This should start from high school. In high school, I was a person who wrote papers in class debates. At that time, I wanted to stand on the stage of the debate and experience the feeling that one person's debate is better than a million heroes.
What freshmen want to do most is to join the debate team.
However, the debate needs a competition, and then the judges choose the players from the competition.
And I, when I stood up to speak, my head was blank and I didn't know what to say at all.
Naturally, I didn't join the debate team.
I've been thinking about this for a long time. I went to Zhihu to find what kind of books can improve my language skills. The art of communication, how to ask questions, and difficult conversations. ...
After reading it, I didn't feel any change at all. I still can't stutter with Kan Kan.
Then try to sweep the building in the past and gain practical experience. It turns out that this is bring disgrace to oneself. Either it is closed or the products can't be sold.
When I was a sophomore, I basically gave up practicing my oral English. Maybe standing on the stage of the debate team is just a dream.
However, when I was about to give up, I saw it on the Internet.
Speaking well can be divided into five categories: speech, communication, debate, negotiation and persuasion, and compared with five animals.
Speech: the formation of power, if only speech, will become like a peacock.
Communication: the flow of power. If you can only communicate, you will become weak like a rabbit.
Debate: Power is on the other side. If it is just a debate, it will become as difficult as a hedgehog.
Negotiation: The power lies with both sides. If you only negotiate, it will become as cold as a crocodile.
Persuasion: the power lies with the other party. If you just persuade, you will become as cunning as a fox.
I immediately understood that there was something wrong with my position My talent lies in debate and negotiation, but I expect to achieve the desired effect in communication and persuasion.
After searching the information, I began to join a game called werewolf killing, a speech game, and a game where the speech is not good and I can't get out.
Here, I have gained a lot, from an unknown person to a person who can lead the team to victory.
For example, once in the People's Bureau of 18, a pair of prophets and wizards jumped out to kill me, wizards and Tibetans. I noticed that the person who spoke in front might be a wizard, and jumped out to love God and said that the wizards and Jin Luo: Wolf Brigade. The true love god found out that the couple I reported was true, wanted to mislead the wolves not to cut the couple, lied that the couple was wrong, and insisted on not reporting the couple. Finally, in this round of return tickets, the witch was killed and the prophet was double martyred. This directly caused the morale of the good camp to collapse, and many villagers gave up treatment directly.
I'm not the kind of person who dances with long sleeves at the wine table. I don't even have many friends. but
Even if one day,
No one sings with me,
At least in my heart,
There's still one place that hasn't collapsed.