As Gu Long said, if a woman wants to touch a man's heart, she must first touch his stomach. Leo Oufan Lee's wife Li Yuying is a successful example.
Li Yuying is an employee of an insurance company, but she wrote a book called Memories of Food. Leo Oufan Lee touted his wife as his hobby: "I think her cooking is more amazing. She never makes any effort to cook every day, and serves two or three side dishes in less than half an hour. " He also praised this article as his wife's masterpiece: "Her style is the fusion of Cantonese and classical Chinese in poems and novels in the Ming and Qing Dynasties. There is no other rhetorical material. If she reads in Cantonese, it may be more literary. "
Leo Oufan Lee was not Li Yuying's first husband. Li Yuying's ex-husband is Deng. When she was at the University of Chicago, their home was a living room for many China students to relax and adjust their lives. Usually, they order a "hero post" on Friday afternoon-there is a party at Deng and his family on Saturday night. A group of international students get together to talk about their study and life and express their sulks. The climax of the party is to eat Cantonese porridge made in Li Yuying. The most common ones are preserved egg and lean meat porridge, boat porridge, porridge and chicken porridge. Li Yuying recalled: "After all, our home provided a warm place and invited these foreign vagrants to eat some food from their hometown. Although it is snowy outside, it is warm inside. "
Leo Oufan Lee is one of these foreign vagrants. 1983 One winter evening, in the Far East Library of the University of Chicago, Li Yuying saw Leo Oufan Lee sitting alone on the big sofa reading a book. "I went to the library to find Zheng Wen that day. I didn't expect to meet you. Your expression at that time aroused my pity. I want to take care of you when I see your miserable appearance, and I don't know whether you are married or not. I want Zheng Wen to invite you home for dinner. " That night, Leo Oufan Lee ate Cantonese roast duck cooked by Li Yuying and was full of praise. Since then, he has become a frequent visitor to the Deng family, and a family of three has been boarding for five years.
After many years, Deng Cheng became good friends, not husband and wife. Many years later, Leo Oufan Lee and he became husband and wife, and Deng and he became good friends. They still often eat together, but their roles have changed. "My job hasn't changed since I returned to Hong Kong, but my husband has changed from Deng to Leo Oufan Lee-you were a diner at my home 17 years ago, and it seems that I began to take care of you at that time."
The world is so wonderful. What is rare is that Li Yuying's tone is so calm, his mentality is so peaceful and his mind is so open.