First, love lacks a sense of responsibility. The love of contemporary college students is simple and fast. In the fast-paced life of society, college students' love begins to simplify. There is no inherent "sizing up the situation" in the past, and girls are not as "reserved" as before. When they feel ok and don't hate it, they start to fall in love, regardless of the future.

Second, one-sidedness in love. Contemporary college students often consider one-sided issues when they fall in love. They only consider what happens when two people are together and how to sublimate their feelings, without considering the influence of family, society and things around them. Often care about the process of love without considering the result, and separate love from marriage. On impulse, regardless of consequences and influence.

Third, romanticize in love. Contemporary college students pay more attention to emotional pleasure and pursue realistic happiness in love. In the process of communication between two people, every festival is often arranged in a timetable, and it is common to give gifts to each other. Boys are often seen kneeling in front of their girlfriends on campus. The number of red flowers and the way of seeking love are shocking. On Valentine's Day and lovers' birthdays, it is a grand banquet and careful preparation to surprise each other. But at the same time of romance, lovers do not value the success of love, and even think that love and marriage are two different things.