There is a saying that is very good. Among a couple, the one who talks a lot is the favorite. This sentence is very appropriate here.
In the recent talk show "Listen to Sister", Shen blew himself up about why he didn't get married. She said:
The subtext of this sentence is obvious. She must have urged marriage more than once, whether before or behind the scenes, she must have said it many times.
As the saying goes, true love can make a woman brave, but no matter how brave a woman is, she will take a bold step forward only after determining a man's mind.
Men and women are destined to be different. Even if women are in a hurry to get married, they will inevitably be somewhat reserved and passive. That is the dignity after marriage, in case of being rejected.
Women are always braver than men, because men only need to go through their own hearts, while women have to go through the shackles of social customs and morality to face their faces.
Shen's face was throwing caution to the wind, but how did Du Haitao respond to him?
In "Our Novice in the Workplace", Du Haitao responded like this:
He reached an understanding with her? Then why is Shen still urging marriage in public? Since it is * * * knowledge, shouldn't it be the same voice?
Shen was obviously wronged. She shyly urged her marriage, but in the end she offered to apologize to Du Haitao for fear that he would be wronged. Du Haitao's simple words seem to coax Shen to fall in love with him again. How humble Shen should be.
In the program "Listen to My Sister", Shen's humbleness is really more than urging marriage.
She once said frankly:
Women chase men and take the initiative, which is a little humble at best, but what is even more humble is the back.
Soon, in the program, Shen talked about his behavior when he met Du Haitao's mother, and all the guests were shocked.
Shen said to:
When Shen said this, she was not embarrassed at all. On the contrary, she seems to appreciate her courage. However, smart people know that she is eager to get married and wants to be a birthright, even making her mother-in-law feel a little uncomfortable.
He who talks too much will lose. Too much talk. Do you think Du Haitao talks much to her mother-in-law? Not exactly.
Then who will Du Haitao talk to? Orfila.
Before Shen appeared, Du Haitao confessed to the goddess four times. Although many netizens think that Shen is more beautiful than Orfila, this has not stopped Du Haitao's "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
Du Haitao and Orfila were a couple in a variety show when Happy Camp was broadcast in the early years. Both of them are not big coffee in the show, they are foil and often help each other. Over time, they naturally gave birth to some emotions.
It is said that at the poorest time, two people shared a room, and after a very difficult time, they had a feeling of mutual appreciation.
20 12 years, happy families are very popular. In the first episode, when everyone was playing games, Du Haitao admitted that he had a secret crush on Orfila for many years.
As a result, the guests began to shout "Together, Together" excitedly, but Orfila disagreed.
In less than a month, Du Haitao will celebrate his 25th birthday.
The program group carefully prepared birthday cakes and flowers for him. Who would have thought that Du Haitao borrowed flowers to offer Buddha and gave them to Orfila, saying, "I really like Sister Xin, and I love Sister Xin very much …", but Orfila still didn't respond.
20 13, 1 June, Du Haitao seized every opportunity and boldly announced: "I love her more than my lover." Orfila still don't talk.
At the premiere of the movie Happy Home, Du Haitao confessed Orfila for the fourth time and said, "Sister Xin is the most beautiful in my mind. After 600 million, she married Orfila and went home. "
Wu Xin, on the other hand, used a phrase "Let's talk about it after the box office is over one billion" to perfunctory things.
In this unrequited love, you see that Du Haitao is simply Orfila's little brother. Talking too much makes people feel verbose. If a girl is reserved and fails again, you will do it again, but if you don't say yes twice, the man should know the result. If you stick to your own opinions again, you will be a little annoyed. However, Du Haitao has fully confessed four times.
Compared with Shen's numerous urging marriages and Du Haitao's urging marriages in public, it is simply four times. In private, you don't know how many times he will hint. So in his love affair with Orfila, he is obviously a "chatterbox".
Why do you say that in the relationship between two people, who talks more and who loves who more? Who talks more often means who is more active.
As the saying goes, in a relationship, whoever takes the initiative will lose, which is absolutely true. Because you take the initiative, it shows that you care more about him. You take the initiative to urge marriage, you take the initiative to call mom. If you vent your emotions, you may offend each other. You also offered to apologize and explain immediately.
Don't you take the initiative because you care about him and love him? You are afraid that he will be unhappy and worried that he will be upset because of you. You always think of him, but what about him? Have you ever done this for you?
Some people say that Du Haitao is actually a warm man, and when he is in love with Shen, he is also very kind to her.
It seems that no matter where he is, for example, he will prepare warm water for her to drink when she wakes up;
Knowing that she is stronger and her efforts, I don't want to make her suffer. I hope everyone loves her more.
I will create a little romance for her anytime and anywhere, and I will never forget the sense of ceremony.
These sweetness are indeed proof of love, but they are not proof of true love.
You know, some men are essentially warm men, and whoever they fall in love with will be like this. He is not the only one who pays for Shen.
So how can he prove his true love for her? In my opinion, Shen has taken the initiative. As Du Haitao, we should not use this specious sentence to end the controversy of public opinion.
For a successful man, only by doing these two things is true love.
An uneducated prodigal son who chats with you every day does spend a lot of time and energy for you, but this is not love, because he may be bored or flirt with many people at the same time. After all, he has plenty of time.
A rich man booked a hotel for you just for your birthday, which really cost you a lot of money, but it is not necessarily love, because he is rich, and this is the routine he used last time to pick up girls;
Another college student saved a month's living expenses and bought you your favorite little gift. A big boss who is as expensive as gold finds time to date you every day, which must belong to paying scarce resources and getting closer to true love.
What does Du Haitao lack most now? He is not short of money, fame, house or car. He just needs time. It takes time to prepare and hold a wedding. After marriage, you need more time. If Du Haitao is willing to give Shen a lot of time, it is true love.
Some people say that maybe Du Haitao is at the critical stage of his career and can't marry Shen, but Mei Niang is thinking that if a man has made clear his girlfriend's mind and can't spare the time to get married, he won't say anything about sacrificing for you. He is a completely self-centered man, okay?
Originally, the sacrifice between lovers did not need to rise to the height of life and freedom. Generally speaking, when a man is willing to try to do something for you that he once hated, embarrassed or was not good at, he is closer to true love.
For example, a warm and cheerful person has suppressed you for a long time, an autistic person is willing to show you love, and an otaku is willing to accompany you to the supermarket or travel. These are infinitely close to love.
For example, Du Haitao always thinks that it is not the right time to get married, and now she kneels down and proposes. This is love, otherwise it is really not.
And if Shen is willing to be a spare tire, spare tire, then forget it.
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