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After I went to college, I found that my classmates were all very powerful. How to adjust your inferiority complex?
After we go to college, we may find that our classmates have everything around us, such as being good at music, sports, speeches, handicrafts and so on, and there are great men and gods in all aspects. If we look at ourselves again, we may wonder whether they come from the same education system as ourselves. Why do they only learn, and the rest can't seem to learn? . . Facing these seemingly godlike classmates, we may feel inferior. At this time, you need to recharge your batteries and adjust your thoughts and mentality. In this process, find your own value and bright spot.

First of all, believe in yourself and don't think you can't. Many times we are not unable, but dare not. A lot of things we looked at were very powerful, and then we chickened out. Some people even dare not move forward when they know it. This is unacceptable. Dare to try and believe in your learning ability after many years. Since you are interested, study and study; Since it will, let's try it. Be confident, everyone has his own value.

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? ? Second, find your own luminous point. No one will tell you what your luminous point is. You have to feel for yourself. Don't think that opportunities will find you, and someone will appreciate you. This will only happen to those great gods, because their advantages are excellent, and you already feel that others are so powerful that you feel a little inferior. What qualifications do you have to wait for others to discover? Only by finding your own bright spot can you have your own signboard, otherwise you can only look at those powerful characters from a distance.

Then, learn to enrich yourself, no matter what method you use. No one can just output without input, and neither can the Great God. If you invest too much, you will produce something that can be exported, so whether it is reading, fitness, participating in activities or participating in competitions, as long as you feel that you can enrich yourself, you can do it boldly and not conflict with time. Increase the input of the brain. When you want to have an output, something will naturally come out.

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Also, no matter what you do, you must ensure the effect. Sometimes it's worse to be useless. It not only takes up our time, but also consumes our hearts. In the face of repeated efforts but no effect, it will hit our hearts that want to get rid of the status quo. Under the display of the gap again and again, we will be left further and further, and our psychology will become more negative. Therefore, on the road of adjusting mentality and enriching ourselves, we must ensure that our efficiency is very high, so that we can see the value of our efforts and truly get rid of the existing inferiority complex.

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Therefore, I believe that only by believing in yourself, finding the bright spot and constantly enriching it and ensuring the effect can we effectively adjust our inferiority complex. In fact, when you see those great people in college, you don't have to compare yourself too much, let alone be too negative. After all, the inch has its strengths and the feet are short, so it is good to treat it correctly.