair for the lady (unless there is a waiter to help).

If you have the habit of smoking, where is the smoking section in the waiter's restaurant (coffee shop)? When you sit at the same table with a lady, you'd better ask her if she can smoke first.

Don't point with a knife and fork (chopsticks) when eating with others. At this time, put the knife and fork on the plate and put it in a figure of eight, with the blade facing yourself. Turn your face to one side when coughing or sneezing, and cover your mouth with a napkin; Cover your mouth with your other hand when picking your teeth. Don't talk to others when picking your teeth.

5. Basic maintenance

Try to go to bed early and get up early, so as to ensure good health. Xiao Qiang only sleeps for an hour every day, which is a lie. Don't believe it. )

Exercise regularly, remember that men who exercise are very attractive; Keep clean, wash your hair frequently, take a bath frequently and change your underwear frequently. Don't be a "smelly man" A clean man is always more popular than a sweaty man!

Men can use a little perfume appropriately, and remember to be light. I have introduced men's perfume in the beauty bar.

6. Gentleman's virtue comes first

Men can't be stingy and selfish, which will only make people look down upon them. A really good man must be kind-hearted, upright and strong, polite, generous but principled. Taking helping others as the root, caring for the elderly, the weak, women and children is everywhere, which is much cuter than those guys who have a beautiful face but are full of foul language and only show their "manly charm" by bullying the weak!

I am really far from the standard of "gentleman", but I will be strict with myself. Please work hard with my brothers to become a gentleman who is popular everywhere:)