1, I don't know how to make small surprises.
Girls want some little surprises and romance in love.
"Steel Straight Man" thinks these are too much trouble. They prefer talking directly to beating around the bush.
It's really hard for girls to impress themselves if they don't know how to make small surprises for themselves.
Besides, living with such a boy for a long time will inevitably be a bit boring.
2. Don't understand the subtext
Women's minds are complicated, but they also need men to guess. Only by guessing a woman's mind can we grasp the trend of feelings.
Only by guessing a woman's mind can we grasp the trend of feelings.
On the contrary, if you don't understand the subtext, many things will be wrong. For example, sometimes a woman pretends to be angry, but you think she is really angry.
And sometimes women ignore you and coax you, and you are still stupid.
3, will not take the initiative to coax girls happy
Because they are direct, inflexible and have little sweet talk.
For example, after a quarrel, they won't take the initiative to make women happy because they can't let go of their face.
In the long run, girls will feel tired and disheartened.
Straight men are divided into ordinary straight men and steel straight men, and there are great differences between them, which are embodied in the following seven points.
(1), about clothes
Ordinary straight man: whatever, wear whatever you want in the closet.
I don't think about what to wear tomorrow, what clothes I can wear in this weather, and it's not very dirty, that's all.
Steel straight man: what should I choose to wear for a big man?
2 about selfies.
Ordinary straight men: straight men take selfies, with their nostrils facing the camera and bigger than their eyes.
It was done in a second or two, that is, I took it right away and refused. Steel Straight Man: What? Self-portrait? Not masculine at all!
(3) About appearance
Ordinary straight man: Get up in the morning to see his appearance. A beard that has not been shaved for a week is messy, but it is a sign of maturity and charm.
Steel straight man: Although I am fat, bald and sloppy, this is the real man.
Those men who take the time to dress up are all n guns.
(4) About girls' discomfort
Ordinary straight man: 39 degrees? Then drink more hot water.
Steel straight man: 39 degrees? Is it so powerful? !
⑤ About girls' makeup.
Ordinary straight man: Why is makeup so slow? I've been waiting for you 15 minutes, and this makeup is no different.
Steel Straight Man: Why is it so slow? I've been waiting for you 15 minutes. Hey, what happened to your red eye? Did you quarrel with your roommate? Ah, you're wearing such beautiful makeup. Do you know it looks like a wave?
6. About watching movies with girls
Ordinary straight men: Many straight men will find a girl who agrees to watch a movie with them very interesting and stable.
Steel straight man: if you are sure, like yourself. "I knew you would agree to be my girlfriend" scared the girls to death.
In fact, straight men are also very cute many times, because they are straight and look stupid.
And many straight men are good people and kind-hearted, but sometimes they seem confused.
Therefore, both sides need to be tolerant. Girls understand them, and boys try to "bend" a little.
The obvious feature of straight men is linear thinking. They are not good at guessing other people's subtext and hints. Sometimes honesty and frankness make you doubt that you even married a big fool.
Are you a straight steel man?