Only when you become good friends with a girl can she completely release herself in front of you, and you can accurately know her character.
When many boys chase girls, they often chase girls according to their personality, which is actually a mistake.
For example, when you mistakenly think that a girl is quiet, you often ask her to read books with you, but in fact, she doesn't like reading, she prefers a lively environment, and that girl will naturally not feel in love when dating you.
When boys are chasing girls, they should start with the characteristics of girls, so as to catch up with girls more accurately and effectively.
For example, girls' hobbies and emotional needs are relatively easy for boys to master.
If the girl you like is emotionally insecure, then you need to pursue her in the direction of "how to give girls a sense of security", which will be more effective.
Don't be in a hurry to confess to girls. Let your feelings "mature naturally" is the "good prescription" for finding a girlfriend.
I have met many boys, and the reason why I can't find a girlfriend is that I like to confess to girls.
Because, they think, if you like a girl, you must express it to her. Only through confession can you determine the relationship between lovers.
In fact, boys who like to express their feelings often ignore the feelings of girls and only consider their own feelings. You like girls, but girls don't like you yet. How can she accept your confession?
Many times, confession is to destroy a relationship with your own hands, not the beginning of a relationship.
Any relationship needs some time to develop. In fact, boys can make the relationship "mature" step by step without worrying at all. When you are as close as lovers, at this time, you should make a promise to the girl, even if it is to confirm the relationship.
Some boys will say: slowly cultivate feelings, that girl has long been driven away by others, what should I do?
Then you are too insecure. I want to say that if you don't confess quickly, you still have a chance. If you rush to confess, you won't even have friends in the end.
Therefore, if you want to find a girlfriend smoothly, don't worry and let your feelings "mature" naturally, which is in line with the laws of nature.
You think you are weak and can't find a girlfriend. In fact, "ability" is the "good prescription" for you to find a girlfriend.
Some boys find it difficult to chase girls, women are hard to understand, they are poor and not handsome, and no girls like them at all.
Here are two points, I hope boys can understand.
It's not that women are difficult to understand, but that you don't really understand girls with your heart.
Think about it. Do you know her story? Do you know her hobbies? Do you know the bottom line of her behavior?
A woman's heart is difficult to understand, and difficult to understand is not difficult to understand, mainly because you don't have the heart to understand the girl you like.
Being beautiful and rich can really make girls like it better, but it only plays a greater role when two people just come into contact. After getting along for a long time, they still have to take "love" as the core.
If you don't have an innate advantage, then manage a good relationship and learn more love skills, so that girls can really fall in love with you, not because of your face value or money. Besides, you can't guarantee that you will be rich forever. Only love is eternal.
For example, many boys always don't know how to chat with girls when chasing them. These problems can be made up by learning skills.
Therefore, learning more love skills and improving your emotional intelligence is the "good prescription" for finding a girlfriend.