1. Communication and understanding: First, communicate with your mother to express your feelings and confusion. Try to understand her views and ideas and listen to her explanation. Maybe she has some specific expectations and concerns that need your mutual understanding and respect.

2. Equality and fairness: remind your mother that equality between men and women is a universal value in modern society. Girls and boys should have the same opportunities and rights to pursue their own interests and development. Emphasize that girls should also have the opportunity to contact with different activities and responsibilities, and have the ability to undertake their own responsibilities.

3. Personal abilities and interests: Emphasize that everyone has their own personal abilities and interests. Some girls may not be interested in housework, but they may do well in other fields, such as study, art and sports. It is important to encourage and support girls to develop their interests and talents, instead of limiting them to traditional gender roles.

For example, you can mention some successful female role models, such as scientists, entrepreneurs and politicians. They have made great achievements through hard work and talent. These examples can help your mother realize that girls also have many opportunities and potentials to pursue their dreams.

The most important thing is to keep an open and respectful attitude and have in-depth dialogue and understanding with your mother. Through mutual communication and respect, you can find a balance between * * * and allowing you to pursue your interests and goals.