Elton said with a smile, what is there to say? People who suffer, or procrastinate, have no right to tell their own sufferings. Then he added: there are conditions for suffering to become wealth. This condition is that you have overcome the suffering and stayed away from it. At this time, suffering is the wealth of life you can be proud of. When you are obsessed with suffering, telling suffering will only be seen by others as begging for cheap sympathy.
When people are reading novels and TV plays, they always like to watch those quiet plots. Some books can't be put down when they arrive. It is the indomitable spirit of the hero in the book that infected you. When they are suffering, they will always struggle with their own wisdom and perseverance. In the eyes of ordinary people, they won the victory through their own efforts. These books will become more and more interesting.
However, in real life, we like a quiet life. Pray for God to worship Buddha and let us get what we want. However, there will be so many unsatisfactory things in reality, and sometimes it will even make us exhausted.
Elton was right. You should be qualified to tell stories of suffering. The greater your success, the more attractive your experience of telling suffering will be and the more admired your audience will be. Otherwise, in addition to some cheap sympathy, it is contempt. Is this what you want?
Does anyone want to hear it? " 1"
Self-knowledge is better than self-knowledge.
Thank you (* )=3
Vernal equinox flower
I am a child in bad karma. My mother was blind when I was born. However, when I was a child, I could only enjoy what others ate. I clearly remember that when I was four years old, I stayed at my neighbor's house less than 150 meters away from my home for one night, and was warmly received by his family. I enjoyed my grandmother's ruthless beating on the second day of the festival. Therefore, I am often used to suffering.