These schoolmasters have strong learning ability, and they enter famous schools to study. A few years later, they naturally have great prospects and soar. But there are always exceptions. On the streets of Liangshan, Sichuan, people can often see a thin tramp, unkempt and ragged, who looks no different from other tramps. Probably only from his quiet eyes looking at people coming and going under the overpass will people find that he is a little different, and he can only recall his former glory through such meditation.
Who would have thought that such a tramp on the street actually graduated from a prestigious school, and even once was the champion of the college entrance examination! His name is Liu Ning, and he has achieved excellent academic results since he was a child. He is regarded as "someone else's child" in everyone's mind. Both the teacher and the neighbors in the village praised him, and he thought that the child would be successful when he grew up.
Liu Ning lived up to everyone's high hopes for him. In 2006, with a high score of 650 points, Liu Ning became the top science scholar in Liangshan County, Sichuan Province, and was admitted by the University of Science and Technology of China, becoming an example for students in the county. The University of Science and Technology of China, a famous 985 university in China, is famous for its "small but refined". Those who can study here are elites. Of course, students who graduate from here will generally have a better future.
Liu Ning felt uncomfortable when he came to China University of Science and Technology. He used to be a "schoolmaster" and an example for everyone to learn. But here, almost everyone is a schoolmaster. People who are better than him abound, and his own conditions are not as good as those of his classmates, so he has an inferiority complex. In this state of mind, Liu Ning began to indulge in games, which eventually led to unsatisfactory results. Because of his grades, his diploma was delayed for one year.
Although graduation was postponed, I finally got the graduation certificate from China University of Science and Technology. It is reasonable to say that finding a decent job is not a big problem. But Liu Ning's heart is higher than the sky, thinking that his job is "meaningless", so he quit his job and chose to live on the streets and become a tramp.
Volunteers once offered him a helping hand and tried to find a job for him, but he refused because he was very satisfied with his current living conditions and felt that volunteers had disturbed his life.
Examples like Liu Ning are not uncommon. For example, Yemou from Jianning, Fujian, was admitted to Zhejiang University as the top science scholar in the county and became the pride of his family. However, in the second semester of high school, Yemou began to give up on himself and played "missing", and this "missing" was ten years.
In these ten years, my parents shed tears and suffered a lot, but they didn't give up looking for him. Finally, on 20 18, they found this once "pride". Yemou failed in his studies because he could not accept his "mediocrity". During his sophomore year, he failed in many subjects, feeling embarrassed to face it and having the idea of escaping.
At present, we pay too much attention to grades in children's education, but ignore the cultivation of children's mental health and their ability to resist setbacks. We only care about whether they fly high or not, but rarely put ourselves in their shoes to understand whether they are tired or not. Once they encounter setbacks, they will have an escape mentality. Just like Liu Ning, they will shut themselves in their own world and become "different" in everyone's eyes.