I am a very introverted person and seldom communicate with others. After I entered the workplace, I found that communication is so important, so I began to communicate with you a lot, hoping to make many good friends. When you get along with the same sex, it is easy to find common topics, but when you get along with the opposite sex, you don't know what to do at first. Sometimes, I want to praise boys, make them happy and bring me closer to him, but when I open my mouth, I find that I really don't know how to praise boys. But now that I've been working for so long, I've also summed up some tips for praising men.
First: Many boys like to hear others praise him for his cleverness.
According to my personal experience, if you want to praise a boy, if you praise his looks, for example, you have beautiful eyes and fair skin. He may leave you a faint smile, but he won't be happy about it. On the contrary, it will make people around you misunderstand that you like him, making him embarrassed and afraid to approach you in the future. And if you praise a boy for being smart, he will be very happy. A male colleague used to help me make ppt for me to see. I was satisfied with the template he made for me, so I praised him for his cleverness. Hearing my compliment, he was as happy as a child. After that, I once praised other boys for their cleverness, and they were all happy about it.
Second: the attitude must be sincere.
In fact, no matter who praises you, you must be sincere and have true feelings. If your attitude is not sincere, the other person will know that your compliment is insincere and will not be moved by such compliment. When praising a boy, you must pay attention to your attitude. Even if you can't speak elegant language and praise others gracefully, as long as you are sincere, you will definitely impress the boy and let him feel your sincerity.
Third: You can praise his skills in detail.
Sometimes, ask a boy to help you repair your computer or make documents. After that, you can thank him politely and praise his achievements. Every boy wants a sister to worship him in his heart. After he helped you, the compliment you gave him was the best affirmation for him. I guess he will be happy in his heart and will tell you that he will look for him again next time.
It is much easier to praise others than to criticize others, but we should also pay attention to ways and means. Otherwise, sometimes your words will turn into sarcasm in others' ears, which goes against your original intention.