Walking into the university cafeteria, many freshmen look at the same food and don't know how to choose: tomato or cucumber? Noodles or rice? How many steamed buns do you want to buy ... Many students will be confused by these "difficulties", and some students will buy what they like for convenience. They will buy three or four kinds of dishes for dinner, and they will be wasted if they can't finish eating them.

Some students are used to eating quietly at home and sitting in the school cafeteria, but they can't eat any more, for fear that others will see their "eating". This kind of problem is more common among girls.

Question 2: Shopping

Although many freshmen are masters of spending money, they encounter problems as soon as they arrive at school: they have money in their hands, but they don't know where to buy it. As a result, freshmen are often cheated by door-to-door sales, mainly because they are new here and unfamiliar with the environment. Students can consult their brothers and sisters, and they will tell you where things are cheap and which store has everything.

Question 3: Dealing with interpersonal relationships

For freshmen, the relationship between classmates (especially those in the same dormitory) is a serious problem that puzzles everyone. Interpersonal relationship is a compulsory course for prospective college students, and students who are about to enter colleges and universities should consciously strengthen the cultivation in this respect.

Solution:

First, learn to tolerate others.

Many students have no experience of living on campus. Before they went to college, they lived freely. Suddenly, if they want to share a dormitory with several people, they must tolerate other people's lifestyles. If other people's lifestyles interfere with your life, you need to put forward your opinions euphemistically and adjust yourself appropriately (for example, adjust your schedule).

Second, active communication.

If you want to handle the relationship between classmates, you should be lenient with others and strict with yourself. Don't take me as the center. In our daily life, we should take the initiative to greet our classmates, talk to them and help others. In addition, we should take the initiative to do some public work to increase students' goodwill.

Third, pay attention to skills.

When you get along with your classmates, you should be honest with each other, but when you give advice to your classmates, you must use your brains and pay attention to methods and skills. One thing to note is that giving advice to others must not be in front of everyone, so as not to be embarrassed and lose face.