Wu Yishu, a talented woman, has dominated the internet for a long time, and has been pushed to hot search one after another, discussing more than 50 thousand and paying attention to 500 million. Wu Yi Shu scored 6 13 in the college entrance examination and was admitted to Xinya College, a science experimental class in Tsinghua University. As early as the beginning of 20 17, Wu Yishu stepped onto the stage of "China Poetry Conference". With a reserve of 2,000 poems, Hengdian Hundred-member Group won three out of three. After winning the championship in one fell swoop, everyone was quickly surrounded by her profound cultural heritage and elegant speaking ability.
Equally eye-catching, there is also Yang Chenxi, the champion of Guangxi College Entrance Examination with high value. Chinese 140, math 150, English 150, science 290, nude 730. It also set a historical record of the highest total score of science in Guangxi since the resumption of the college entrance examination.
What's the secret behind becoming famous in one fell swoop? What can we follow?
The first case: Wu Yishu
Wu Yishu's mother is an art teacher in a primary school and her father works in a well-known law firm. In May of 200 1 year, Wu Yishu was born in such an ordinary intellectual family. As the only child in the family, Wu Yishu just entered kindergarten, and her parents specially customized a set of "family education policy" for her-to increase her daughter's knowledge reserve and not to lose at the starting line. However, when I was a child, Wu was stubborn and naughty. Not only does he not want to study, but he is also careless about the homework assigned by the kindergarten. In the eyes of teachers, he is a "poor student".
So Wu Yishu's parents took her to visit a friend. My friend's children love reading, and they have a wide range of knowledge. Even reference books can be read with relish. The couple asked how their children were raised, but the answer given by their friends was unexpected: they were not raised at all. The child's father is a scholar and his mother is a writer. There are many books at home. Living room, study room, bedroom, children's room and bathroom can be seen everywhere, such as historical philosophy and religion that children's fathers like, social science literature and art that mothers like, picture books, fables and fairy tales that children are obsessed with. As long as you want to read, your favorite books are at your fingertips. When free, the whole family will get together to study, discuss with each other and improve together. This conversation touched Wu Yishu's mother very much. There is a fragrance in the hearts of adults, which can form a pleasant edification for children. After returning home, Wu's parents "commit suicide" first. I stopped playing chess and began to chew the twenty-four histories and the classics of mountains and seas. I stopped playing with my mobile phone and began to role-play the plot of a famous book with Yi Shu Jr. and adapt the ending of the story. The game with the highest frequency at home is "Poetry Solitaire", and whoever loses will do housework. From kindergarten to high school, Wu Yishu has never been far away from poetry. Over the years, Yi Shu, who was naughty and tired of learning as a child, has become a polite and still studying high school student. Wu Yishu became a veritable talented woman in poetry by writing a good hand and reciting a good poem.
The second case: Yang Chenyu
The reporter interviewed Yang Chenxi's mother by telephone and talked about the experience of raising children: children must be cultivated from an early age, and all habits should be helped him to develop when he has no independent thinking ability. It is very painful to supervise the process of children's habit formation. You should always supervise him and pay attention to him. Only when I was a child, the road behind me was easy. You should be self-disciplined, instead of leaving your children there with mobile phones, as many people do now.
From the above two successful cases, we probably know that any excellent child is not a miracle, but a traceable cause and effect. Its origin lies in the family. Its roots are in parents.
As Wu Yishu's mother said: Real education is actually to win over parents! Parents lead by example, children will naturally keep approaching their parents, and there is no need to raise their faces every day. However, in the context of education, fighting for dad is not for material and wealth, but for parents' ideas, lifestyles, ways of thinking and lifestyles.
From this, I think of one heroic parent after another in Kaoba Training Camp, such as the parents of Wu Yishu and Yang Chenyu, who 100% insisted on taking part in Kaoba Training Camp for their daughter's entrance examination. They have to take care of two young children, and the third child is still pregnant, but they insist on making detailed records every day ... They are undoubtedly experimenting on their children with their own lives: how can they live their best lives?
All educational methods are lonely. Only by enduring loneliness and firmness can we see a glimmer of light. There is no luck in life, only hard work and struggle. Every down-to-earth effort reflects a higher level of life trajectory.
It's time for Kouba Training Camp to be the cradle of my rebirth. At this point, stop being lazy, careless, arrogant, perfunctory, and all rationalized excuses.