According to the memory of the child's mother, the two children were hiding under the stool in the noodle restaurant to play hide and seek. The child suddenly shouted while playing, and the voice was really a little loud. At that time, she also felt that her daughter was not performing well and immediately criticized her daughter.
Children are children after all. When she was having fun, 4-year-old chenchen shouted again. Unexpectedly, a young woman sitting next to me suddenly rushed over. Before Ms. Song could react, the woman walked up to chenchen and kicked chenchen. "She also said,' Let you call, and I will kill you'!" Ms. Song said that at that time, she quickly protected her children and stopped the behavior of young women. Excited, the two wrestled together and were pulled away by the people next to them. In the process of theoretical tearing between the two sides, the young woman picked up a bottle of mineral water bottle on the table and smashed it. With everyone's appeasement, the situation was brought under control, and then someone called the police.
I believe this woman will pay the due price for her impulsiveness and recklessness. But what we should think is that children are naturally fond of playing and have poor ability to control their emotions, and the woman who is a college student should know these truths. But why use violence to face a child who is not sensible just because he is at odds with his boyfriend?
In recent years, violence and violent social phenomena are common. The reasons are nothing more than social reasons, family reasons and personal reasons.
The main social reasons are the big gap between the rich and the poor, the pressure of survival competition and the failure to form a stable and upward belief in society. If the mind is seriously out of balance, it will find a breakthrough, and any unexpected event can be a breakthrough. And experience tells us that when facing the weak, it is easier to make the inner imbalance find a breakthrough.
Family reasons are more caused by not educating children about the correct world outlook, outlook on life and values. It is also a manifestation of the lack of humanistic care and basic human virtue education. It is very important to educate children to love themselves, others and cherish life from an early age.
The personal reason is that a good psychological self-regulation mechanism has not been formed. Always indulging in the world of self, which is the negative influence brought by the only child. In addition, not knowing how to reflect is also the reason why a good psychological self-regulation mechanism has not been formed. Everything is found from others, and it is unreasonable without reason. More reflection, more understanding, and more empathy, you can adjust your psychology well.
Generally speaking, the formation of hostility is caused by a long-term backlog, which cannot be solved overnight. It requires the efforts of society, families and individuals. Remember to take a step back at any time and look back at Wan Li Xia Hongfei.